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It's actually pretty hard to treat both genders equally especially as you grow older because by then you're hard-wired by societal standards.. Little kids can do it easily though.
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HughJack wrote: by then you're hard-wired by societal standards.. Little kids can do it easily though.
why so many gotta blame social standards?

but yeah if people did live when they only could relay on themselfs then sure thing that they would seek eachother (for various reasons, either it being comfort, tasks/quests etc) or stand more alone.

also why would one be more draw that way then many now?
because of lost feelings or messed up mentally?
how open or too freely we can do things (and much more open to being gay or explore for such) and that there is so many people and so much content (like if some guys started to watch too much "regular" porn then getting sick of the common ways then getting drawn more to other guy after that?)

oh what ever..

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true.
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For me, I just have a hard time making friends with people in general. Doesn't matter if they are my gender or not, I end up making friends and then losing them very quickly (or just staying alone...)
I am female, and personally most of the people that have hurt me in my life are also female. Besides, males are cool too!!
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A Girl is a Girl a Guy is a Guy... There i treated em differently.
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Yeah I think that's true. I try to treat everyone equally. To me, it's more how they are as a person rather then their gender. They treat me well, I treat them well. Simple as that.
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As someone who really blurs the lines of gender, I find it hard to treat people differently based off of the fact or even really see them very differently. In general I do have more male friends than female but I think that is just due to coincidence . I also try not to assume to much about how people want to be treated gender wise and such.. because you just never know. It's easier if you just treat everyone the same. Now if you are speaking romantically or sexually that is a bit different but thats because everyone has their own needs and wants.
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PeripheralVisionary wrote:

Of course. I see every girl as a potential imouto needing love. Boys are filthy otoutos. Hmph!


I fear for the future Imoutos that will be embraced by your....."Love"...
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Yes. I tend to talk to girls more gently and seriously, while with guys I am more open and talk as if I don't give a shit.

So, with women, I leave all the silliness and childish talk out and with guys is when all the curse words and dirty words come out. Of course, this changes depending on the person. I know some women that have a sharp tongue and are not afraid to use it!
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Treat girls as sisters and guys... well I sort of hardly talk to them as studying in an all girls school, but i guess I act normal yet very awkwardly
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Girls tend to like me and find me cute, its probably because im gay although i've not told anyone irl yet so..
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well I have social anxiety I think I treat everyone the same.....
but as a girl ... I think girls makes me more anxious like they have high standards on social meetings... like hugs and stuff...
guys are easier even if u meet a guy and then say nothing for a while they don't go crazy ...

So I guess in the end I do treat them different... like I try to speak more... or so...
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I treat people like they treat me. I usually am cold against new people. I am nice to those that are nice to me and i like them, if not then I will treat them worse.
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Everyone? No.

Personally I do it more than I used to, but not on any major level I'd say. It really pisses me off when people treat the opposite gender to them as another species entirely.
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I distrust everyone. I do notice that I tend to distrust girls more a bit. Pretty sure that's due to my personal experiences though.

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