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When someone is a dick.... because of someone else....
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If someone is a dick to you because of their experience with someone else... is it unreasonable to find that unacceptable?

I've had someone be a dick to me a few times, supposedly due to his experience with someone else. The first time was ok, and understandable. The second time was BS. Still, I tried to figure out if we had issues that we needed to sort out (not the result of feelings caused by someone else). All I got was silence.

So, when I chose to separate myself from this person, I told him how I felt about it. I was given this as a response:

Apparently you don't realize how frustrating other people can be, and how that can affect what people say and perceive things when they're in a bad mood. Regardless, I will admit I am fairly moody and that is on me. That said, since this is your choice, I will not stop you, and good bye.


So, wait, I'm supposed to be good with you being a dick to me, because you are mad at someone else?

I answered with:

Apparently, you don't understand that being frustrated at someone is not justification to be a dick to someone else. :/




I'm just baffled at the moment. Do people really think this is normal, okay, or should be tolerated? I usually don't blast my shit, so specifically.... but seriously... You can't just be an asshat, when you want, to who you want, and expect them to be okay with it just because you're upset with someone else.
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No, its not ok
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Lol that sounds a lot like my family members

I don't do this though

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I once read a doujin where a guy is such a dick God literally turns him into another guys dick. Yaoi ensues.
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If someone frustrates me, I may be salty to anyone in general for a few minutes but then I go back to normal. Makes me question where this guy you speak of finds so much salt.
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PeripheralVisionary wrote:

I once read a doujin where a guy is such a dick God literally turns him into another guys dick. Yaoi ensues.


Sauce?
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No. I take my friendships pretty seriously. If someone I called a friend acted like that towards me I'd let them go in a heartbeat. I assume he must have been pretty bad for it to unnerve you enough that you felt the need to make a topic about it. I'm sorry if you considered him a good friend before this point.
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XxDarkSasuxX wrote:

No. I take my friendships pretty seriously. If someone I called a friend acted like that towards me I'd let them go in a heartbeat. I assume he must have been pretty bad for it to unnerve you enough that you felt the need to make a topic about it. I'm sorry if you considered him a good friend before this point.


No, he wasn't a good friend or anything. Someone I had been gaming with since September.

I just really get frustrated in situations like this.... and I also know how much I went out of my way to smooth things over.

I don't know if he just lacks communication skills or what. Either way, I cut my losses.
I find that a lot of people don't know how to respond when you talk straight with them, these days. I blame social media.
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In general, I can understand if someone was recently in a situation where it left them bitter or still angry, and if you touch on a similar or the same subject do so gently. However at a certain point the person needs to get the fuck over it, because you do not have time for their shit.








Unless it is your significant other. Then you have plenty of time. (within reason)
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Of course it's stupid to be a complete dick to someone when they haven't done anything wrong to you and you're angry with someone else. I'm in a similar situation at the moment. My "bestie" is a complete twat but apparently it's because she has issues and is upset about stuff that happened years ago. Personally, I'm not giving any sympathy.

There are times though when we should give people who've been through shit sympathy. OH WAIT! I forgot, no we shouldn't. Because everyone has to deal with their own problems, right?
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eclair-lumiere wrote:

Of course it's stupid to be a complete dick to someone when they haven't done anything wrong to you and you're angry with someone else. I'm in a similar situation at the moment. My "bestie" is a complete twat but apparently it's because she has issues and is upset about stuff that happened years ago. Personally, I'm not giving any sympathy.

There are times though when we should give people who've been through shit sympathy. OH WAIT! I forgot, no we shouldn't. Because everyone has to deal with their own problems, right?


Are your panties still in a twist about my view on emotional bullying? Hmmmm... get the hell over it?
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PeripheralVisionary wrote:

I once read a doujin where a guy is such a dick God literally turns him into another guys dick. Yaoi ensues.


Where the hell do you find such.....


Now to OP.

Sound like the person is venting on you.
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PeripheralVisionary wrote:

I once read a doujin where a guy is such a dick God literally turns him into another guys dick. Yaoi ensues.


Reminds me of Bad Johnson. A guy is a dick to women, and finds it hard to keep relationships due to cheating. He blames his penis, rather than taking responsibility. He wished that he didn't have it.

He wakes up, and his penis is gone. He then finds out it has been turned into a person.

The final showdown is pretty funny. He uses viagra to stiffen and paralyze the penis person.

Actually pretty good. Surprisingly.

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Well if you tried your best, you tried your best.

Sometimes a friendly relationship just doesnt work well for whatever reason.

And with games these days.. a lot of gamers tend to be pretty ragey anyway xD
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I came because this thread had "dick" in it, im dissapointed
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