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Posted 1/4/16

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I tried tinder and it made me lose faith in humanity. Forget dating..


What why?


Idk how tinder is, but I'm sure he experienced what most of us guys did on dating sites. U write to a bunch of people and get only 10% of ur messages replied to, or less ^^
Posted 1/4/16

Arielgirl375 wrote:


ZENI7H wrote:

I tried tinder and it made me lose faith in humanity. Forget dating..


What why?


I'm not what people wanted. The girls used it as a game. Like it was just weird, I've met people who just didn't even reply back after the first two messages. And people just aren't similar to me
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I don't know anyone who has had good, lasting results.

I did try it for a while just to give it a chance. I didn't want to say bad things about it without understanding it. But, yeah, it seems to suck. And it's totally easier to talk in person. I guess it's easy to talk online, but none of that tone goes through. You're sharing info, not talking.

Most people can't hold an online convo for beans. They either are boring or can't type. I remember texting this one girl who would just give one word replies no matter what I said. I mean, you gave me your number without me asking so you must be interested, right? Tried to get her to text a message worth reading for about half a day before I just gave up.

I guess the sites work for girls, but guys will have a harder time. Lots of spammers and f***boys who ruin it for everyone else and get people all jaded and suspicious. Try real life. It's better. And it's sort of fun to talk to new people and know they're warming up to you. Online, there's no reward like that and you might as well be browsing for fruit in a virtual market.


That's because she was being swamped with the other guys who she gave her number to. Either that or she just wanted you to ask her out already. That's how it is HOT OR COLD. There isn't a middle ground.
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This was so funny to read. Very helpful
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Morbidhanson wrote:

I don't know anyone who has had good, lasting results.

I did try it for a while just to give it a chance. I didn't want to say bad things about it without understanding it. But, yeah, it seems to suck. And it's totally easier to talk in person. I guess it's easy to talk online, but none of that tone goes through. You're sharing info, not talking.

Most people can't hold an online convo for beans. They either are boring or can't type. I remember texting this one girl who would just give one word replies no matter what I said. I mean, you gave me your number without me asking so you must be interested, right? Tried to get her to text a message worth reading for about half a day before I just gave up.

I guess the sites work for girls, but guys will have a harder time. Lots of spammers and f***boys who ruin it for everyone else and get people all jaded and suspicious. Try real life. It's better. And it's sort of fun to talk to new people and know they're warming up to you. Online, there's no reward like that and you might as well be browsing for fruit in a virtual market.


That's because she was being swamped with the other guys who she gave her number to. Either that or she just wanted you to ask her out already. That's how it is HOT OR COLD. There isn't a middle ground.


Yeah, maybe. But maybe not. But it doesn't matter because no matter who is right, it's still pretty stupid. Online dating is one of those things that seems to work in theory but not in reality. Sort of like communism.

That being said, there were a couple of nice, sweet girls. But a few of those out of a few hundred others doesn't seem very good. Still better odds in person. It's easier to get a spark going by becoming friends in real life and progressing slowly. Online, everyone is distrustful, and for good reason.

And if you want something fast, spend $40 on a club night and get to work after meeting everyone there. Takes like 3 hours.
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Posted 1/4/16

Morbidhanson wrote:


lambofgenesis wrote:


Morbidhanson wrote:

I don't know anyone who has had good, lasting results.

I did try it for a while just to give it a chance. I didn't want to say bad things about it without understanding it. But, yeah, it seems to suck. And it's totally easier to talk in person. I guess it's easy to talk online, but none of that tone goes through. You're sharing info, not talking.

Most people can't hold an online convo for beans. They either are boring or can't type. I remember texting this one girl who would just give one word replies no matter what I said. I mean, you gave me your number without me asking so you must be interested, right? Tried to get her to text a message worth reading for about half a day before I just gave up.

I guess the sites work for girls, but guys will have a harder time. Lots of spammers and f***boys who ruin it for everyone else and get people all jaded and suspicious. Try real life. It's better. And it's sort of fun to talk to new people and know they're warming up to you. Online, there's no reward like that and you might as well be browsing for fruit in a virtual market.


That's because she was being swamped with the other guys who she gave her number to. Either that or she just wanted you to ask her out already. That's how it is HOT OR COLD. There isn't a middle ground.


Yeah, maybe. But maybe not. But it doesn't matter because no matter who is right, it's still pretty stupid. Online dating is one of those things that seems to work in theory but not in reality. Sort of like communism.

That being said, there were a couple of nice, sweet girls. But a few of those out of a few hundred others doesn't seem very good. Still better odds in person. It's easier to get a spark going by becoming friends in real life and progressing slowly. Online, everyone is distrustful, and for good reason.


lol yeah. I agree, I think the problem isn't the people but the platform.

I mean Werina, Arielgirl, and <whoever else on this thread> seem to be on dating sites. How much u wanna bet 0 of them would reply to our PMs if we had messaged them on there XD. But they replied to our CR PMs :P.
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That makes sense. It doesn't help that when you get a match it says "keep playing" or message. I could see how people treat it like a game. Plus they aren't really matches at all
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I need to stop clicking this thread lol, it isn't getting any better, just more of what expected, it's slightly depressing
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That sounds kind of judgy. Can't speak for everyone but I tend to go for guys who have the same interests I have written on their profile. Face is important but that's not the only thing I go for . I also tend to reply to mostly all the guys who pm me on dating profiles
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That sounds kind of judgy. Can't speak for everyone but I tend to go for guys who have the same interests I have written on their profile. Face is important but that's not the only thing I go for . I also tend to reply to mostly all the guys who pm me on dating profiles


that's insane... cuz that's like 300 messages / day.

I mean rn on cr I have 160 unread messages because I feel unmotivated to reply, how do u reply 300 everyday on a dating site. That would kill me.
Posted 1/4/16 , edited 1/4/16

Arielgirl375 wrote:


That sounds kind of judgy. Can't speak for everyone but I tend to go for guys who have the same interests I have written on their profile. Face is important but that's not the only thing I go for . I also tend to reply to mostly all the guys who pm me on dating profiles

Okay, so hypothetically I'm your match. You have more matches than me because that's really how it works. You don't have any reason to reply to me or the 15 others you have. Well because you have many more options

Edit: wait what? You have 180 messages? 300? What the hell lol. I dont have but like 10 messages.
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ZENI7H wrote:


Arielgirl375 wrote:


That sounds kind of judgy. Can't speak for everyone but I tend to go for guys who have the same interests I have written on their profile. Face is important but that's not the only thing I go for . I also tend to reply to mostly all the guys who pm me on dating profiles

Okay, so hypothetically I'm your match. You have more matches than me because that's really how it works. You don't have any reason to reply to me or the 15 others you have. Well because you have many more options

Well... Like I said face is a plus but what draws me in is what's in the bio. For many females it's if interests match up or you got a funny photo that show your personality. It could be a combination of things. It just depends. I guess for me the best thing is to be yourself.
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I just get lots of super creepy messages form men 50+ years old and a slight following of lonely horny people that don't even want to chat so I usually don't bother.
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I don't get 300 messages a day. A lot less. I also get notifications when I get a message.
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Posted 1/4/16

ZENI7H wrote:


Arielgirl375 wrote:


That sounds kind of judgy. Can't speak for everyone but I tend to go for guys who have the same interests I have written on their profile. Face is important but that's not the only thing I go for . I also tend to reply to mostly all the guys who pm me on dating profiles

Okay, so hypothetically I'm your match. You have more matches than me because that's really how it works. You don't have any reason to reply to me or the 15 others you have. Well because you have many more options

Edit: wait what? You have 180 messages? 300? What the hell lol. I dont have but like 10 messages.


well to get more than 10 PMs, you have to send out PMs right? that's what I did :D.

idk though, in the end, there's only like 4-7 people I talk to regularly on CR, the other people don't log on or don't check their PMs (like Werina).
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