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Is masturbating a casual activity?
Posted 1/6/16

lilliputianliar wrote:

It's a weird experience for me though since, sometimes I'll be tired and ready to fall asleep, then decide to masturbate and when I finish I'm wide awake and can't sleep.


I know that feel
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Posted 1/6/16 , edited 1/6/16

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Sorry mods if this is too inappropriate for the forum, please lock if it is.


It's kind of borderline. We'll see how it goes. As long as people stay polite, don't go into graphic detail, or get vulgar, I think it'll be okay.

Also, I sense that while certainly a bit of levity isn't inappropriate, this was started with serious intent, so posts that seem to just be fap jokes/memes should also be avoided I think.

I've deleted a few things--nothing too bad really, but the tone was getting a bit low-brow, so...
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Posted 1/6/16
I used to do it often, till my girlfriend came around and for obvious reasons I don't really have that urge any more.
Posted 1/6/16

bosch_doc wrote:

I do it whenever and wherever I want.


^ this girl gets me.
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Posted 1/6/16

Frosty563 wrote:


fredreload wrote:

What's PSA?


PSA is an acronym for Public Service Announcement.
Basically in the opening the thread starter was just saying for guys to make sure to clean up after themselves.


Sounds like my mom = =, I hope I left no evidence.
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Posted 1/6/16
A few (disjointed)thoughts..... I think there's far too much shame... I don't trust people, especially guys, who say they never do, because of the issues in probability, and my feeling that repression without outlet tends to draw negative behaviors in time.
I think it's an appropriate release of stress and frustration, regardless of relationship status. It isn't realistic or appropriate the expect your partner to service every sexual whim.
Why do we take a lighter view of anti anxiety drugs than masturbation? I just don't get why wanking is socially on par with peeping... As long as you wash your hands, aren't ignoring obligations, and aren't forcing me to witness against my will, I couldn't care less if you masturbate 3 hours a day.

Posted 1/6/16
For me no. I need motivation or well nothing happens.
Posted 1/6/16 , edited 1/6/16
I do it mostly because I'm bored and love orgasms, rather than me being in a state of lust beforehand.
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Posted 1/6/16 , edited 1/6/16

PeripheralVisionary wrote:

I do it mostly because I'm bored and love orgasms, rather than me being in a state of lust beforehand.


^

Although sometimes outside factors make me horny enough to want to.
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Posted 1/6/16
Since privacy has been touched upon in this thread, I personally believe that if people masturbate they should keep to themselves about it. It's just one of those things nobody cares to hear about in public....which also reminds me of how silly it is that you can go on porn video-streaming sites and there are options to share those videos on Facebook and Twitter. Yeah, like, I'm gonna share some hot lesbian video I beat off to on Facebook so all my friends & brother know.
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Posted 1/6/16
Uh wtf am I doing here.

Hmm I can say one thing: I get super sleepy and tired afterwards
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Posted 1/6/16
I personally don't think it's healthy to do it all the time in THAT casual a manner.

I understand a couple of times a week for most normal people, but it's just a waste of time that could have been spent doing something else instead of making yourself tired.
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Posted 1/6/16
Appropriateness in a masturbation thread? I'm not sure I have that level of self control...

Alright. As a topic, I don't think it should be so stigmatised that it would only be talked about in hushed whispers, in a dark alley, as if you're about to do a drug deal. Exaggeration. I know. Nor do I think it should be such a casual topic for discussion that you'd bring up your weekly masturbation count to your neighbour, when you see them at the supermarket. As with everything sexual, I would prefer it not to be as hush hush as it is, especially for women, considering how it's perceived as unladylike. Taking my perverseness out of this, I don't see why such arbitrary rules should prevent a woman from exploring and "enjoying" her body. We all do it... Well, I'm sure the vast majority of us do it, so it shouldn't be that outrageous of a topic.

That's not to say it should be a casual activity, or a social one, for that matter. It's one thing to say that it shouldn't be so incredibly private. It's another thing, entirely, to say that it should be a social activity. I just think there's just something very... "personally intimate" about masturbation, and even if a person shouldn't be ashamed of doing it, privacy isn't that bad of a thing where such an intimate activity is concerned.

As for me...

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Posted 1/6/16

Gross1985 wrote:

Since privacy has been touched upon in this thread, I personally believe that if people masturbate they should keep to themselves about it. It's just one of those things nobody cares to hear about in public....which also reminds me of how silly it is that you can go on porn video-streaming sites and there are options to share those videos on Facebook and Twitter. Yeah, like, I'm gonna share some hot lesbian video I beat off to on Facebook so all my friends & brother know.


Haha you make a good point.
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Posted 1/6/16

PeripheralVisionary wrote:

I do it mostly because I'm bored and love orgasms, rather than me being in a state of lust beforehand.





ayaundwolf wrote:


PeripheralVisionary wrote:

I do it mostly because I'm bored and love orgasms, rather than me being in a state of lust beforehand.


^

Although sometimes outside factors make me horny enough to want to.



^ What they said, and it helps me sleep sometimes, lol.
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