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Is masturbating a casual activity?
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Filthy casuals!
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Sorry, I couldn't resist saying it just this once.

Seriously, though, I'd say the whole privacy thing is because
1) Most people are uptight about sexual stuff and don't want to:
1a) Be seen doing such by their friends
1b) See their friends doing such things

As for casually doing it, I mean, do people want to interrupt whatever they're doing to do it? Probably depends what they're doing at the time.

As for mood, my *guess* is that guys care less about the mood than girls. Also, sometimes, particularly for younger guys, it's an effective way to bring it down when it's annoyingly up. Seriously, the male reproductive system must've been designed by an idiot, a comedian or a sadist.

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Posted in a thread about underwear earlier this week, now posting in a thread about masturbation. I can't wait to see what the next thread turns out to be...
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lilliputianliar wrote:

Yes. It's pretty much a daily activity for me. It's a weird experience for me though since, sometimes I'll be tired and ready to fall asleep, then decide to masturbate and when I finish I'm wide awake and can't sleep.


Isn't like suppose to help sleep like get more tired and not keep you awake xD just like regular sex afterwords you feel tired and feel like K.O sometimes >_<
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What no hot today?
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It depends on what you mean by casual and the person.
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ShawnZ11 wrote:


lilliputianliar wrote:

Yes. It's pretty much a daily activity for me. It's a weird experience for me though since, sometimes I'll be tired and ready to fall asleep, then decide to masturbate and when I finish I'm wide awake and can't sleep.


Isn't like suppose to help sleep like get more tired and not keep you awake xD just like regular sex afterwords you feel tired and feel like K.O sometimes >_<


I know. That's why it's so weird lol.
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It was so common in my teens and twenties. I'd have some fantasy while pleasuring myself. But even better than the big M imo is having a nice dream, if you know what I mean. A very arousing WD can be as good as the real thing.
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deadscreen wrote:

EDIT: when I was younger I was a masturbation machine. the urges I had at school were crazy


You mean like in the class room, in the dinner queue and such like. Hell, even on the bus, swimming room cubicles and in next door's conservatory, because, you know, it's not like I did that when I was younger ''¬_¬
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had a guy back in college that was asking me advice about how to masturbate.
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Lifthrasir wrote:

had a guy back in college that was asking me advice about how to masturbate.


HAHAHAHAHA!! mind telling me story in full detail via pm ?

as for me, masterbation is not a casual activity, i very very rarely do it.. im usually too tired, but nowadays the urge is moderate
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sure. you weirdo.
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Not really something I talk about with randoms, but I will give my opinion:

Rub it until you feel good.
That is all.

I wish I could do it more though.
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This thread triggered a memory I had of a guy from High School who told me one summer he Masturbated for 3 days straight in his room. Told me he stole some of his fathers Viagra and a bit of prostate simulation so he could keep going. I was shocked and a bit disturbed, because theres no way in hell that he finished unscathed.
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Masturbation is an activity that shouldn't carry the stigma it does and isn't immoral in the least from my perspective, but it really is a deeply private affair. You certainly shouldn't just suddenly start masturbating in the middle of a commercial break while watching television with other people around unless they've already indicated they're okay with that (I wouldn't be), and you really shouldn't talk about it with anyone who hasn't said they're comfortable discussing the topic (I'd obviously be more open to that). Regardless, mutual masturbation is a thing couples do so it technically is a social affair. I could even imagine some contexts where more than two people mutually consent to participate in masturbation either of their own genitals or those of others in a social context, so the idea isn't totally divorced from reality. It's just an unusual idea.
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Irishsushi wrote:

Its not something I like talking about. I don't know why but talking about sexual stuff even with close friends makes me feel kinda weird. But its defiantly a casual thing for me I don't see it as a big deal.


*leers* gringringrin
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well i think it's a pretty casual activity (haha "do u wanna do an activity together") anyways but social... nah. it's not something i talk about. to anyone. ever.
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