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Evalias wrote:

When you're used to shit being easy, your tolerance for bullshit and problems is minimal. You only start learning some determination after having to really fight uphill, like a former poster suggested. Some very cute girls especially, never have any, When shit gets fucked up they just diffuse responsibility/try to get someone to do the shit for them, otherwise they just bitch and don't get the shit done.

Lots more two-facedness from acquaintances.

Keeping up with appearances and expectations of others.

People thinking they can harass you with retarded-ass or gross shit especially when you don't know them.


This and the previous user are spot on. Also the member who mentioned envy.

Another con is that very few people will approach you. Either because they are intimidated, or because they automatically assume you are an outgoing, extroverted person and they always expect you to approach them. Attractive people are often times unapproachable, especially if they are introverted or even shy, then people assume you are arrogant. Believe it or not there are many attractive lonely people.
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I would assume, that people constantly hitting on you would be annoying. I guess... well from a female perspective, putting out and only being used for sex would be bad as well.... maybe I am not sure.
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lunarxx wrote:

being a magnet for everything with a dick, tbh


That does seem like terrible fate.>.<
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I guess falling for your looks rather than for who a person is
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I don't know about women but I have plenty of nice women seek out the onii chan in me. That and being Asian makes people assume I'm so much more intelligent than I really am. Have you seen my posts lately? I'm an idiot.
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I don't really think there would be one tbh, besides maybe the personality thing people stated already
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Downside is some men just use you as a trophy girlfriend/boyfriend. </3
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The insecure people from the opposite sex will be too afraid to be themselves around you and will instead agree/defend everything you say. When asked questions instead of honest answers they'll give answers or opinions that they think you want to hear.

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HughJack wrote:

Are there any? What are some bad things you've experienced? And if this doesn't apply to you, what do you imagine attractive people have a harder time with? Joke answers are acceptable but let's try to be as honest as we can.


Being that I'm fairly attractive, the downside I face as a more or less reclusive introvert is that I feel like I'm wasting my good looks. You're only young once, ya dig?
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Seiska wrote:

The insecure people from the opposite sex will be too afraid to be themselves around you and will instead agree/defend everything you say. When asked questions instead of honest answers they'll give answers or opinions that they think you want to hear.



Or how girls expect you to be the funniest, smartest man on earth and when they realize you're just a chill nerd who likes to game they turn a complete 180 and want nothing to do with you out of shell-shock over the deception. How dare you deceive them by looking attractive, but not being the generic personality they want!
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All I know is, if you've got an absolutely terrible personality, looks aren't gonna keep me caring. lol
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Dont know
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The elderly constantly complimenting you as "a handsome young man".
Though idk if true, 1/3 say i'm handsome 1/3 ugly(only men though idk why they comment on my looks) 1/3 slobby, mean and drowsy looking at once.

and i've been told people have hit on me, but idk if that is true since you can't ask people if they're hitting on you.

i was raised with people calling me ugly, so if i am prety as some say.
The hard thing is knowing if a woman on the street smiles at you cause you're handsome, or cause your friend put a banana peel on your shaved head(that actually happened)
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perverts
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