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disambiguos, perversion is in the eye of the beholder.

example, women usually refer to most men as perverts.
fact, statistics have shown that woman are way more 'perverted' than men. they just don't talk about it as much.

this is not a response of defense. but i'm just so bored i correct peoples perspective.
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disambiguos, perversion is in the eye of the beholder.

example, women usually refer to most men as perverts.
fact, statistics have shown that woman are way more 'perverted' than men. they just don't talk about it as much.

this is not a response of defense. but i'm just so bored i correct peoples perspective.


Okay no I was talking about the guys that'll smack a random girls ass or stare her down way longer than necessary or make comments like "how bout we go back to my place, i can make you have a great night" that stuff is perverted and annoying.
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disambiguos, perversion is in the eye of the beholder.

example, women usually refer to most men as perverts.
fact, statistics have shown that woman are way more 'perverted' than men. they just don't talk about it as much.

this is not a response of defense. but i'm just so bored i correct peoples perspective.


Okay no I was talking about the guys that'll smack a random girls ass or stare her down way longer than necessary or make comments like "how bout we go back to my place, i can make you have a great night" that stuff is perverted and annoying.


not correct of pervert, jerks maybe so yah. though it is a bit sad that it is looked down on women who are too assertive. being an amazingly unassertive guy i feel sad women don't try to be the first to talk up a guy.

though get the smacking, when i was 15 both my mom and a girl in my class constantly smacked my ass, it was uncomfortable(but i suspect they did that cause i jumped up out of shock).

but sometimes men do just doze of. i once hit a lightpole because was walking in a daze.(about the men staring at girls too long)
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disambiguos, perversion is in the eye of the beholder.

example, women usually refer to most men as perverts.
fact, statistics have shown that woman are way more 'perverted' than men. they just don't talk about it as much.

this is not a response of defense. but i'm just so bored i correct peoples perspective.


Okay no I was talking about the guys that'll smack a random girls ass or stare her down way longer than necessary or make comments like "how bout we go back to my place, i can make you have a great night" that stuff is perverted and annoying.


not correct of pervert, jerks maybe so yah. though it is a bit sad that it is looked down on women who are too assertive. being an amazingly unassertive guy i feel sad women don't try to be the first to talk up a guy.

though get the smacking, when i was 15 both my mom and a girl in my class constantly smacked my ass, it was uncomfortable(but i suspect they did that cause i jumped up out of shock).

but sometimes men do just doze of. i once hit a lightpole because was walking in a daze.(about the men staring at girls too long)


Your gonna tell me a stranger walking up to a girl touching her ass isnt being a perv. or when a stranger invites a girl to his room for sex isnt being a perv or even when strangers stare you down for 5+ minutes isnt being a perv?

Please stop defending all of these guys & just to add there is a difference between flirting and just being a pervert. Also most girls have more respect as why we dont behave this way only with others we actually know well or partners.
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A work college once said he was too good looking. When he would go out with his wife (when she was still his girlfriend), she would draw the straight men and he would draw the gays.
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Some bad ass hate attractive people lol.
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Stalkers.
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A work college once said he was too good looking. When he would go out with his wife (when she was still his girlfriend), she would draw the straight men and he would draw the gays.


This made me laugh
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Downsides I've experienced include constant attention from members of the opposite sex including those I had no interest in or found repulsive. Frequently having attention drawn to you by the idiots on the street who think it's cool to wolf whistle and make inappropriate comments to a total stranger. Having guys attempt to rape me on 3 occasions. Getting stalked by one guy for years after I broke up with him. Having other girls constantly put you down or get angry with you when their boyfriends notice you because they're so insecure about their own looks and have no confidence in their boyfriend's faithfulness. Not getting jobs because people doing the hiring are concerned that you might cause "drama" in the office. Having obsessively jealous boyfriends who act like you're a possession and don't want you to look at, speak with, or have anything to do with other people, especially other men. Getting talked down to by people who assume that if you have looks then you must have the brains of a pea. Getting asked to always be the one on group projects to give the presentations and get up front to speak instead of doing the research which is what you're actually good at. Having every moron that's had too much to drink focus on your cleavage to the exclusion of everything else around them...it's like being followed around by zombies. Having people on Metrorail masterbate at you, people expose themselves to you in the library, and getting unwanted gropes and feels anytime you have to pass through a crowd.
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If I knew you I'd get you pepper spray for your birthday.
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People will like you for your body rather then your personality
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If I knew you I'd get you pepper spray for your birthday.


Thanks ChrisChairez, I appreciate the thought. There's a few reasons why I take martial arts and have a CCW and I didn't even mention my ex husband in that last message.
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Your gonna tell me a stranger walking up to a girl touching her ass isnt being a perv. or when a stranger invites a girl to his room for sex isnt being a perv or even when strangers stare you down for 5+ minutes isnt being a perv?

Please stop defending all of these guys & just to add there is a difference between flirting and just being a pervert. Also most girls have more respect as why we dont behave this way only with others we actually know well or partners.

fact is fact, (the staring might be perverted under certain circumstance), but that is just being a jerk not a pervert in my eyes. as said. perversion is in the eyes of the beholder.
some find gay people perverted others don't.
doing something against your will or without consent is being a jerk not a pervert.
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Your gonna tell me a stranger walking up to a girl touching her ass isnt being a perv. or when a stranger invites a girl to his room for sex isnt being a perv or even when strangers stare you down for 5+ minutes isnt being a perv?

Please stop defending all of these guys & just to add there is a difference between flirting and just being a pervert. Also most girls have more respect as why we dont behave this way only with others we actually know well or partners.

fact is fact, (the staring might be perverted under certain circumstance), but that is just being a jerk not a pervert in my eyes. as said. perversion is in the eyes of the beholder.
some find gay people perverted others don't.
doing something against your will or without consent is being a jerk not a pervert.


Pervert: "a person whose sexual behavior is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable."

Im not having this conversation. You cant change my point of view.
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I have to chuckle at the back and forth between Tricer and Tinamarie101, because it reminds me of something a boyfriend of mine once said... he said, "The difference between normal and perverted is the difference between using a feather and using the whole chicken."
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