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Posted 1/8/16
"Well, i'm a most forgiving man! The sort who never could, ever would, take a position and staunchly never budge. A most forgiving man.... BUT...."



Kidding of course! I just couldn't resist!

In all seriousness though, i'm not sure. I've never been in a position where I was so wronged that I felt like I had to forgive someone.

Though, i'm "fairly" quick to forgive little wrongs, so long as the person is truly contrite or if I generally think of them as a decent person. At least, I like to think that I am.
Posted 1/8/16
No

I hold grudges against people
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Yes

If you keep staying angry the more stressed you will be.

Stress is unhealthy, and it's pretty easy to forgive someone, hating someone requires energy.
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No, I'm not very forgiving. If someone really owns up to their mistake and makes it right I will, but everyone seems to expect forgiveness just by saying they are sorry. Words are a weak way of asking for forgiveness.

One guy got super drunk at a party I was throwing and puked all over my bathroom. He came over the next day and cleaned the whole house. He's a good dude and we became friends.

Another guy stole from me and kinda-sorta apologized 10 years later. I basically told him to pay me back or go fuck himself. Never heard from him again so I assume he went and fucked himself
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I proudly say no, humans by nature adapt to almost everything, having every piece of shit I met in life get used to my laid back side is a stretch, even for a laid back dude like myself.
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Define easily forgiven?
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angry today, tomorrow back to normal. it's tiring to hold grudge lol!
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Sadly yes, I cant keep a grudge. I forgive people to easily
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Posted 1/8/16 , edited 1/8/16
I try.
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Posted 1/8/16
Against my will, yes.

It's better to forgive than to hold it in, because you feel better in the end. But sometimes, forgiveness is pointless because you never learn until it's too late that the person you forgave just doesn't give a sh!t and continues to act the same.
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if someone has done something messed up I'm more of a "don't really give a fuck about them again" than a hold a grudge type person.
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I try.
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Hmm, sometimes yes, sometimes no. Probably more no.

I keep grudges and view people negatively when they have poor manners.
Also there is no forgiveness ever for any guys I know that try and take advantage of any of my female friends.. some are lucky I have willpower otherwise their would be a lot of broken legs.
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Posted 1/9/16
Always forgive. sometimes you can forgive a person and not have them be in your life anymore. ~people that were poison to you~
Then again, Theres a lot of different reason why you forgive someone and how you handle it overall.
Posted 1/9/16
I forgive a little too easy. It takes an awful lot for me to genuinely have hatred towards someone.
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