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Your friend turns out to be into anime
Posted 1/10/16 , edited 1/10/16

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I know what you mean. That's why most of my friends who are women I don't think about they are female or not. They are just my friends.




I don't really think about my friends genders. They're just my friends. But I notice that the girls usually stop talking to me for absolutely NO reason. Yet the guys I have sometimes done genuinely horrible things to and they just get over it.


Sadly during HS I was one of those girls who became withdrawn when people texted me a ton. I didn't like getting emotionally invested with people and many of them who were female tried to do that. I withdraw when I start to become close with someone because I'm afraid of being hurt. I really hate that I've been an asshole to so many people.
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Sadly during HS I was one of those girls who became withdrawn when people texted me a ton. I didn't like getting emotionally invested with people and many of them who were female tried to do that. I withdraw when I start to become close with someone because I'm afraid of being hurt. I really hate that I've been an asshole to so many people.


The weird thing is she was the one who seemed really into me at first. I remember shortly after we first met I went away to London for a bit and she missed me loads. And she got really over excited when I came back. She also invited me to a lot of different things and got me several music CDs for Christmas. But then suddenly didn't want to talk to me at all.

I sometimes feel like I can't be bothered trying to be friends with loads of people at once. But it seems really odd to me that she went from "omg! You're biggest bestie ever! I love you!" to ignoring me completely -_-
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Sadly during HS I was one of those girls who became withdrawn when people texted me a ton. I didn't like getting emotionally invested with people and many of them who were female tried to do that. I withdraw when I start to become close with someone because I'm afraid of being hurt. I really hate that I've been an asshole to so many people.



The weird thing is she was the one who seemed really into me at first. I remember shortly after we first met I went away to London for a bit and she missed me loads. And she got really over excited when I came back. She also invited me to a lot of different things and got me several music CDs for Christmas. But then suddenly didn't want to talk to me at all.

I sometimes feel like I can't be bothered trying to be friends with loads of people at once. But it seems really odd to me that she went from "omg! You're biggest bestie ever! I love you!" to ignoring me completely -_-


That's really weird 0_o

For me it was people always being interested in me to the extreme. I had one friend who would call me everyday and wanted to see me everyday. I just couldn't handle it lol. But I was friends with her for a very long time. Mostly because of our families being friends for a while.
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ISea is having a hard time quoting apparently lol.
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That's really weird 0_o

For me it was people always being interested in me to the extreme. I had one friend who would call me everyday and wanted to see me everyday. I just couldn't handle it lol. But I was friends with her for a very long time. Mostly because of our families being friends for a while.



I've had friends like that too and it can be quite tiring when they want to see you ever day. That's the really weird thing though. She was like that to me. She wanted to see me every single day and do everything with me. She would even try and keep me up late so we could spend even more time together. Yet she was the one who stopped talking to me. One extreme to the other o.o
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That's really weird 0_o

For me it was people always being interested in me to the extreme. I had one friend who would call me everyday and wanted to see me everyday. I just couldn't handle it lol. But I was friends with her for a very long time. Mostly because of our families being friends for a while.




I've had friends like that too and it can be quite tiring when they want to see you ever day. That's the really weird thing though. She was like that to me. She wanted to see me every single day and do everything with me. She would even try and keep me up late so we could spend even more time together. Yet she was the one who stopped talking to me. One extreme to the other o.o


There I fix it.

Maybe she wanted more out of the relationship that you wanted. When she didn't get it; probably got upset. -sigh- Some people don't just get other's feelings. When I was with friends who wanted to talk me all the time. I would drop hints like "I'm really busy these days." or "My phone keeps crashing."
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There I fix it.

Maybe she wanted more out of the relationship that you wanted. When she didn't get it; probably got upset. -sigh- Some people don't just get other's feelings. When I was with friends who wanted to talk me all the time. I would drop hints like "I'm really busy these days." or "My phone keeps crashing."



I have no idea what she wanted. I think she wanted me to be part of her harem. She has a girlfriend, and she also has this guy who is madly in love with her and won't ever leave her. And she said something really weird once like "you're one of my most favourite people. If I didn't have a girlfriend I'd so have you!"... yeah, I appreciate the compliment...call me old fashioned if you want but I prefer being in a relationship with one person at a time.

I've done stuff like that too. My excuse was always "my phone isn't working properly". I'm terrible at using technology so people usually just assume I can't work out how to use my new smartphone XD
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Lost all of my old friends these days, just have my family and a lot of acquaintance's in work/ and in passing. Would be nice to mingle with some like minded anime friends but everyone is so defensive these days when trying to talk to someone new, it's very annoying. Wonder whether it's worth the effort. So if someone I knew was into Anime.. I'd think I would have a heart attack
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There I fix it.

Maybe she wanted more out of the relationship that you wanted. When she didn't get it; probably got upset. -sigh- Some people don't just get other's feelings. When I was with friends who wanted to talk me all the time. I would drop hints like "I'm really busy these days." or "My phone keeps crashing."





I have no idea what she wanted. I think she wanted me to be part of her harem. She has a girlfriend, and she also has this guy who is madly in love with her and won't ever leave her. And she said something really weird once like "you're one of my most favourite people. If I didn't have a girlfriend I'd so have you!"... yeah, I appreciate the compliment...call me old fashioned if you want but I prefer being in a relationship with one person at a time.

I've done stuff like that too. My excuse was always "my phone isn't working properly". I'm terrible at using technology so people usually just assume I can't work out how to use my new smartphone XD


Yeah that would be a red flag for me right away. xD I prefer being with one person as well. I actually...haven't ever been in a romantic relationship. xD I'm just far too shy. Yeah my smartphone is pretty messed up too lol.
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Yeah that would be a red flag for me right away. xD I prefer being with one person as well. I actually...haven't ever been in a romantic relationship. xD I'm just far too shy. Yeah my smartphone is pretty messed up too lol.


I haven't had many serious relationships. I only ever had one really long-term relationship which ended badly. But yeah...that whole set up really freaked me out. It was like she wanted to date all of us. o.o
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Considering I was always the anime nerd, and he was always the video game nerd?


I would laugh so fucking hard with happiness. lol
Posted 1/10/16
I'd call him a weeb
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