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Post Reply My friend pointed out i have a problem do you have one also?
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I have a unique problem i seem to only be attracted to girl with a disorder or disability.

My friend pointed this out after we were talking about ex's and dating sims.

I pointed out how i picked the narcoleptic girl in rune factory and then went back on all the characters i have chosen in past games with marriage.

90% of them had some form of disability or disorder.

So i was like holy shit you were right.

Looked at people i have dated before i am indeed attracted to people with some forms of disabilities and disorders.


Do you think this is weird and a problem i don't know

What problem do you have
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dont know
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That's hot. btw werina you're so mean, you didn't reply after asking me to give it to you omg.
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Katawa Shoujo anyone?
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In Rune Factory, EVERYONE has something wrong with them. A hotbed of issues... you could make a killing as a therapist moving in there...
That would be a pretty awesome game...

Anyways, OP if it also occurs IRL is it possible you subconsciously feel you will have more of a chance with them as there is less competition? Almost like they'll be grateful, though that sounds crass. Once you've dated one or two similar people you start associating that with the warm feeling you get in a relationship (be it sexual or otherwise) and through pavlovian classical conditioning that becomes your "type"...

I don't know, it's not really an issue if you're happy with who you date
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Nah. Just a preference. I have an interest in dating a blind and deaf girls. Why? Katawa Shoujo.
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yeah, i have a problem. want to check it out?
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Just don't go telling girls "I love your disorder. It turns me on". That wouldn't end good for you.
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For girls I'm only attracted to asian and scene girls and they have to be shorter than me


For boys they have to look more or as feminine as me and very pretty.
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Kerst wrote:

For girls I'm only attracted to asian and scene girls and they have to be shorter than me


For boys they have to look more or as feminine as me and very pretty.


r u a boy or a girl? cuz what are scene girls
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weaselpipe wrote:

In Rune Factory, EVERYONE has something wrong with them. A hotbed of issues... you could make a killing as a therapist moving in there...
That would be a pretty awesome game...

Anyways, OP if it also occurs IRL is it possible you subconsciously feel you will have more of a chance with them as there is less competition? Almost like they'll be grateful, though that sounds crass. Once you've dated one or two similar people you start associating that with the warm feeling you get in a relationship (be it sexual or otherwise) and through pavlovian classical conditioning that becomes your "type"...

I don't know, it's not really an issue if you're happy with who you date


It may stem from the fact i'm mentally ill and disabled myself so i relate more.
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Dude no worries! It's your preference and you shouldn't think that it's problematic
If it makes you feel any better, my friends say that I'm a total sucker for the tsunderes.
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lambofgenesis wrote:


Kerst wrote:

For girls I'm only attracted to asian and scene girls and they have to be shorter than me


For boys they have to look more or as feminine as me and very pretty.


r u a boy or a girl? cuz what are scene girls


Why does it matter if I'm a boy or girl though? Type in scene girl on google images and you'll see.
Out of the 6 girls I've dated I've only dated 2 girls that weren't scene and they were asian.
Yeah I have a type.
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Nothing is wrong with your preference..I think.
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Ryulightorb wrote:

I have a unique problem i seem to only be attracted to girl with a disorder or disability.

My friend pointed this out after we were talking about ex's and dating sims.

I pointed out how i picked the narcoleptic girl in rune factory and then went back on all the characters i have chosen in past games with marriage.

90% of them had some form of disability or disorder.

So i was like holy shit you were right.

Looked at people i have dated before i am indeed attracted to people with some forms of disabilities and disorders.


Do you think this is weird and a problem i don't know

What problem do you have


You're not the only one, every relationship I've been in that person has had a mental illness or previously had them. I think you can just pick up on the pain/ or aura of it from the person without them even telling you about it before hand because you can relate to it.

So no, I don't think it's weird, it happens to me more than I'd like to admit.
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