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Post Reply If your close friend is in a shitty relationship, do you tell them they should break it off, or do you tell them to stic
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I was in this situation a while ago, I never once told him what he should do since it was none of my business ya know? I was kinda subtle with it I guess, "I don't think I'd be able to stay with someone like that, that's just me though." The longer it went on when he would tell me something new about it I'd ask if it's worth it or I'd remind him of all the shit she did so I guess yes and no?
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If you wanted to be honest with him, you tell the truth. If you're scared of overstepping your bounds then that's your problem
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HughJack wrote:

If you wanted to be honest with him, you tell the truth. If you're scared of overstepping your bounds then that's your problem


He's been told the truth a couple of times, but he gets mad it, I think he was in his denial phase. So I stuck with staying back and not mentioning anything until he brought it up, though I think you were speaking in general. He already knew how I felt about her either way though

Edit: This whole problem think is already over anyways, just wondering what you'd all do in the same situation..
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If hes your friend, tell him what you think. I was in a shitty relationship and didn't think a ton about it until my friends all pointed it out.
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I tell them to drop the relationship like a candy wrapper.

I prefer giving honest advice than pillow lies.

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I don't understand your question.
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I tell them to drop the relationship like a candy wrapper.

I prefer giving honest advice than pillow lies.



I told him at least 4 times, but he was in his denial phase ya know? "You guys don't know what you're talking about, it'll work out, at least support my decision." So I kinda leaned back from it, having to give someone the same answer over and over is kinda annoying to me.
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PrinceJudar wrote:

I tell them to drop the relationship like a candy wrapper.

I prefer giving honest advice than pillow lies.



This.
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I told him at least 4 times, but he was in his denial phase ya know? "You guys don't know what you're talking about, it'll work out, at least support my decision." So I kinda leaned back from it, having to give someone the same answer over and over is kinda annoying to me.


"If you want comforting lies, then fine, I support your decision. If you want my honest opinion just ask. I won't bother providing it anymore since you've made it obvious it isn't what you want from me."



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Posted 1/24/16
I would myself not remain in a toxic relationship. So I would tell them to do the same. You should not waste your time on someone who is a complete butt.
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knowing half of you wouldn't *coughs* uhm speak to him till he gets it
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PrinceJudar wrote:


TrickedMJ wrote:
I told him at least 4 times, but he was in his denial phase ya know? "You guys don't know what you're talking about, it'll work out, at least support my decision." So I kinda leaned back from it, having to give someone the same answer over and over is kinda annoying to me.


"If you want comforting lies, then fine, I support your decision. If you want my honest opinion just ask. I won't bother providing it anymore since you've made it obvious it isn't what you want from me."



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What is the quote from?
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What is the quote from?


Me, simply what I would say in that situation.



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