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Post Reply How do you know if she is interested in a relationship?
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Posted 1/25/16
After getting rejected for the Nth time I thought I'd ask for some advice. I'm rather picky and rejected a few, but how can you tell if she is interested in you? I've known this girl for a while and I kept writing letters to her, she mention some things in her blog and never rejected me but she never replied to me either. So I want to know how to know if she is interested in a relationship so I can ask her out, or when should I move on?
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Posted 1/25/16
Simple. Ask her out anyway and if she hesitates to give you an answer, ask her about it; communicate with her. If she doesn't give you an answer, then I would move on. You can't wait forever.
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Posted 1/25/16
try not to harbour any expectations, keep your distance and if it's mutual you'll know because everything just clicks.
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I dunno, it seems how if girl responds or if she likes you are two different things because she is too shy. We got many anime references here how someone failed to wait it off. But you are right, you can't wait forever
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A lot of girls expect guys to just 'know,' unfortunately for many this isn't the case. They'll just keep sending the same invisible subtle signs and if you don't know now, you'll never know, so just for for it.
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Ask her and accept the fact she may well say no.

Side note: If you don't do anything and she goes out with someone else later on, don't bitch about it. Humans are not telepathic.
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You don't know so the best course of action is to just play some more video games, it's always worked for me.
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Just go for it man. Its gonna hurt more never knowing what could of been than her saying she isnt interested trust me I've made that mistake and still regret it at times.
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Posted 1/25/16 , edited 1/25/16
Yes I've asked her out numerous times in mail since I don't know her in person, but she never responded. So she is either too shy or she is not interested. I think she wants to wait since she has no definite partner at this point. Relationship behaves like a XNOR gate, I should wait it out if I don't have a target myself
Posted 1/25/16
Females are weird. I'm a pretty good expert of how they work being that I am one myself have grown up mostly around females. We can be either simple or super complex. Depends on the woman.
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Posted 1/25/16 , edited 1/25/16
If she strokes it, she wants its.

If she says "Fuck off" then she's not interested
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Posted 1/25/16

Lifthrasir wrote:

try not to harbour any expectations, keep your distance and if it's mutual you'll know because everything just clicks.

What this guy said. Just drop subtle hints but don't be blatantly obvious about it if you're not sure. If you have a feeling that she likes you then go for it. If she makes it clear that she likes you (sending signals back) then definitely go for it. Worry about being rejected after the fact. Being nervous doesn't improve your chances.
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Posted 1/25/16
If she is not interested, she won't talk to you are give you any of her time.

If you are talking to her and she is not responding back, or gives you short answers, then she is not interested. If she puts the effort in to talking to you and wanting to get to know you, then she is interested.
Posted 1/25/16
if she get's down on her knee's and looks up at you telling you shes ready <33333
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Just ask her, one of the number one reasons relationships don't work is because of lack of communication. We like to employ subtle signs, but in all honesty it really helps to be brutally honest sometimes. If you are unsure just be blunt and direct, you'll never get a straight answer otherwise.
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