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Post Reply How do you know if she is interested in a relationship?
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Rejection is not something you should be wasting time being afraid of
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Sunsetter13 wrote:

Just ask her, one of the number one reasons relationships don't work is because of lack of communication. We like to employ subtle signs, but in all honesty it really helps to be brutally honest sometimes. If you are unsure just be blunt and direct, you'll never get a straight answer otherwise.

That's only true sometimes. If it's a more well known friend it can make things awkward. From what I know, most girls will pick up if you send them some signals and they'll send some back if they're interested. Being direct about it will mean they also have to give a direct answer back.
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When she wants to share the blanket when you're watching a movie.
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Right well she hasn't responded in a year, maybe she's not interested
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If she tries to crawl into bed with you because "she's cold," don't make my mistake and get extra blankets.
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You don't always, it depends on the person, how direct they are, etc.. You have to get to know them to know how to read cues, body language and facial expressions. And what they say and how they say it. Ultimately they will just tell you if they want to go on or not.~
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Dariamus wrote:

If she tries to crawl into bed with you because "she's cold," don't make my mistake and get extra blankets.


I'll stay friend for now thanks for the suggestion
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If she wants to be around you or talks to you all the time there is a 99% chance she is interested. A lot of the time girls don't give the time of day to guys they aren't interested in.
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you dont
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fredreload wrote:


Dariamus wrote:

If she tries to crawl into bed with you because "she's cold," don't make my mistake and get extra blankets.


I'll stay friend for now thanks for the suggestion


Twenty years of marriage, and she still brings it up at least once a year
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nanikore2 wrote:

Rejection is not something you should be wasting time being afraid of


for real

that's time you could be using for sleeping
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XD. This is funny. Let me ask you something. What do you expect a relationship to be? Do you believe we need to ask someone if you will go out with me? That's the last thing you need to be doing.

Wait for her, women love when a man is being direct, but women also love this little thing called jealousy. If you have no face to face interaction, then what's the point of considering a relationship. Yea we can have long distance "relationship" but that only goes so far.

Wait for subtle signs....... sigh. You're doing this over a computer man. Women are simple, they really are, you just have to be ready to offer a conversation that will excite them, meaning, you have to find common ground. Be witty, offer something that creates connection, and yeah, good looks has somewhat to do with it. If you want to be a pushy dick expect to be rejected 80% of the time, unless you are a really good looking guy.

These threads man. I don't know anymore. If she won't talk to you, take a fucking hint, she's not playing hard to get, this isn't some game, sorry to be so blunt but somehow I just got really irritated at the end of this post.
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Nothing new that I can add that hasn't already been posted. However, if you're both at the altar in front of God with respective families and she answers "I do" after the usual litany of 4-liner questions I'd say chances are good she's interested in a relationship.

Seriously, if you don't take the risk (overcoming your fears of rejection by asking) you won't gain / move forward. All that occurs playing it safe (by not risking) are feelings of frustration, anxiety.
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Don't play games. Ask if her she's interested in a relationship. Don't waste time and feelings trying to figure the shit out. You'll only get hurt if you look too closely into things.

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PrinceJudar wrote:

Don't play games. Ask if her she's interested in a relationship. Don't waste time and feelings trying to figure the shit out. You'll only get hurt if you look too closely into things.



This. I learned the hard way.
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