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Post Reply How do you know if she is interested in a relationship?
mnmike 
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Be open and honest about your own feelings, but don't demand anything back from her. Express a willingness to be patient.

In other words, don't just say "hey, do you like me?" She might not have thought about it, and might answer "no" just on reflex.

Instead say "Hey, I really like spending time with you. You're [insert descriptors here: beautiful, kind, sweet, sincere, honest, whatever], and I'd like to spend more time with you and maybe start dating you. I understand if you haven't thought about me like that yet, but I'd like you to consider me that way in the future, if you'd be open to it. Would it be okay for us to see each other a little more often and go from there?"

If she says no to that... give up. But if she doesn't dislike you, she'd probably at least be willing to hang out a little more often, and that's all your asking, at least for now. And you've planted the idea of you as a romantic interest, so when you bring the idea up again in the future, it won't catch her off-guard.
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"wanna go out"

if response yes: u are a g0d

if response no: immediately point penis at another girl u like and repeat question

if response no again: repeat previous step until some1 says yes
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just give up
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Posted 1/27/16 , edited 1/27/16
Women usually know upon first impressions if you will be forever in the friend zone or not. There are some occasions in which a female will classify you in the friend zone, then have feelings for you later down the line and place you above the friend zone. Some women also leave you believing that something exist when it doesn't usually because they like all the attention you are showing them. Or for more sinister reasons such as using you. Like a ball of yarn to a cat, they will sometimes string you along as long as you bring entertainment or worth to them.

OP, to your situation. If a female doesn't respond to your messages, text or calls. That typically means she is not interested, she doesn't really know you, or she is shy. You noted that you sent her letters and got no response. I would attempt to get her number, Skype, KIK, Instagram, etc... If she still ignores that request then I would stop perusing to her. If she really wants you around she will make a commitment to talk to you.

People make time and effort for the people they want to talk to, care about, or want to be around.

I will share a personal story of mines. I was in your situation many years ago. I tried for a year to get a female to speak to me. I managed to her AOL messenger name. "Shows you how old this is." We chatted for a while and it was getting nowhere. So one day I decided it was time to move on and stopped talking to her all together. Figured it was a waste of time as she barely responded. A year goes by and she manages to find me on another forum. She confessed she liked me but was ashamed of her living conditions at the time. So you never know.
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