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Post Reply Would you accept being bonded for life to someone you don't know out of love?
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I've seen this in a number of manga/anime/books/etc. Girl or boy A ends up bonded (spiritually, emotionally, soul, etc.) with, essentially, their mate. Usually the bond gives them insight into one another or is there because this is their perfect match. My question is: Would you accept such a bond not knowing the person before hand or would reject it to search on your own the old fashioned way?

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It doesn't matter.
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Sounds like there's no choice in the matter.
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Hmm..tricky
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hm. something like an arranged marriage?
in certain circumstances it's the best option, but of course it's hugely dependent on the person.

'Every Good Marriage Begins With Tears' is a pretty good documentary on the controversial topic in this day and age.

personally for me, i wouldn't mind it at all.
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Your soul-mate, the person who is your perfect life partner?

Why would you try to reject such a person? Not knowing them is an easily corrected problem.
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you know, having been married, id say yes.
there is a certain level of security knowing that your in this forever.
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Only if it comes with a harem.
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GotenLoooovesCorn wrote:
Only if it comes with a harem.



Soul mates or someone you're set up at life's start to usually meet and bond with aren't something you're generally aware of. It just happens. It's not hard determinable factor for someone though. If for some reason I was made aware of this spiritual connection, whether or not i believed it, I would almost certainly be curious enough to see how things went with this person. Not many more things you could ask for than a really compatible partner with an arrow painted over their head for you.
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Dariamus wrote:

Your soul-mate, the person who is your perfect life partner?

Why would you try to reject such a person? Not knowing them is an easily corrected problem.


Precisely. If anything, this sounds like a shortcut to the same/best result.
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If this connection also includes having sex and making babies sure
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Well if I'm presented with someone that is quite literally my ideal and perfect match I like to think I'd be okay with it.
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Sure why not.
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It depends on who you are calling my perfect match.
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jaegars wrote:

Well if I'm presented with someone that is quite literally my ideal and perfect match I like to think I'd be okay with it.


Posted 1/26/16
Haha, well it's not like you'll never get to know them personally. I'd personally jump at the chance, if we get along so well then why not?
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