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Posted 1/26/16
I wish I did more when I was single. I don't mean date more, but get to know myself better, travel more, not obsess over being single. But I went and found my [hopefully] forever boyfriend, and I wouldn't trade him for anything.
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40YearOldVirgin wrote:

I don't understand why people like to claim, "I don't do hookup or one night stand" as if that makes you a better person? It doesn't. I'm not taking a gripe at you personally, I'm just sick of reading things like that.



That's majority of what people try to go for. I had friends on Tinder always doing that.
Then they always nag about "she not the one" or "I thought she was the right one."
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Nope. I'm lonely... But I realise that you can't rely on others. Humans are selfish beings.
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What's more enjoyable than being free? If the relationship between the significant other and me is crap, then I'd rather stay single. If the relationship between the significant other and me is great, then I wouldn't be single, haha. Simple as that.
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It's alright. I'm sure being in a relationship is alright too once each party has their lives in order. I wouldn't actively try to end my single life nor refuse its ending should the opportunity arise.
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Personally, I'm not one for the "hook up" culture so I just kinda keep to myself when it comes to relationships. Not to say I don't want one, I just don't spend each waking moment looking for a lover. I figure there are more important things to be concerned about and I'm pretty happy by myself. I figure it'll happen naturally and if it doesn't, oh well.


I feel the same way, but sometimes I get a little lonely.
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I don't enjoy it
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I hate it. I need someone to serve if I am going to be able to reach my full potential as a knight.
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Do I enjoy being single? No, I want a female companion who I could love and take care of.

Plus let me break down the Boyfriend/ Girlfriend thing is super freaking rigged and really dumb.
Like, if you know someone you want affection for, then f*cking do it, the only real commitment is marriage and in a sense its WAY better if people drop this Boyfriend/ Girlfriend thing because your not committed nor bound to anything really so at a whim you can say "see ya" because your "relationship" has not met a specific criteria which the criteria your seeking in this fake not commitment is a bunch of rabble, your pressured to meet this criteria in a fake commitment that actually inhibits natural feelings and thoughts, instead your like "Oh, I've a 'boyfriend' now its time to refuse all other male's affection and acknowledgement" when your not even committed, a commitment is something that you stick with not some "its not working out so we don't have to" nonsense and if you can freely choose to dissolve a commitment, then its not a commitment THAT'S A STATUS, a status that you choose to bare and inhibit yourself with which is SUPER FREAKING DUMB because people lack the understanding that Humans need love and affection and this Bf/Gf sh*t is forcing the idea that your inhibited with rules that you and your other person that I highly predict cannot bare these rules, and what do you know? Your status is gone in a little while.

The way I see things is that kissing and hugging is natural affection, and of course touching is fine, its affection.

But Sex is reserved for your spouse, the REAL commitment, but affection with other people and sexual activities is like an entire element to the human body like eating, drinking water, exercising, socializing with others and other stuff to.

But look I dunno how you're taking what I say and I know society might try to "look down on" or condemn people like me, but you gotta ask yourself the question what has society done for you personally? It already condemns you for watching anime and playing video games that we know and love and we come here to talk about awesome stuff, so why not tell society to shut the f*ck up and remain the humanistic tool for survival like it freaking should rather than trying to control my body and beliefs.

It should be an objective that people should be wanting to be closer with one another and not shaming or refusing another because that creates guilt and distance between people, which is one of the last things this land needs.
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Posted 1/26/16
I enjoy being alone. I don't mean just romantically, I mean I get tired easily when I am with people and feel most relaxed when I am just alone with my computer.

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Posted 1/26/16 , edited 1/27/16
I'm ok with it, but sometimes I wish I had a guy to drive me places and buy me soup when I'm sick lol But I'm really serious about relationships for someone my age, plus I'm shy. So, I'm mysterious and intense at first, but I'm a weird goofball once you get to know me. And I'm pretty smart, I'd like to think. But I like to start off as friends and grow into it, which a lot of people don't like.
Posted 1/26/16
Of course.
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You see, a good relationship is one where you dont have to work at it, it just happens. I was ok with being single before but now that I've been with the same woman for 3 years I couldn't really imagine my life without her. Having someone to share your life with, the good and the bad, without fear of being judged, is the most wonderful thing.
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Not at all. I have way too much love to give, and no one to give it to! It is rather annoying. I just want to be cuddled up next to someone I can say I love!
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Posted 1/26/16

ayaundwolf wrote:


stars201 wrote:

Yes I like being single
However, I don't mind waiting for the right person to come along though


This. There's no point in jumping into a relationship just for the sake of being in one.


Some people are into that, just saying......................

Besides, it gets lonely sometimes if you're single and not into the "hook upz culture".
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