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Posted 1/30/16
no, i've been in several relationships and still haven't lost it.
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Sex isnt even that great so I dont think t matters if your a virgin or not save it for someone you really care about ig
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You decide
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If you're cool with it, who cares what anyone else thinks? If you're worried about what women (or men, whatever's clever) think, you should keep in mind that the right one(s) will accept you for you.

Personally, I almost regret the number of intimate partners I've had. Nothing against them, and I never "settled," but I do think I could have been a bit more careful throughout the latter half of my adolescence, even if just to make it more special when I meet "the one."

On the other hand, I'm grateful for my experience; it's kinda like farming EXP to level up for that final boss, you know?
Posted 1/30/16
Just because you're broken doesn't mean you need to be fixed. My sisters were turned off to men by my father, and they're doing well.
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In all honesty, I don't see why being a virgin/not being a virgin should matter. It's not like it's actually important. All it means is that you haven't had sex yet. The media and other people will try to convince you that it's a bad thing, but, when you think about it, it's not really a good thing either.
Posted 1/30/16
If someone is virginal by choice, then it's not sad, they have power over their life and self.

If someone is virginal but not by choice like that person in the quote, then it is sad, because it means they're a loser and a half.
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short answer no, but i do understand how it could feel that way with how much emphasis society puts on sex. if you feel you are ready for sex, fine, if you don't feel ready thats also fine. it's no ones choice but your own. however, i understand if you want to have sex but due to circumstance cannot easily have sex. [aka being a dateless wonder.] but there's nothing wrong with waiting, life is long, and if all else fails and you really want to have sex [not because society says you should] theres always escorts.
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40YearOldVirgin wrote: If someone is virginal by choice, then it's not sad, they have power over their life and self.

If someone is virginal but not by choice like that person in the quote, then it is sad, because it means they're a loser and a half.
but what is it when its both?


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or too short..
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Naw OP, being a virgin is all good and fine in my eyes 21 years old and im still a virgin nbd no need to rush it women come and go
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No. Be yourself.
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if your goal is to lose your virginity, then it is bad to be one. But if you like being a virgin there's nothing wrong with it. However, if you like being a virgin just be prepared deal with people and their stupid ideals


40YearOldVirgin wrote:

If someone is virginal by choice, then it's not sad, they have power over their life and self.

If someone is virginal but not by choice like that person in the quote, then it is sad, because it means they're a loser and a half.


this^^

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Too be honest I've always been living under the premiss of that "virginity" is made up. But thats me
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So I'm 17 and a full-on HHKV, and I really am starting to feel like there's something wrong with me. I've never been in any sort of relationship and at times I feel really jealous of others and at other times I get depressed. I feel like I've missed out on something neccessary. Is being a virgin really as bad of a thing as I think, especially when you're a guy?


i found this online


if thread like this exist let me know



Hehe I'm 50 and have been married 25+ years. Virginity? What the hell is that? You make love to the person you love, that's it. Haven't met them yet? Then wait until you meet. Anything else is a waste of time and emotion. Todays media is crazy, having sex with a stranger is nowhere near as satisfying as having a relationship and sex, bide your time....Oh by the way you have to work to find your future love, that's a fact. If you are waiting for it to drop in on you, you will possibly be alone forever.
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Posted 1/30/16 , edited 1/30/16
Not necessarily, it can be a good thing or it can be something that really sucks. It just depends on your situation and what you view is on being a virgin. Honestly it's something you have to figure out for yourself. To me being a virgin I feel that it teaches others to learn how to not only respect you, but your body as a whole. Even though it can be frustrating to deal with sometimes because, you see friends who lost theirs a long time ago. If being a virgin is what you chose to be until you find the one, then don't let friends who lost theirs pull you away from what you firmly believe in being.
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