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Should I give my ex-gf a valentines gift?
Posted 2/6/16
So, I just wanted to know if I should sent my ex-gf a gift this valentines day. The relationship ended well and we're still friends but we haven't talked or emailed in about 3 months but I still love and care about her and any kind of helpful advice is welcomed.
Posted 2/6/16 , edited 2/6/16
Ex-girlfriend?

No, because I think you should move on.

V those glasses xD
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Posted 2/6/16
yeah save your money and buy something cool instead like these gurren lagann kamina glasses

Posted 2/6/16
No, it's creepy.
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Posted 2/6/16
I mean sure if that's what you want to do. In reality there is a right answer to this question but I wont spoil it for you.
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Posted 2/6/16
If the relation remains good, send her something modest.

Do not go overboard, that would be creepy.
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Posted 2/6/16
What if your ex has moved on and has a shiny new bf? Move on also, kiddo.
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Posted 2/7/16 , edited 2/7/16
If you haven't talked to her in 3 months it might be a little weird\creepy for you to pop up with a valentine's day gift, and as others have said how do you know for sure she hasn't move on.
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Posted 2/7/16
do what feels right , you never know maybe you two will start talking and stuff again, yeah like someone said
above- something modest, no flowers or choclates, something only she would get - an anime keyring or i dunno.
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Posted 2/7/16
I would say no but the majority of my relationships ended badly enough we never talk to each other again so do what you think is right however to be honest I wouldn't if you havn't spoken in 3 months. At most if you really want to do something u send a happy v-day text.
Posted 2/7/16
Depends. Are you friends? Sure. Are you no longer intimates in any way? No, that would be creepy.
Posted 2/7/16
Well the votes are in and the masses say to not give her a gift and move on with my life. Thank you all for your thoughtful opinions and I think I'll still give a valentines gift but instead to my mom and nieces. Hope you all have a great holiday
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Posted 2/7/16 , edited 2/7/16
Do you believe that she will get you something for valentine's day? If yes, then proceed. If no, I wouldn't do it.
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Posted 2/7/16

bethos30 wrote:

Well the votes are in and the masses say to not give her a gift and move on with my life. Thank you all for your thoughtful opinions and I think I'll still give a valentines gift but instead to my mom and nieces. Hope you all have a great holiday :)


That's a really good idea man. I am sure they will appreciate the gifts more than you ex would.
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Posted 2/8/16 , edited 2/8/16
move on, don't turn back even if you want to.
if you're fated to meet again you'll meet again in the future, not forced by the past.

you'll be fine.
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