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Posted 2/14/16 , edited 2/14/16
Ok , so there is this girl that my family is close to, she has this thing where she likes to hold parties in our house because our living room is bigger than hers, this is going to be the third one in 2-3 months .
I currently have a week holiday from school and would like to get some work done, watch anime in peace and all that other jazz, am I wrong to tell her to do it in her own house? or am I the joy killing bitch?, I don't really like spending time around people I don't have anything in common with.

Also what would you do in this situation?
Posted 2/14/16
I would tell her NO! :S
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Posted 2/14/16
I suppose I'd tell the chick I have a week off and would like to spend it in peace.
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It's your house... that should say it all.
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Tell her to do it at her own damn place.
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If your the owner of the house then I don't see a problem with it. but if you aren't the house owner or tenant or whatever then I would suggest asking the owner/tenant/resident if they could deny her party request and give them an explanation as to why you don't ewant her to hold the party in said house.
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Posted 2/14/16

CloudStreakz wrote:

Ok , so there is this girl that my family is close to, she has this thing where she likes to hold parties in our house because our living room is bigger than hers, this is going to be the third one in 2-3 months .
I currently have a week holiday from school and would like to get some work done, watch anime in peace and all that other jazz, am I wrong to tell her to do it in her own house? or am I the joy killing bitch?, I don't really like spending time around people I don't have anything in common with.

Also what would you do in this situation?


I've moved this to the Advice, Info, Recommendations forum.

It's nice that your family allows this, and sounds like maybe it's fine in moderation; a friendly favor. But three parties in as many months does seem like a lot, and I think it's fine to set some boundaries such as "not this week; I really need quiet to get some stuff done." Sounds like you might need to let others in your household aware of that too. If they don't support you in this, then it's going to be hard to stop her if they are all cool with it.

Good luck.
Posted 2/14/16

lorreen wrote:


CloudStreakz wrote:

Ok , so there is this girl that my family is close to, she has this thing where she likes to hold parties in our house because our living room is bigger than hers, this is going to be the third one in 2-3 months .
I currently have a week holiday from school and would like to get some work done, watch anime in peace and all that other jazz, am I wrong to tell her to do it in her own house? or am I the joy killing bitch?, I don't really like spending time around people I don't have anything in common with.

Also what would you do in this situation?


I've moved this to the Advice, Info, Recommendations forum.

It's nice that your family allows this, and sounds like maybe it's fine in moderation; a friendly favor. But three parties in as many months does seem like a lot, and I think it's fine to set some boundaries such as "not this week; I really need quiet to get some stuff done." Sounds like you might need to let others in your household aware of that too. If they don't support you in this, then it's going to be hard to stop her if they are all cool with it.

Good luck.


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Posted 2/14/16
I would say "Excuse me, but hold parties at YOUR house. If your house is too small then you'd best hold a smaller party."
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Posted 2/14/16

CloudStreakz wrote:

Ok , so there is this girl that my family is close to, she has this thing where she likes to hold parties in our house because our living room is bigger than hers, this is going to be the third one in 2-3 months .
I currently have a week holiday from school and would like to get some work done, watch anime in peace and all that other jazz, am I wrong to tell her to do it in her own house? or am I the joy killing bitch?, I don't really like spending time around people I don't have anything in common with.

Also what would you do in this situation?


Say maybe some other time or something
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Posted 2/14/16
If I were you I'd definitely bring it up to her, there's nothing wrong in wanting some peace and quit on your week off from school. She can party on another week, or host it at her own place.
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Like Lorreen wrote, inform your family and the individual of the inconvenience and how you like to have that week to yourself. If this does not work, ask the individual if you could use her place for yourself to read, do your homework, watch anime, etc while she is entertaining at your home. If she says no, ask her why then is it okay for her to impose on you?
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Posted 2/17/16 , edited 2/17/16
Go to your local library. Alternatively do it at school. Or both.
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