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On the very first impression, which are you more attracted to "money and status" or "appearance"? Any idea why?

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appearance


when i think money and status in dis world, the first thing that comes to mind is donald trump



ppl who look like they're out of dis world tho
welp, prob cuz we were raised by the media to think that ppl who look good have equally good hearts
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appearance

most personal interactions involve people around us that are somewhat comparable on the socio-economic scale anyhow
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Obviously the first thing any guy is gonna do is see if she looks pretty. Money is a huge plus, an average looking girl with a ton of cash will get hit on pretty often, but it's not the first thing guys will look at. In the end though, money is just a plus, and a ridiculously ugly girl with a lot of money won't be a flirting target, but any pretty looking girl, no matter her other traits, will always be a target. In summary, appearance.
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idk does he look rich
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Appearance.

First impressions are generally done within a second or less, so appearance is the only thing with can be analyzed within that time. At the same time, all things considered, money is a relatively new concept so it isn't as hardwired into us as well as appearance.
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Appearance and wealth both serve more as a bonus to the package. I'll also be assuming PJ meant in terms of pursuing romance or lovers. For when it comes to friendship, I feel I can sincerely say neither have any bearing to me unless we're considering the worst cases.

It depends on how I encounter them. If it's in person, then I'd notice what they looked like first. There's also what they were doing and how they seemed to feel. For the question though, appearance would play the bigger role. Unless they just got out of a new Corvette and handed the keys to someone, I probably wouldn't know about their wealth at first. In terms of conversation, it's really far down the list for me. I'm a lot more likely to make an effort to introduce or ingratiate myself with a woman in my vision of physical beauty. Perhaps because I'm thinking more instinctively rather than intellectually.

rambling...


I think the idea of attractive wealth generally comes later as it lies with security and power or more simply the future.
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Appearance since I don't know the other stuff until I do further observation. Though sometimes it is very easy to tell just by the clothes/mannerisms.
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2D>3D and on that note I am impartial to all
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Pretty Asians, so appearance.
I don't know somones status or their financial situation.
I know they are a attractive asian when I see them.
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Appearance
Most of the time I can't stand people with money or status.
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Someone who can be independent and dependable.
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If I were to choose, it would be appearance. I grew up in an environment with "rich people", so I actually do not care.

Money does not make you a good person necessarily or an asshole. Doesn't mean you're automatically attractive or not.
However, high status-people often ignore reality, they prefer to live in their own world of parties, social life, clubs, etc.

I like people with "feet on the ground", that know what they want, that know their limits, that knows morality. I don't really like superficial individuals that center their world on trivial things and talk about who did that or who is who...

So yeah, this is the kind of surroundings I grew up in, not the most exciting really.
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Appearance... In particular, the thing that stands out to me most (with the opposite gender) is Nose shape, Eyes and Lips.

Money and Status (something I don't really care for) are hard to judge by appearances :\ thats something you learn with someone overtime.
In general I try to aim for those with a high Charisma Stat (usually between 8-10)
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Face then personality. I can handle some bitchyness on the side
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