Is "Being Yourself" Truly The Best Way To Get Girls?
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Is it?
Posted 2/15/16
Hmmm...kinda. I don't like who fakes himself.
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Posted 2/15/16 , edited 2/15/16
Nope.

The phrase more refers to being comfortable with who you are and not feeling trapped by a false bravado.

It's neither a get laid quick scheme, nor is meant to be a sexual repellent.
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Posted 2/15/16

Why are you asking this on an internet forum?



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>nerd programmer being himself to get girls
Impossible. Also, didn't we have a thread about this that was really big?
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"Trusting someone...means relying on them and only the weak do that." - Aizen-Sama.
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If you look pretty you can be anyone you want to get the girl or boy.
However that would make you a horrible person, I am a horrible person.
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Not at all very few women share my interests and when I talk about what I like they seem to get bored and tune me out.
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Yes, I met the woman of my dreams by being myself, she became my best friend and still is, she is my love. Always be yourself, because someone who doesn't accept you for you, doesn't deserve you.
Posted 2/15/16 , edited 2/15/16
Dating is like a game; you have to play your cards, right.

Like, you should wait at least 6months or something, before farting in front of your partner or burping. You wouldn't fart on the first date, y'know what I'm saying? And the official rule is 3 dates before bedding them. First impressions are last impressions.

In other words, no you shouldn't be yourself in the early stages of the romance. YOu have to ease into it... I assume that's why a lot people end up divorcing. but whatever.
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It can be. Depends on what that woman wants. Not hard to get a woman. Now finding a life partner can be.
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I've talked about this before on here, the best respone i got was "be your BEST self"
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Radraymond01 wrote:
....Also, didn't we have a thread about this that was really big?


Yup. It was started a few months ago, but still had new posts less than 3 weeks ago, so I'm closing this one. Please feel free to continue the discussion there:

/forumtopic-927701/being-yourself-doesnt-work
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