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runec wrote:


AzuroHeart wrote:
That doesn't make any sense.


....the point was that if you are about to make a statement generalizing half the planet you might want to stop a moment and think about it. Because the scenario the op describes is by no means gender specific.

It also has a faint undertone of the classic "I'm inserting tokens but sex isn't falling out". No one is obligated to take their pants off for you just because you are paying attention to them.


He is trying to learn. Let him ask his questions and get enlightened.
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A long time ago 2 friends & I Had a small photo studio.
We all had different areas we liked but we all worked with the modeling schools here in Milwaukee.
One summer day we took 4 aspiring models out on a sailboat for some water shots.
While we were taking a break we discussed this topics well as some others.
Two of the girls wore wedding rings but weren't married. So the "assholes" would leave them alone.
They all agreed that finding a good-looking guy that was interested in them
for who they were rather than how they looked. So a lot of the "hotties" are a
bit gun-shy with guys that want a phone number. They would rather have a guy talk to them 1-on-1 and
ask them to have a cup of coffee or tea at a cafe they feel safe in.


Good luck as no one person truly has all the answers.
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okay seems like you're basing this off maybe one chick and one circumstance or situation which well isn't the most clever approach. We are all different and unique individuals just because something happened to you with a certain chick well you shouldn't expect that from all chicks lol like I totally don't expect your way of thinking from all guys lol that's just ridiculous, so keeping that in mind you think you're gonna offend all chicks by your circumstances please don't flatter yourself I mean you could be a decent enough guy idk seems like double standards to me, just saying. Just bc someone is lonely, male or female does not mean they want just anyone's attention. I mean put yourself in that person's place. Oh and what is wrong with dating? That helps us determine if the people we think we are attracted to are legitimately who they claim to be, I mean showing multiple chicks affection what does that entail of exactly?? And I can be surrounded by people and I'm still lonely because I want someone who understands me and loves me for who I am, did you consider that maybe?? Bedsides you just cannot put all females in that category, people can be lonely even tho you don't think they should be that's not up to you. Like I don't get to tell you how you should feel bc you are uniquely who you are, you are not every male I've come into contact with. We are all different thankfully lol like really thankfully
Posted 3/2/16

AzuroHeart wrote:

I was thinking, why is it that there are girls that are upset and ponder why they are single or want affection that they are not getting, but then when a boy or someone hits on them, or shows interest, they get uncomfortable, and usually turn him down, and then go back to moping.

Why does that happen? o.o


who is these "girls" you refer to?

I mean the simple answer is that they don't want "your" D in particular.

Not everyone is gonna like you, simple fact of life.
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I've had this issue a-plenty. Guys tell me they like me a lot (I have a great sense of humor I think is why), and they just expect because I'm nice and that they want me, that I'll just date them. Umm... I don't feel for you that way? Sorry? I get uncomfortable after that and if we can stay friends, that's great. If not, bye horn dog.

I am a little more laid back and reserved, but that doesn't mean I desperately need a boyfriend. I'm happy with being single as long as I got friends and family. When things start slowing down with school and stuff, then my accidental flirting will become more real lol
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MoxiRoxi wrote:If not, bye horn dog.

I am a little more laid back and reserved, but that doesn't mean I desperately need a boyfriend. I'm happy with being single as long as I got friends and family. When things start slowing down with school and stuff, then my accidental flirting will become more real lol
hot dog?

anyway accidental flirting? its on baby!
smooch semester is ready to proceed with the teaching!

also this girl he was talking about wanted company (or so I think or just depressed and some wouldn't want to be single?) even though any good players know the buttons for that game XP
shiit.. should never pressed this one though the big red button of destruction
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AzuroHeart wrote:

I was thinking, why is it that there are girls that are upset and ponder why they are single or want affection that they are not getting, but then when a boy or someone hits on them, or shows interest, they get uncomfortable, and usually turn him down, and then go back to moping.

Why does that happen? o.o


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pandrasb wrote:


AzuroHeart wrote:

I was thinking, why is it that there are girls that are upset and ponder why they are single or want affection that they are not getting, but then when a boy or someone hits on them, or shows interest, they get uncomfortable, and usually turn him down, and then go back to moping.

Why does that happen? o.o


who is these "girls" you refer to?

I mean the simple answer is that they don't want "your" D in particular.

Not everyone is gonna like you, simple fact of life.


Everyone your mistaken, you respond as if I got rejected recently which is not the case or at least it's what I'm seeing. o.o
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Rujikin wrote:


runec wrote:


AzuroHeart wrote:
That doesn't make any sense.


....the point was that if you are about to make a statement generalizing half the planet you might want to stop a moment and think about it. Because the scenario the op describes is by no means gender specific.

It also has a faint undertone of the classic "I'm inserting tokens but sex isn't falling out". No one is obligated to take their pants off for you just because you are paying attention to them.


He is trying to learn. Let him ask his questions and get enlightened.


You are very mistaken, you know neither who I am nor my actions I carry out.

Saying what you know as enlightenment when being ignorant of the circumstances because what you were told by someone else, when they themselves do the same as you, and you fail to understand.

What I've learned is what is confirmed, you've confirmed nothing and you preach what you would discard later.

People like you grieve me.
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Guys are the same way you know :/

And its because getting randomly hit on by people you don't know or don't like is not enjoyable and is yes uncomfortable.
Posted 3/3/16

AzuroHeart wrote:


pandrasb wrote:


AzuroHeart wrote:

I was thinking, why is it that there are girls that are upset and ponder why they are single or want affection that they are not getting, but then when a boy or someone hits on them, or shows interest, they get uncomfortable, and usually turn him down, and then go back to moping.

Why does that happen? o.o


who is these "girls" you refer to?

I mean the simple answer is that they don't want "your" D in particular.

Not everyone is gonna like you, simple fact of life.


Everyone your mistaken, you respond as if I got rejected recently which is not the case or at least it's what I'm seeing. o.o


holla up, let me reiterate. If a girl that is not interested in a homie that is hitting on em, regardless of whether they are wanting affection/attention or not, won't get randomly comfortable or enjoy getting hit up. It ain't like this homie is "gracing" her with his game. Maybe the boi got no game, idk.
Now why do they not like em even though they is desperate, well that depends on the girl, duh.

I mean if you're looking for something in specific, idk. cuz you like, "what ya'lls is sayings (super sayains) is a mistake" (paraphrasing)
that means that there is a Correct answer.
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GayAsianBoy wrote:

the guys are not her type.



just because they're lonely, doesn't mean they have to accept anybody that gives them a bit of attention. though I know there are people who are desperate and willingly accept any love coming their way, but that's really a recipe for disaster and scamming traps.


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serenity_midnight wrote:

okay seems like you're basing this off maybe one chick and one circumstance or situation which well isn't the most clever approach. We are all different and unique individuals just because something happened to you with a certain chick well you shouldn't expect that from all chicks lol like I totally don't expect your way of thinking from all guys lol that's just ridiculous, so keeping that in mind you think you're gonna offend all chicks by your circumstances please don't flatter yourself I mean you could be a decent enough guy idk seems like double standards to me, just saying. Just bc someone is lonely, male or female does not mean they want just anyone's attention. I mean put yourself in that person's place. Oh and what is wrong with dating? That helps us determine if the people we think we are attracted to are legitimately who they claim to be, I mean showing multiple chicks affection what does that entail of exactly?? And I can be surrounded by people and I'm still lonely because I want someone who understands me and loves me for who I am, did you consider that maybe?? Bedsides you just cannot put all females in that category, people can be lonely even tho you don't think they should be that's not up to you. Like I don't get to tell you how you should feel bc you are uniquely who you are, you are not every male I've come into contact with. We are all different thankfully lol like really thankfully


Are we playing the "Ignore everything I say" game? xD
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