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Posted 3/2/16
Girls/Guys/everyone in between

Have you ever been in the process of courtship, only to be hit with the "I'm not ready for a relationship/I'm not looking for anything" line and then find out a week later that they're trying to get with someone?

That shit HUUUUUURTS. It's like "well damn you could have just told me to come back in a couple of days"
Posted 3/2/16
eharmonyRoll strikes again.

answer to question: no, I don't keep in contact with or keep updated on persons if things don't work out
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26 / F / New Jersey, USA
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Posted 3/2/16
Never had that happened to me.
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36 / M / The Netherlands
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Posted 3/2/16 , edited 3/2/16
Not sure if I have the right interpretation of your situation here, but it looks to me that the other person just wasn't interested in a relationship with you and lacked the courage to tell you straightforward.
Apart from that, they were likely already dating/courting the other person as well.

Sucks, I know.

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Moving this to chit chat, by the way, as I have the impression that this is a personal thread.
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23 / M / A dark room
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Posted 3/2/16

GayAsianBoy wrote:

eharmonyRoll strikes again.

answer to question: no, I don't keep in contact with or keep updated on persons if things don't work out


Seriously. I say screw them if they don't have the ovaries to tell me to my face.
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They weren’t interested in you but didn't have the decency to admit it, so they made something up to make themselves feel better about rejecting you.
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Yeah funny how it works hey, didn't want to hurt your feelings but ended up offending you worse.
Posted 3/2/16
I never experienced that before. But that's sucks.
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27 / F / West Friendship,...
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Posted 3/2/16 , edited 3/2/16
I would of been offended too. Like, even if they didn't know at the time that they'd change their mind; how come they didn't think to go back to you? I'd try talking to them again and ask. It could be that they're just not interested People can't handle telling the truth when they feel put on the spot.
Posted 3/2/16
In Another words, they just friend-zoned you....
Posted 3/2/16 , edited 3/2/16
Never been into a situation like that
Then again, I don't "confess" to people
Posted 3/2/16
I think I gave someone that impression once when they asked why I don't have more friends.
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Posted 3/2/16
"I'm not ready for a relationship... with you".
"Will you ever be ready?!"
"No".
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21 / M / Indiana
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Posted 3/2/16
Happened to me during the summer cause she got out of a relationship a few weeks before we started seeing each other. I said I'd wait for her and then she got with another dude about 3-4 weeks later. who's titties am I supposed to suck on now, it wasn't cool
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24 / M / Labrador, Canada
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Posted 3/3/16
Ouch,yes.
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