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Post Reply What do you do when someone like you but it's not mutual?
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Posted 3/3/16
Idk. It depends. If they're dropping hints don't return them. If they get the courage to ask you out then be polite but honest. Worst thing you can do is lead them on.
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You'd be surprised, what we think about ourselves isn't how others see us. Someone may be closer than you realise.



Since everyone has left... and someone was even cruel enough to make me think they had killed themselves and implied it was my fault, when actually they were okay the whole time... I'm guessing no they really don't like me.
Posted 3/4/16
I'm going to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. I have had females like me but I don't like them back in a physical way however I do get to know them more in case there are attractive in other ways such as personality and the sort. I have had all sorts of gf's from the ugliest looking yet best character to the most sexiest with the worst personality and everything in between but I like to give everyone a chance something that most people don't do. Guess what I'm getting at is I'll be superficial to a certain point and then look at your inner qualities to see if I can find something I'm attracted to, I won't give up unless there's nothing there after I have looked. I think that's fair in my book.
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Unfortunately, I have no experience with this...
Posted 3/4/16

FruitPunchSamurai987 wrote:

Unfortunately, I have no experience with this...


Don't be late in this game FruitPunch, so much to learn have you
Posted 3/4/16
I leave them.



I find that if I stay close to someone I like, it makes me like him more so I think you should pick a course of action that suits your personality.
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FruitPunchSamurai987 wrote:

Unfortunately, I have no experience with this...


Same. I think breaking other people's hearts seems like fun.
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I love you, please feel the same way. ♡
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IShouldBeStudying wrote:

You should definitely tell them. I was on the other end of a situation like this very recently (very recently being last week)
It ended up being a shitty situation for the both of us, we still thought we could be friends but I couldn't stop letting my feelings get in the way.
She wasn't willing to cut me off (she was he type to talk to a lot of guys but never do anything with them because she loved the attention of 100 dudes trying to court her) so I had to cut myself off from her. Granted it took me a few times (I relapsed pretty easily) but I was finally able to do it for good, for the sake of both of us.

Best thing you can do is tell him or her to leave you alone completely before shit gets hectic. it'll be hard at first but you feel better once you realize it was the right decision


Sounds familiar. In all likelihood, I know who you're talking about.

As for the topic at hand, I have to agree with the majority of people in this thread. Be honest and tell them straight. Be nice about it, if at all possible. If they're being stubborn, give them one harsh line and leave it at that.
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Reject them.


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Honestly, i'd tell them the truth, tell them Im not interested and not the person their looking for.

I think it best to actually tell them you don't like them back instead of leading them on.
Posted 3/5/16

GayAsianBoy wrote:

I leave them.

I find that if I stay close to someone I like, it makes me like him more so I think you should pick a course of action that suits your personality.


Oops i totally misread the question


Honestly, i start feeling uncomfortable when someone likes me (and I don't like them back), because they start treating me nicer... and it's weird. so the nicer they treat me, the more distant i become xD in a way, my answer would be the same if the question was reversed... i would still leave them.
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I try to let them down gently, explaining it straight. If that doesn't work I'm left with make myself unappealing or run... tough life
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If they are a friend I try to be upfront that I just want to be friends. If they are not a close friend I just ignore them and give them the *fk off* glare
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Kira0309 wrote:

If they are a friend I try to be upfront that I just want to be friends. If they are not a close friend I just ignore them and give them the *fk off* glare


oooh the deadly *fk off* glare!And its super effective.

As for me,i don't often have the pleasure of being someones object of admiration.But if i don't like her...i'll tell it kindly.
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