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The insult "Get a life" & "You'll never have a life"
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Posted 3/13/16
You only have 3 more years of scrutiny from your parents until youre an adult.
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Allie_cat418 wrote:


paul25454 wrote:

First off, you are 15. The people you lived with are your parents. Get used to it. Secondary, if you are into computers. Show them how much the field makes. That should shut them up.


Ehhh not necessarily don't assume that everyone lives with their parents


that's a perfectly reasonable assumption for a child. sure not everyone lives with their parents but it is not the end of the world if someone "assumes" incorrectly




SylveonLuna wrote:

When you're young of age people won't expect much.


you got that right buddy i take young children seriously but i rarely take teenagers seriously. lol

sorry i cant offer anything substanical, my mother always told me to just deal with it, basically suck it up, that's how i've gotten through life and that's the only piece of advice i can give you. it's really all you can do until you're old enough and can afford to be out on your own.


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That's a pretty basic insult I hear spewed from the mouths of people who have a very specific definition of "life" that involves nothing but forced socializing, drinking, and spending time with the family (by which I mean sitting around the television at the same time). Anyway, my advice for you, if your mother is anything like my mother, would be just to put up with it until you're out. There was no reasoning with her, no matter how polite or severe I was in explanation.
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SylveonLuna wrote:

Alright let's dive into this.

Recently the people I live with are consistently telling me to "get a life" or "You'll never have a life".


I absolutely hate it when someone tells others to "get a life". Every time i'm asked to get a life i always ask them what do they mean. I'm alive i breath, eat, sleep i watch a shit ton of anime and plays games and do what i want and i can probably say i am far happier than them, so just because I'm not out working or being social this means i don't have a life? If i have to make myself any less happy than i am now to "get a life" then i'd rather be without a life and i guess be not living or what ever and be happy.

The life people are talking about isn't living its merely surviving and doing the same thing that others do and what people consider normal. Having a job going to school having friends and a family, just the same shit every one else has, so its not "get a life" its "live the same way everyone else is". that's why i'm a Shut-in Otaku NEET because i don't like the way everyone else lives, i dont wanna work or go to school and i wouldn't mind having a family of my own just as long as it doesn't get in the way of "my life".

So when others tell you to "get a life" tell them no I'm gonna "live my life".
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Posted 3/13/16

SylveonLuna wrote:


Allie_cat418 wrote:


paul25454 wrote:

First off, you are 15. The people you lived with are your parents. Get used to it. Secondary, if you are into computers. Show them how much the field makes. That should shut them up.


Ehhh not necessarily don't assume that everyone lives with their parents


He's correct to some degree.

As for the person mentioning they are a slave essentially I relate with that feeling.

However I was hesitant to post this entire conflict because of my age.

When you're young of age people won't expect much.




I want you to read this in it's entirety.
I went through the same thing when I was your age. Trust me when I say you'll grow out of this. You don't hate them, you're just angry because you feel unappreciated. If you're going to tell them about this it has to be in a way that doesn't sound like an attack because honestly if they go on the defensive you'll lose. You'll lose because they're going to tell you this is their house and that they pay the bills. They'll say everyone does something and you need to pitch in. I've heard it all before. It's part of having a family. Don't tell them they're hypocritical just tell them that you don't feel appreciated. Don't get too angry at them. They're all you have. This is part of growing up and I want you to understand that you'll come out stronger when all this is over. I sincerely wish you my best.
Posted 3/13/16

dragontackle wrote:

You only have 3 more years of scrutiny from your parents until youre an adult.


Well somewhat yes.

Its actually 2 years however

That's until 18 at least.
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Posted 3/13/16

ZavinRoyalheart wrote:


SylveonLuna wrote:


Allie_cat418 wrote:


paul25454 wrote:

First off, you are 15. The people you lived with are your parents. Get used to it. Secondary, if you are into computers. Show them how much the field makes. That should shut them up.


Ehhh not necessarily don't assume that everyone lives with their parents


He's correct to some degree.

As for the person mentioning they are a slave essentially I relate with that feeling.

However I was hesitant to post this entire conflict because of my age.

When you're young of age people won't expect much.




I want you to read this in it's entirety.
I went through the same thing when I was your age. Trust me when I say you'll grow out of this. You don't hate them, you're just angry because you feel unappreciated. If you're going to tell them about this it has to be in a way that doesn't sound like an attack because honestly if they go on the defensive you'll lose. You'll lose because they're going to tell you this is their house and that they pay the bills. They'll say everyone does something and you need to pitch in. I've heard it all before. It's part of having a family. Don't tell them they're hypocritical just tell them that you don't feel appreciated. Don't get too angry at them. They're all you have. This is part of growing up and I want you to understand that you'll come out stronger when all this is over. I sincerely wish you my best.


"you'll come out stronger" hahaha i came out as a shut-in otaku neet but i am far happier now.
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Posted 3/13/16

hemicuda2 wrote:


ZavinRoyalheart wrote:


SylveonLuna wrote:


Allie_cat418 wrote:


paul25454 wrote:

First off, you are 15. The people you lived with are your parents. Get used to it. Secondary, if you are into computers. Show them how much the field makes. That should shut them up.


Ehhh not necessarily don't assume that everyone lives with their parents


He's correct to some degree.

As for the person mentioning they are a slave essentially I relate with that feeling.

However I was hesitant to post this entire conflict because of my age.

When you're young of age people won't expect much.




I want you to read this in it's entirety.
I went through the same thing when I was your age. Trust me when I say you'll grow out of this. You don't hate them, you're just angry because you feel unappreciated. If you're going to tell them about this it has to be in a way that doesn't sound like an attack because honestly if they go on the defensive you'll lose. You'll lose because they're going to tell you this is their house and that they pay the bills. They'll say everyone does something and you need to pitch in. I've heard it all before. It's part of having a family. Don't tell them they're hypocritical just tell them that you don't feel appreciated. Don't get too angry at them. They're all you have. This is part of growing up and I want you to understand that you'll come out stronger when all this is over. I sincerely wish you my best.


"you'll come out stronger" hahaha i came out as a shut-in otaku neet but i am far happier now.


You're stronger than you know.
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Posted 3/13/16

ZavinRoyalheart wrote:


hemicuda2 wrote:


ZavinRoyalheart wrote:


SylveonLuna wrote:


Allie_cat418 wrote:


paul25454 wrote:

First off, you are 15. The people you lived with are your parents. Get used to it. Secondary, if you are into computers. Show them how much the field makes. That should shut them up.


Ehhh not necessarily don't assume that everyone lives with their parents


He's correct to some degree.

As for the person mentioning they are a slave essentially I relate with that feeling.

However I was hesitant to post this entire conflict because of my age.

When you're young of age people won't expect much.




I want you to read this in it's entirety.
I went through the same thing when I was your age. Trust me when I say you'll grow out of this. You don't hate them, you're just angry because you feel unappreciated. If you're going to tell them about this it has to be in a way that doesn't sound like an attack because honestly if they go on the defensive you'll lose. You'll lose because they're going to tell you this is their house and that they pay the bills. They'll say everyone does something and you need to pitch in. I've heard it all before. It's part of having a family. Don't tell them they're hypocritical just tell them that you don't feel appreciated. Don't get too angry at them. They're all you have. This is part of growing up and I want you to understand that you'll come out stronger when all this is over. I sincerely wish you my best.


"you'll come out stronger" hahaha i came out as a shut-in otaku neet but i am far happier now.


You're stronger than you know.


I consider myself very strong, not many people can claim they are living life the way they are wanting to and being happy.
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SylveonLuna wrote:

Alright let's dive into this.

Recently the people I live with are consistently telling me to "get a life" or "You'll never have a life".

These terms really piss me off from the hypocritical people they come from.

For example, My mother has always said how I'm so useless I'll never get a job etc. However whenever I clean I go on for hours making it a well done and finished cleaning yet when she even ATTEMPTS to get a project done she ends up saying "Oh I give up this will never be clean" Yet... I'll be forced to end up cleaning it in the future.

This really annoys me because they act as if they are a main character as if everything bad or good happens them and them only. I suppose its only fair they act that way really considering the perspective this reality gives to everyone is somewhat of a main character perspective.

Back on the topic they also like to keep to the lesson of "Only do things for yourself" Yet again more hypocritical things that adds to the list of things these people I live with do considering I have to be forced to do all their work which makes me sound like a main character due to all the things happening to myself.

EDIT: I also have to make things for them apparently and go out of my way to bring them the remote to the TV that is a tiny bit out of their arm reach... I hate these people so much -.-

I find this really annoying as well that these people don't know how tech has evolved and that whenever I want to pursue something like making a game or learning coding they make me get distracted by forcing me to clean up after their own pathetic life style.

I want to ask you all. What the hell should I even do in this situation.

I'm stuck with people I despise and overall hate the things they force me to do.

Hopefully I'm going to get a job in a month from now when I'm able too hopefully not have my social awkwardness kick in.

Hell I've even been tempted to yell off my quote on my profile however that has yet to happen considering I have no real choice but to keep staying with these freaks until I'm able to leave.

Sorry about annoying you all with this rant I just want to know.

What instances have you had with people saying get a life?

What do you think of that?

What should I do?



Okay, Don't Care what family or any others tell you, if you don't have friends, join clubs like book clubs or some anime clubs around your area, Yes the job thing is good, I really don't know the whole situation. However the only advice I can give you is don't give up on anything prove everyone wrong. Believe in yourself, if you get depressed, it can lead to drugs and other bad habits where it will make them right, you won't have a life!!! I say, stay away from home as much as you can, I know I can help you Its just over fourm there is only so much I can do...
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SylveonLuna wrote:

Alright let's dive into this.

Recently the people I live with are consistently telling me to "get a life" or "You'll never have a life".

These terms really piss me off from the hypocritical people they come from.

For example, My mother has always said how I'm so useless I'll never get a job etc. However whenever I clean I go on for hours making it a well done and finished cleaning yet when she even ATTEMPTS to get a project done she ends up saying "Oh I give up this will never be clean" Yet... I'll be forced to end up cleaning it in the future.

This really annoys me because they act as if they are a main character as if everything bad or good happens them and them only. I suppose its only fair they act that way really considering the perspective this reality gives to everyone is somewhat of a main character perspective.

Back on the topic they also like to keep to the lesson of "Only do things for yourself" Yet again more hypocritical things that adds to the list of things these people I live with do considering I have to be forced to do all their work which makes me sound like a main character due to all the things happening to myself.

EDIT: I also have to make things for them apparently and go out of my way to bring them the remote to the TV that is a tiny bit out of their arm reach... I hate these people so much -.-

I find this really annoying as well that these people don't know how tech has evolved and that whenever I want to pursue something like making a game or learning coding they make me get distracted by forcing me to clean up after their own pathetic life style.

I want to ask you all. What the hell should I even do in this situation.

I'm stuck with people I despise and overall hate the things they force me to do.

Hopefully I'm going to get a job in a month from now when I'm able too hopefully not have my social awkwardness kick in.

Hell I've even been tempted to yell off my quote on my profile however that has yet to happen considering I have no real choice but to keep staying with these freaks until I'm able to leave.

Sorry about annoying you all with this rant I just want to know.

What instances have you had with people saying get a life?

What do you think of that?

What should I do?


Ignore those who disregard you, if you've lifted no hand nor heel against them, then why do they seek to devour a desire from your heart?

You're looking at a man who's defied the odds, and I do what I want for a living, though I've had help.
People have tormented me to the point my resistance to pain has gone bad and small things hurt a lot lately.
It's quite sh*tty having a situation where your parents don't support you, I feel for you, my family history is quite... interesting.

Plus if your forced to do things you don't want, bare through it, but don't take them to heart, stay strong, though easier said than done.

If you need someone to talk to, I'm around.
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Posted 3/13/16
Lol as someone has said, you are 15.

A lot will change in 8 years, including your disposition.

The young will always think like this, but the funny thing is, there will always be people like this around every corner. Do you know how many people think just like you? Do you know how many people want the exact outcome as you do?

Wait until you have to face the world on your own, all these tasks that are being forced on you, is it really that annoying? Hypocritical? Wait until you have to work for someone, and they tell you to finish their job. Maybe it won't feel like such a task when you have experienced something just like that.

There will always be people who will tell you that your life is useless, so just prove them wrong, live however you want to live, simple as that
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I feel like a lot of people like to find excuses to be stuck at home and play games all day...not particularly you but people I know. You're young and you have plenty of room to grow if you try.

You can have a good life style while pursuing your passion.
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ayaundwolf wrote:


That's a pretty basic insult I hear spewed from the mouths of people who have a very specific definition of "life" that involves nothing but forced socializing, drinking, and spending time with the family (by which I mean sitting around the television at the same time). Anyway, my advice for you, if your mother is anything like my mother, would be just to put up with it until you're out. There was no reasoning with her, no matter how polite or severe I was in explanation.


^true dat.
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Everyone has a life, life is about enjoying things that make you happy. People worry over too much
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