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Posted 3/16/16
So I am currently a 23 year old male. In Orange County CA. I have a dating profile on POF. And meeting someone has...... never really worked..... Because I am not into the things they are into. Mudding, Fishing, Not into Following Sports, Country music, Adventurists. And they are not into the things I am into Anime, Video Games, Anime References, Cute anime stuff, Listening to records, JDM Culture, Food, Electronic music, J-Rock, Indie, Economics, Astronomy, Evolution, Science. These are a number of things I am into.
So how do I go about finding and dating someone. I would do conventions but I heard and seen that most of the Girls are High school age 17-18. So I think my best bet is finding someone in a Anime Club or Group. Honestly I really don't see myself dating or (even) marring someone who isn't an anime fan. It is a part of me if you can believe it or not. I have been watching anime since I was literally 6 years old. Since Pokemon the original series in 1998 and I am also part of the original Toonami Generation. I have been told that I am person that is more affectionate than sexual if you can believe that. And I am attracted to innocence.

Anyway any help would be greatly appreciated.
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1) go workout, get abs
2) cosplay anyone from free! in their swim gear at your next anime convention.

3) rake in all the waifus
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Just find the girl you can trust and tell her how you feel.
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just be yourself and be cute! hehe u already sounds like an amazing lad and im sure that any girl would be lucky to have you hehe im honestly so surprised that you're single but ya, just be KAWAII and any girl will LOVE to HOOK UP with you! =^.^= kawaii-ness is all it takes really hehe <3 good luck~~
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Posted 3/17/16
Go to anime/comic cons.

Don't be shy.

profit.
Posted 3/17/16
there is always Pv he pervy talk to him he has ans. ahhaahaha
Posted 3/17/16
Age isn't too much of a factor as you grow older, especially if you're invested in the same hobby. However, career ambitions begin at that age, so you find people to be too invested in their work to care, but for some its a good thing to have a person whose life doesn't revolve around relationships. I wouldn't about age too much.
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Posted 3/17/16

PeripheralVisionary wrote:

Age isn't too much of a factor as you grow older, especially if you're invested in the same hobby. However, career ambitions begin at that age, so you find people to be too invested in their work to care, but for some its a good thing to have a person whose life doesn't revolve around relationships. I wouldn't about age too much.


True. But the way I see it. Is if you focus on career. You find a high paying, high stress job. You have all this money but you have no time to use it. And your health deteriorates. And once you lose your health you lose everything. There is no money to come back to, to be spent.
And if you understand a Bit about economics. You know that money is printed out of thin air. Faster than it would grow on trees.
So what I am trying to say is isn't their more important things in life than money. At our level. Yes we cannot survive without it. But people need to realize how hard it is to find "the One". Delaying a relationships and family and settling for someone at the last second could only end in disaster and divorce.
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Posted 3/17/16

ichigoyuri wrote:

just be yourself and be cute! hehe u already sounds like an amazing lad and im sure that any girl would be lucky to have you hehe im honestly so surprised that you're single but ya, just be KAWAII and any girl will LOVE to HOOK UP with you! =^.^= kawaii-ness is all it takes really hehe <3 good luck~~


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Posted 3/17/16 , edited 3/17/16

lxmarshall wrote:


PeripheralVisionary wrote:

Age isn't too much of a factor as you grow older, especially if you're invested in the same hobby. However, career ambitions begin at that age, so you find people to be too invested in their work to care, but for some its a good thing to have a person whose life doesn't revolve around relationships. I wouldn't about age too much.


True. But the way I see it. Is if you focus on career. You find a high paying, high stress job. You have all this money but you have no time to use it. And your health deteriorates. And once you lose your health you lose everything. There is no money to come back to, to be spent.
And if you understand a Bit about economics. You know that money is printed out of thin air. Faster than it would grow on trees.
So what I am trying to say is isn't their more important things in life than money. At our level. Yes we cannot survive without it. But people need to realize how hard it is to find "the One". Delaying a relationships and family and settling for someone at the last second could only end in disaster and divorce.


Money isn't the only reason people go forward with certain careers. I myself am looking to challenge myself, though I find a great deal of relationships with are more enjoyable because they seek mature individuals with ambitions, though this is just observation on my part.
Posted 3/17/16
There's a lot of anime cons that run speed dating gigs, sign yourself up for one. Or back to school and join the anime club.

Put yourself out there. Btw, OP most of the girls aren't 17-18 at cons lol (well the bigger ones I go to).
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You will find them in the most unexpected situation.

One day you'll casually hear a girl who likes anime/manga, someone who looks so unlikely to like anime.
Then you'll ask her about it.
She fangirls and breaks character.
You talk more.
You end up with her.
You *****.

After that time will only tell.
This is not a joke post im very serious about this. This happened to me many times


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Posted 3/18/16
okay, first off, 23 dating 18 is not a big deal.
second off, yeah, get into shape. it really helps.
third, off, stop trying to make it happen. focus on making friends, and not lovers. you cant force it.
and yeah, hit alot of cons. phoenix comicon is pretty awesome, and most of the bars in the area have anime themes that day.
and dont be afraid to date older either.
Posted 3/18/16

kallutos wrote:

You will find them in the most unexpected situation.

One day you'll casually hear a girl who likes anime/manga, someone who looks so unlikely to like anime.
Then you'll ask her about it.
She fangirls and breaks character.
You talk more.
You end up with her.
You *****.

After that time will only tell.
This is not a joke post im very serious about this. This happened to me many times




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Posted 3/18/16

PeripheralVisionary wrote:


kallutos wrote:

You will find them in the most unexpected situation.

One day you'll casually hear a girl who likes anime/manga, someone who looks so unlikely to like anime.
Then you'll ask her about it.
She fangirls and breaks character.
You talk more.
You end up with her.
You *****.

After that time will only tell.
This is not a joke post im very serious about this. This happened to me many times




Arousing!


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