After my last gf I have noticed....
Posted 3/25/16
The only type of woman I'm attracted to are Japanese after being with just two in my life. I have had women from other ethnicitys interested in me for whatever reason but I can't seem to reciprocate their advances. Is there something wrong with me and have you experienced a similar complication? (Btw, I'm not joking this time).
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Posted 3/25/16
Maybe, you aren't interesting in those ethnicity and have a Japanese fetish man. Get off your high horse and give them a chance.
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Posted 3/25/16
Looks like someone doesnt like to bust a few nuts
Posted 3/25/16
Well, i thought that maybe I would receive some insighful and intelligent suggestions in here but unfortunately i got neither. It won't change the person who I am, I still will help those that need and seek help with genuine and helpful suggestions. So, if a mod just so happens to read this I give you permission to lock and close this forum. What a fuck*ing waste.
Posted 3/25/16
Just because advice is blunt, doesn't mean you can dismiss it, but then again, I do that all the time. ^^;
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Posted 3/26/16

bethos30 wrote:

The only type of woman I'm attracted to are Japanese after being with just two in my life. I have had women from other ethnicitys interested in me for whatever reason but I can't seem to reciprocate their advances. Is there something wrong with me and have you experienced a similar complication? (Btw, I'm not joking this time).


Why do people think there is something wrong with them on here lol. If people think there is something wrong go see professional help not random people on internet forums.

Provided they can consent it isn't like you are doing anything wrong. Oh I like Japanese women there is something wrong with me... It is like saying being gay/lesbian is wrong. There is nothing wrong with what you are attracted too (unless it is considered a criminal offense). If someone does say no don't care what they say.

No there isn't anything wrong with you. Some people like the Asian appearance more then others. I personally think Asian girls are really cute I think others are well less cute. (I don't find anything attractive.)

What are you actually attracted to women wise. Is it just general appearance? Face? height? personality? boobs? butt? You kinda need to provide more for me to offer any other advice.

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Posted 3/26/16

bethos30 wrote:

The only type of woman I'm attracted to are Japanese after being with just two in my life. I have had women from other ethnicitys interested in me for whatever reason but I can't seem to reciprocate their advances. Is there something wrong with me and have you experienced a similar complication? (Btw, I'm not joking this time).


There's nothing wrong with you in that aspect. It's your preference, it could be your fetish, and/or you are a Japanophile (sp?). Overall, it's what you like/prefer, and not anyone else's choice. It's like saying you only like females with long dark hair, or girls with short curly hair...if you're drawn to it, you can't very much help that.

I'd say it too, I have specific preferences I go for, and I definitely ignore or don't acknowledge advances from certain types of people. Why would you waste your time trying to reciprocate advances from those you don't find to your liking? You'd be doing yourself and them a favor by not wasting time. It's being efficient.
Posted 3/26/16

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bethos30 wrote:

The only type of woman I'm attracted to are Japanese after being with just two in my life. I have had women from other ethnicitys interested in me for whatever reason but I can't seem to reciprocate their advances. Is there something wrong with me and have you experienced a similar complication? (Btw, I'm not joking this time).


There's nothing wrong with you in that aspect. It's your preference, it could be your fetish, and/or you are a Japanophile (sp?). Overall, it's what you like/prefer, and not anyone else's choice. It's like saying you only like females with long dark hair, or girls with short curly hair...if you're drawn to it, you can't very much help that.

I'd say it too, I have specific preferences I go for, and I definitely ignore or don't acknowledge advances from certain types of people. Why would you waste your time trying to reciprocate advances from those you don't find to your liking? You'd be doing yourself and them a favor by not wasting time. It's being efficient.


Thank you, that gave me some peace of mind and makes sense.
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Posted 3/26/16
Yup! No problem, bethos30 !

And anyone who has turned down someone's advances for any reason has experienced a similar "complication" (which I wouldn't even consider it one). At least you're firm in your preferences, and not another thirsty person.
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Posted 3/26/16
Well, of course we all have preferences and we wish we could be with or have sex with someone that fits that profile, but I've always been an advocate of going with your heart not your groin. You should never choose a person just because he or she fits a certain profile you've built up in your mind, go for the person that challenges you and makes you a better person, the one that you don't just have a physical attraction to but also a mental attraction. Never close your mind just because you want something else, you could miss out on something amazing.
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