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I know there are tons of guys who are picky about height, weight, race and I'm sure other superficial things that have no impact on what kind of person someone is.

I'm attracted most to personalities and how well they mesh with my own. I consider myself fairly down to earth, and that's kind of what I gravitate towards. Intelligence is huge too... you can be the hottest chick in the room, but if what comes out of your mouth is rubbish I start to zone out completely. I feel relationships need to be more like being on a great team... there have to be gives and gets on both sides. The ability to compromise and sacrifice (if needed) must be mutual, or you'll just end up resenting the other person. I like independence, but not so much as I would never see the other person, or do everything by myself. I also like to be pushed a little bit, because I am pretty shy and it can be pretty difficult for me to come out of my comfort zone on my own sometimes.

But then again, I'm strange.


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C'mon people this isn't trophy wives this is the person you will spend the rest of your life with. By age 60 looks are GONE, it's there personality that you should be attracted to not there appearance.

Gg man, world needs more like u.
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Someone to be my Best Friend Forever


Isn't that the idea of a boyfriend/husband in the first place?
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A woman that's actually interested in me, for one.
Maybe a few years older than me with no children.
Shares interests.
Isn't loud often.
Likes to have fun (like "let's go play laser tag or jump around in a trampoline park" kinda fun)

I don't care much about looks because I'm looking to reach on a level past that but since I'm sure it wont' happen, I'm cool with being by myself
Posted 4/7/16
i dont have an ideal; i would like to be surprised

what is that quote about chocolates and opening a box of chocolates

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somecanadianmagick wrote:

I know there are tons of guys who are picky about height, weight, race and I'm sure other superficial things that have no impact on what kind of person someone is.

I'm attracted most to personalities and how well they mesh with my own. I consider myself fairly down to earth, and that's kind of what I gravitate towards. Intelligence is huge too... you can be the hottest chick in the room, but if what comes out of your mouth is rubbish I start to zone out completely. I feel relationships need to be more like being on a great team... there have to be gives and gets on both sides. The ability to compromise and sacrifice (if needed) must be mutual, or you'll just end up resenting the other person. I like independence, but not so much as I would never see the other person, or do everything by myself. I also like to be pushed a little bit, because I am pretty shy and it can be pretty difficult for me to come out of my comfort zone on my own sometimes.

But then again, I'm strange.


^

C'mon people this isn't trophy wives this is the person you will spend the rest of your life with. By age 60 looks are GONE, it's there personality that you should be attracted to not there appearance.

Gg man, world needs more like u.


Obviously personality is more important than looks... I don't think anyone is saying otherwise... However, the question is "what is your ideal"... And whilst someone can say they don't judge people on looks, and would go out with someone who is hideous if they had a beautiful personality, and be telling the truth, I seriously doubt anyone given the option to create their ideal partner wouldn't make this person beautiful on the outside too...
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A tall blonde tsundere with a sense of humour?
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Clingy and obsessive hng
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Several people answered "clingy"


Trust me you wouldn't want that........ unless you don't want any more to do with any of your hobbies or stuff that you like!


You want a woman that would at least give you enough space to enjoy your own stuff


My wife was really clingy until she learned to give me some space
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I dont care. You never know what you want until you've had it. Carrying around a list in your head is pretty pointless, unless it's just about sex.
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My ideal concepts?
I dunno.
Maybe a gamer with long hair?
As long as they like me for me then I don't really care.
Otherwise I guess I like long hair like I said.
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You know I keep looking at this question and I honestly don't know what my ideal concept is. Maybe it's because I'm a bit odd in my preferences and definitely don't think of myself as straight, but sometimes question whether I'm interested in men or women at all. I've always had this interest in people who look like the opposite sex, kind of like women don't interest me because they don't have "the p" but men don't because they don't have "the v."

As a pansexual person (and this is true even if you're not pansexual), personality is the most important thing, that's why I have found internet dating to be far superior to RL dating: You get to know the person before meeting them. In RL dating, no matter how hard you try, you're always putting up a front to impress your date that's not really how you are on a daily basis. I want to know how my perspective love interest lives their daily life, what secrets they have, their fears, their ideas. All that comes front and center on the internet because we are not looking at each other.

Appearance-wise my preference is cute and youthful looking, with characteristics that lean more on the feminine side. But since I have this weird quirk with opposite sex-looking people, that person who I've been talking to who I thought was a cute girl actually turned out to be a really girly guy is even more ideal than if he really was a cute girl.
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My bf .
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I'm not especially particular, but there's something about a woman that can kick my rear. I.e. Olivier Armstrong :3
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Well, if we're talking about a concept that's anywhere close to realistic, she'd have to be like this. Brace for text.

She's gotta be smart, first and foremost. A woman with a sharp wit and a sharp tongue is incredibly attractive to me. I consider myself moderately intelligent and want someone I can discuss just about anything with, someone who can offer a different opinion from mine and we discuss and/or debate it. A sense of tact would be quite essential for that as well. I mean, I don't want to counter an argument/opinion and receive only hostility. She's got to understand that 90% of the time, I'm not being serious and what I say shouldn't be taken seriously nor personally. I'm a big joker and I've been known to tease, so a good sport is also essential. And if she can joke and tease back, all the better. I also admire ambition and determination. You know, a gal who's driven and knows what she wants and how to get it.
She has to be quirky, a real oddball by most accounts. For example, someone who keeps rats as pets and treats them with the utmost care. That goes on to my next point, she has to be gentle and kind. I'm not a real tough-guy kind of guy, though some have misinterpreted me as such due to my tall stature, posture, and broad shoulders. I digress, she needs to treat me with the same kindness and gentleness that I give to her. Not to mention honesty. I pride myself on my honesty and want the same from a prospective partner. A strong sense of understanding would be immensely beneficial. I have my physical limits. In fact, I am physically disabled. There's not a lot I can do. It would be perfect if she understands that I push forward in a different way than most people do. In essence, this woman has to be the kind that, once she knows me and cares for me, won't give up on me. That one in seven billion kind of lass. And furthermore in the topic of understanding, I have pretty much zero experience with relationships, so her understanding, and even aid in that aspect, would be a blessing.
Beyond the personality, I believe she has to have this sort of energy around her. The kind of thing that both soothes and invigorates me. Normally, I'm calm as a clam, but I do tend to overthink things and worry more than I should. That kind of energy works wonders.

Physically speaking, if she fits all the above criteria, I couldn't care less. Though seeing as we're on the topic of ideal concepts, I'd prefer a prefer a more slender woman. I like darker colors of hair, especially reds. I'd prefer women of a lighter skin tone, no offense to all you bold and beautiful black ladies out there. Around my age would be great. You know, a woman who's matured mentally, emotionally, and intellectually. Legal drinking age would be fun too. Pretty eyes, soft skin, a bright smile, you know the more basic of things are nice too.
I don't know if I'll ever be lucky enough to find a lass like all this, but if what they say about karma coming back tenfold is true, then all I have to do is wait.
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