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Post Reply Is being gay normal?
Posted 4/1/16

ILuvCats11 wrote:

Like I just wanted to ask people, well I don't know how to word it so... Is being gay maybe something wrong with your brain or caused from manipulation or something, I'm only gay because my friend "turned me gay" so... or is it just natural, what do you think?
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and i'm fine with being gay and don't care what others think, since alot of people are talking about stuff like that...

and this aint a april fools day joke so....


Is being gay normal? No.

Is not normal bad? No.

You don't have to change just because someone says so. I think you're hilarious the way you are.
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Everyone's perception of normal is different.
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From a religious point of view, if God had thought homosexuality is a sin, he would not have created gay people.

PD: Just saying...
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Nope.
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I'm gay, and I say love is a beautiful thing. Love whoever you want to love, regardless of gender
PS: being gay is amazing.
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No, Homosexuality isn't a "normal" human trait. We haven't evolved to reproduce via homosexual intercourse, so it stands to reason that heterosexual mating would be primarily encouraged. Evolution doesn't give a damn about ideals. Fact is; for humans, two or more homosexuals engaging in coitus with the same sex doesn't result in pregnancy, not without science. Because of that, our hard-wiring generally focuses on manipulating us into mating with the opposite sex. It's nothing more than a means to an end, regardless of who feels "attacked" or "favored."

The problem arises when people twist "normalcy" and "abnormalcy" into some contest and take things personally. When folks develop some victim or superiority complex over an impartial system, it's on their own heads.
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Posted 4/1/16
Is anything normal?
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Is it normal? No.

Is a crime of nature that you're going to go to hell for? No.

Animals in the wild have displayed signs of homosexuality in the past and still do to this day. The only people who are going to tell you that it's wrong are hardcore theists who already wouldn't have liked it. Don't let anyone tell you what to do.
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What most of everyone has been saying, its all in the jeans.

Although I will say, if you are only choosing to be gay just to fit in with others, but are not actually gay, you may want to just think about what your doing before going that route.

But if you are 100% sure you are gay, rock out man. Gay marriage is legal and these days only old white folk care if your gay. (or your parents, that can be kinda hard on them, especially if they really wanted grandchildren or something)
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Being normal according to dictionary.com: (adj.) conforming to the standard or the common type; usual; not abnormal; regular; natural.

So while I would not say its the "common" type of sexual orientation, so maybe not normal, but it is natural as homosexuality appears in other species.
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no who is even happy all the time?


Amauris_Arias wrote:

From a religious point of view, if God had thought homosexuality is a sin, he would not have created gay people.

PD: Just saying...


only if you believe people are born gay
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It's not normal but really that shouldn't matter. I feel a lot of people are too obessed with the idea of being normal.

So what if you aren't normal as long as you aren't dangerous you can be who you want to be.

That is why I dislike some of these movement groups who try to shove minorities, gays, ect in your face in an effort to be accepted as "normal".

Instead of forcing the world to see you as normal just accept you aren't normal and make other people accept that you don't have to be normal.

BTW what I just said applies to more than just gays I mean anyone who is classified as not normal for any reason.

Also just to clarify what I said doesn't apply to anything that is dangerous or outright immoral. Like Pedophilia that is not normal but in a VERY bad way. I bring this up because along with the Gay, Black, ect rights movements there are a few ... odd minor movements or at least attempts to spark movements for things that just shouldn't be a thing. or attempts to take loose interpretations of major movements to do some really messed up stuff.

So just to summarize there are two kinds of not normal. Harmless not normal that no one should be ashamed of and bad not normal that needs to be dealt with and not encouraged. It's the argument over where that line sits that causes all these debates.
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Posted 4/1/16 , edited 4/1/16

Sogno- wrote:

no who is even happy all the time?


Amauris_Arias wrote:

From a religious point of view, if God had thought homosexuality is a sin, he would not have created gay people.

PD: Just saying...


only if you believe people are born gay


I don't think homosexuality is a choice. Society forces you to think it's a choice, but in fact, it's in one's nature. The choice is whether one expresses one's nature truthfully or spends the rest of one's life lying about it.
Posted 4/1/16
I don't think it matters. In the end your sexuality is your own. And before some Christians tell you that it is wrong, you should know that some priests have done stuff with men because women were seen as evil and a part of Satan.....
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No, Homosexuality isn't a "normal" human trait. We haven't evolved to reproduce via homosexual intercourse, so it stands to reason that heterosexual mating would be primarily encouraged. Evolution doesn't give a damn about ideals. Fact is; for humans, two or more homosexuals engaging in coitus with the same sex doesn't result in pregnancy, not without science. Because of that, our hard-wiring generally focuses on manipulating us into mating with the opposite sex. It's nothing more than a means to an end, regardless of who feels "attacked" or "favored."

The problem arises when people twist "normalcy" and "abnormalcy" into some contest and take things personally. When folks develop some victim or superiority complex over an impartial system, it's on their own heads.
That's an interesting perspective. It’s almost as if science cares about whether something is normal or not.
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