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For me yes. Mainly that is because I told a girl that I like her. Well she went ummmmm. This is like when I was close to 12 can't really remember. That took a hit on my self esteem. So I can't speak for all nice guys though.
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Since I am a "nice guy", being in the friend zone is just nature to me. When a girl told me, "I like you as a friend," I don't get mad. I am just glad that I have another weekend of watching Asian pornography
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Both women and men like what they can't have easily[/i].

So "nice guys/girls" might be undesirable for the majority of people people that often seek for excitement or thrill in a relationship....

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I think they mean that the ones who call themselves "nice guys" usually tend to get pissed off at the fact that a girl didn't choose them, and then the dark side of their personality comes out because of that. I think
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Posted 4/8/16 , edited 4/8/16
Lol, this topic again? :P

"Nice guy" is generally code for being socially awkward. I've had this debate before with guys that always complained about how people wouldn't thank them when they did good deeds. "I held the door open for her and she didn't even thank me!"
My stance was... who cares? If you're only doing nice things to get something out of people, you're not exactly a nice person. You're just a two-faced con-artist that is using niceness as a pretense to get what you want. A lot of socially awkward guys have this weird delusion that doing favors for women will eventually lead to them getting into a relationship. So when that doesn't happen, they snap and show their true colors. Avoid people that claim they are "nice guys."

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Posted 4/8/16 , edited 4/8/16
There's a difference between bakas calling themselves nice guys to make them self more appealing and guys who are actually literally nice.
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I'm probably a douchebag and I'm "love shy". People who refer to themselves as "nice" or "kind" generally aren't in my opinion.
Posted 4/8/16
I'm pretty much the nice and sweet guy but that all changes with an inner switch where I can turn into a god damn shark
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xfeys7Jfnx8

This thread reminded me so much of this video I just had to link it.

"Do I look fat in this dress? Hell yeah you do, let me speak your language cows go moo"

such a throwback oh my god what was my fetus self doing
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nice guys are a myth

all guys are jerkbutts
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Nice is nothing.

You don't want a thousand women to like you. You want a DOZEN women to LOVE you.

So when a girl says you're a nice guy, say "that's nice" and go find someone who thinks you're hot.

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21 / F / Canada
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I don't know think there's such thing as friendzoning and nice guy is a way to reject someone who never had a chance to begin with.

Attraction is instant. It's, I don't like you either I like you. If that attraction is mutual, then one or the other will ask each other out despite shyness.
Posted 4/8/16
I am shy can i hold you hand lil one
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I don't know about love shy.

There is a difference between being led on and just simply being friends. Obviously you shouldn't lead people on but sometimes people interpret "being nice" as "flirting" and heart break happens.
Posted 4/8/16 , edited 4/8/16
NIce is not bad. Weak. uninteresting, poor, ugly, shitposters are bad.
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