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Post Reply Have you overcome the biggest betrayal of your life, or are you still beat up over it?
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Posted 4/13/16
If you have overcome it, how'd you overcome it?
If you're still beat up over it, do you think you'll be able to get over it one day?

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Posted 4/13/16 , edited 4/13/16
Well, yeah. I overcame it quite easily since I had already predicted what was going to happen, plus I secretly never trusted the group who had done the "betrayal"(if you'd like to refer a let down as so) much so yeah.


I think what helped me is the fact that my ties with anyone besides my own family is extremely weak anyway, so I can't feel that shocked to see some people doing certain things.
Posted 4/13/16
I hold grudges with me 'til death.
It's not good to live like this kids!
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its simple

i played along with my parents about santa claus for my brother and sister
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Posted 4/13/16

ShittyRestaurant wrote:

I think what helped me is the fact that my ties with anyone besides my own family is extremely weak anyway, so I can't feel that shocked to see some people doing certain things.


Yeah, this. I've never been straight out betrayed by anyone, just let down a lot by people in general. It's made me a bit more pessimistic when I'm forced to lead a project, because I know that they'll not meet my expectations for success.
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Posted 4/13/16

TJlimber wrote:

its simple

i played along with my parents about santa claus for my brother and sister


Wait? What about Santa Claus? What is it that you played along?
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I've been betrayed since the moment of my birth.
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I don't think you ever really completely get over something that significant. The best you can do is try to move on; never forget, but learn from your experiences so you don't repeat them. And try to take any positives that you can from your situation.
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yeah, 8 years in to a marriage, then poof, its over. well, sorta over. im an honest person, so for her to thing id steal is too much. i can live with the rest of the crap, but not that. ive had months to get over it, but im still pissed when i think about it.
Posted 4/13/16
I don't care anymore.

Frankly, I'm stilled pissed at her, otherwise I'd still be talking to her, but I sure as hell don't beat myself up over it. It's her fault, anyways.
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Still beat up, slowly recovering I think.
Posted 4/13/16
I'm pretty much over it~

I'm sure there'll be bigger betrayals down the road, but now I know how to be better with trust~
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Depends which one you're talking about. If you're talking about someone else betraying me, yeah i'd say i'm over it. It hardly comes to mind anymore exactly what happened or what was lost or gained because of it.

If you're talking about who i've betrayed though... I'm not sure i'll be able to let it go for quite some time
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Posted 4/13/16 , edited 4/13/16
Knowing that I've made some poor decisions myself, I'm reminded every time I see or think about them. It's definitely a good indicator telling me that I probably shouldn't screw up again. Though, some times for others, it takes a while for them to learn that. People make mistakes. I forgive others over time, but I don't enable them to brush it off so easily. My answer would be, yes, I have overcome the biggest betrayal of my life, and yes, I am still beat up over it. A slight bitterness will always remain, but appreciate learning from their mistakes too.
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Biggest betrayal for me was having shitty friends I guess. It hurts yeah, to be lonely. But fuck shitty friends. I'll take my one mostly good friend.
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