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Posted 4/14/16

Bravo, bravo. Thank you for taking the time to write this, and it was very informative. It is getting pretty late, so I will edit my reply later to continue a discussion


Uh, don't worry about it, I'm not sticking around very long. I'm happy to have helped you though.
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Voc666IV wrote:

Credit due where credit is deserved: you are honest with yourself and the women, you had no interest in being friends with them and only wanted to date them and when this failed to materialise, you left. Well done, you are more socially aware than of most "nice guys" out there.
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However, To put it simply: grow up.

If you are under the impression that being nice to a man or women will result in them dating you, then you are completely wrong. You have to be romantically/sexually attractive to them in some way shape or form. These women rejected you because you were not romantically appealing to them not because you weren’t enough to them. Attraction is important and anyone who tells you otherwise is either lying or delusional. You have to being more to the table than the nebulous quality of being “nice”. Not trying to aim below the belt here but have you considered that the women you are attempting to peruse are out of your league? While confidence is critical, being realistic is also important.

Quite frankly, the nice “nice guy persona" is a lame excuse used by both sides who have very little to offer or fail to realise that being nice to someone is a basic requirement. To paraphrase Chris Rock: "that’s just shit you're supposed to do". You were nice to a girl? Congratulations, welcome to basic humanity, next you'll be complaining how you don't get credit for not being a wife beater.


I need to clarify the nice guy persona as it is being seen in the wrong context which I did not expect to the degree it went. I am pretty well establish, but I still get friend zone. I am not using it as an excuse as in "Hey, nice guy over here! Date me!" I am just providing background to my personality. I guess I am going after females with very high expectations, and I need to look elsewhere.


Magical-Soul wrote:


Bravo, bravo. Thank you for taking the time to write this, and it was very informative. It is getting pretty late, so I will edit my reply later to continue a discussion


Uh, don't worry about it, I'm not sticking around very long. I'm happy to have helped you though.


Alright and again, thank you
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