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Posted 4/21/16
I'm in a weird kind of mindset where I long to make others feel better about themselves. Now I'd need some advice on this topic. All ideas are welcomed, from sending weird messages to people to burning "I love you" into someone's lawn. As example, a lot of people have helped me get through life by telling me that it doesn't matter what others think. Everyone is different, conflicts are bound to arise and I'm supposed to find my place in life. Most of the stuff I got to manage myself. I shouldn't expect nothing from others. Getting help is but a convenient bonus.

Then again, you might believe that my way of thinking is silly and stupid. If so, is there something else you would like to tell me? Maybe I am a bit crazy at the moment! Though that's not necessarily a bad thing. Okay, the consumption of sweet things after 11 pm should be discouraged in my case...
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Posted 4/21/16
I tell the special people in my life that I appreciate their friendship and kindness. A lot of people like it when you tell them they mean something to you.
I also like giving small presents to very special people.
Posted 4/21/16
I spread love by telling my friends and family how much I appreciate them. Much like ^he said. I'm also a "hugs" kind of guy so I give those out too on occasion People like that kinda stuff...for the most part.
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according to animu, one can make bromance by punching each other like a badass
Posted 4/21/16
Just be genuinely kind, nice, caring, friendly and all that stuff. But hand made cookies are nice too.
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Posted 4/21/16

Nalaniel wrote:

I shouldn't expect nothing from others. Getting help is but a convenient bonus.

Then again, you might believe that my way of thinking is silly and stupid. If so, is there something else you would like to tell me? Maybe I am a bit crazy at the moment! Though that's not necessarily a bad thing. Okay, the consumption of sweet things after 11 pm should be discouraged in my case...


I know how you feel!

Getting help from others is a bonus, and even if you choose the hard path of getting what you want with your own efforts, it's rewarding. Or, even if you haven't made it to your goals yet, at least you know you're strong enough to work through the crap on your own.

I understand that feeling of wanting to give and show love. It's a lot easier than wrath and revenge, even if you choose tough love.

I just consumed sweets myself, so what I just wrote above might not even make sense.
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Posted 4/21/16
Be nice and try to make people laugh and smile. Tell people that you care about them. Show them how much you care about them when they need you. You sound like an amazing person. I love people too. I try to spread joy and laughter on here all the time. Let's be friends you and I.
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Posted 4/21/16
Love is wanting the best for someone. As long as your intentions are good hearted you'll spread the love around. Love is not necessarily giving gifts, complimenting people or holding doors open (Arguable not love) but rather going out of your way to better someone. So your intentions are important. If you're doing something to get gifts/praise back that is not love, that is cold, calculated desire. I'm not one to lecture on this since I'm probably a horrible person; I've got a pretty weak ego and I envy a lot but w/e.

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Posted 4/22/16
Acknowledge people for what they do but don't over compliment for the basics.
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Posted 4/22/16
Just talk to them and having fun with them is the best way to spread the love.

Spreading the love comes naturally as long as you're genuine with them. You don't need to shower people with hugs, compliments and etc to spread love. Spreading love could be showing concern, playing games together, sharing things and etc.

It's really simple... just be a friend for them.

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Posted 4/22/16
You're just seeing life's true depressive colors, and that's why you think something's wrong. You don't have to do anything necessarily (and don't try to if stresses you) but I would suggest to just relax and smile. You can act weird and out of character if you want, ask people how they're feeling or offer someone a hug, people like weird. But don't go terrorizing someones property or something
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Posted 5/21/16
First time seeing "reading?" someone having that kind of mindset.
Or i am just a n00b at the real world. <---- Dat must be the reason.
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Posted 5/21/16
You can start practicing with me Nalaniel. I'm ready to receive your loving.
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Posted 5/21/16 , edited 5/21/16
Start a chain email with the title "SPREAD LOVE OR PREPARE TO GET A VISIT FROM THE ASS HANDLER" should do the trick.
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