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Do you end up leaving everyone?
Posted 4/30/16 , edited 4/30/16
To elaborate further, do you end up leaving a lot of your relationships? Whether it be friendships or romance?

Yes means you do, for whatever reasons, for instance you're not satisfied with them, they're abusive or you're a fickle person.

No means you don't, you attempt to stay connected with your friends, or partner, reason with them, even if they end up leaving you.

I noticed I ended up leaving everyone, because in a group of friends, I only like a particular person, and the other people annoy me, and I tried hard to try to like the other people, but I can't, so I ended up leaving everyone because I don't want to hang with anyone else other than the person I liked. The person I liked tried to convince me to get along with everyone else, but I couldn't, so it was a metaphorical tug of war in my head, do I stay or do I go, in the end I always choose the "go" path.
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Posted 4/30/16
I do, because.... I don't really know. Boredom maybe? I find that I can only feign interest in people for so long until I get bored of the repetitive conversations going out getting drunk at the same bars with the same idiots every week for 2 years. That and I prefer being alone, there's nothing better than being alone with your own thoughts in a quiet environment.
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Posted 4/30/16 , edited 4/30/16
No, most of my friends end up leaving me, as for romance the only times I've even come remotely close to anything vaguely romantic was being asked out as a prank, multiple times. I eventually just stopped answering people, so nope no one's left me in the romantic sense. I'm very guarded when it comes to my friendships.

I'm currently pretty happy though and would have no idea what to do with a medium-large group of friends.
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Posted 4/30/16 , edited 4/30/16
People tend to leave me, ignore me, forget about me... and most of the time, I need to bear it alone.
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Posted 4/30/16 , edited 4/30/16
No, not really. I only end a relationship if there's an excessive amount of drama going on that's doing nothing but destroying my life. Even then, it's only after a period of patience, and trying to work things out. I just have to cut people loose that are going to try and bring me down with them in the end.

Other than that, my friendship is pretty loyal, especially if the feeling is of neutral respect. I'm an understanding, realistic person by nature. So I don't ask unrealistic things of others, and I understand when space is needed. I've kept a lot of good friends over the years, it would be a shame to leave all that and push it away. That's just me though.
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Posted 4/30/16
Yes, because I'm an adult now and I can't stay in one place until I find my place to settle. Moving's fun because I get to see new places. I don't get attached to people the way I used to.
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Posted 4/30/16
Yes more than no. I don't try hard enough to stay connected so usually I lose contact.
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Posted 4/30/16
I discovered shot term relationships for me. They work great. I get what I want and once everything starts to settle down, her demands go up, her offering goes down I take a hike. Looking back I honestly don't know why I stayed in unhappy long term relationships; maybe I had hopes it would get better at some point again, boy was I stupid.

I put more efford into friendships and family, I know some of my friends since kindergarden.
Posted 4/30/16
I'm the one being left lol...

Sometimes I'll leave if I don't see our relationship going anywhere, whether it's friendship or romantically
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Posted 5/1/16
Sigh...
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Posted 5/1/16
No I'm pretty loyal.
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Posted 5/4/16
I'm gonna be going from GCSE high school to A level college this year. I could have stayed with my friends and could've gone to A level sixth form with them but I decided to go my own path. I do like only certain people in my friendship group like you but sometimes you have to choose the best decision for yourself.
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Online friends leave first, irl I'm the one doing the leaving mostly
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Posted 5/4/16

LaughedAtByTheGods wrote:

To elaborate further, do you end up leaving a lot of your relationships? Whether it be friendships or romance?

Yes means you do, for whatever reasons, for instance you're not satisfied with them, they're abusive or you're a fickle person.

No means you don't, you attempt to stay connected with your friends, or partner, reason with them, even if they end up leaving you.

I noticed I ended up leaving everyone, because in a group of friends, I only like a particular person, and the other people annoy me, and I tried hard to try to like the other people, but I can't, so I ended up leaving everyone because I don't want to hang with anyone else other than the person I liked. The person I liked tried to convince me to get along with everyone else, but I couldn't, so it was a metaphorical tug of war in my head, do I stay or do I go, in the end I always choose the "go" path.


Everyone seems to be divided on this question, i personally don't leave people but i have been connected online since i was 12 and i am now in my early thirties. During that time many faces have come and gone and so few remain i guess they are the ones i want around me.
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It used to be that everyone would leave me. But now I'm the one who's been leaving everyone (for personal reasons).
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