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Post Reply Can you love someone you don't trust?
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Posted 8/14/16
I can't say, as there has yet been a person that I loved.
Posted 8/15/16
I think to love, is to unconditionally trust. Otherwise feelings of jealousy arise and such, as you can't trust their level of commitment to the relationship. Basically, it's a love that's doomed to fail.
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Posted 8/15/16
Lol no?
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Posted 8/15/16
Can you have feelings for them sure? Been there, done that.

Can you have a loving, fulfilling relationship? No.
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Posted 8/15/16
Depends on what you see as trust. You can not have trust about certain aspects of a person simply because of their personality, for example, you would maybe not trust a person to turn up on time or something similar. It's a fairly minor issue so I don't think stuff like that would have any real affect on the relationship.
However, if you see trust as an umbrella term for losing faith in a person as a whole, then I feel that your love can maybe feel tainted. It'll still be there, but it'll hurt. Its probably not a good idea to have a relationship with feelings like that going on, no matter how much you love them.
So yes, I think you can love without trust, but depending on the trust that's lost, it can have a massively different effect on a relationship.
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It doesn't matter.
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Posted 8/15/16 , edited 8/15/16
Not at the same time.
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Posted 8/15/16
Yes
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Posted 8/15/16
no trust is a requirement for friendship or love without it doesn't work foe ether of them
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19 / M / east coast. Let t...
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Posted 8/15/16
I see love differently then most people here I guess. Love is as simple as being nice to someone.
Posted 8/15/16
Romantically? No.
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Posted 8/15/16
I see trust as the foundation of a healthy relationship so no
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Posted 8/15/16
no
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Posted 8/15/16
well, i think you can, as a person that has been hurt by others in very bad ways emotionally, i have a lack of trust for people, but that does not make me less loving of others, because i know people have their own scars to mend. They act certain ways because of those scars and sometimes, someone gets hurt
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22 / F / Canada
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Posted 8/15/16
yess.. they're both completely different things, but loving without trusting isnt healthy or something like that
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Posted 8/15/16
You for sure need trust
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