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Liking and bieng the Right one
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tobydiah wrote:

Those are obviously 2 different things.

If I liked someone and they didn't like me, I'm not the right one.
If I was the right one, we would at least have to like each other. And that's the minimum requirement since you have to both love each other and continue to love each other.

If it was the same thing, anyone can just like someone and think they were meant for each other. It wouldn't make sense.
If you like someone and they don't like you, it might even annoy or hurt them if you keep trying to get them to like you. If a girl really liked me and kept trying, I'd avoid her or tell her to leave me alone. Knowing how you feel about the person, you should understand how they are feeling if they like someone else. They also like someone else just the way you do yet you're getting in the way of their happiness because you care about your feelings more than the feelings of the person you like.

Nothing wrong with hoping though. Two people can be friends and one day they might end up having feelings for each other. It's not common though.


erm... well... you got my thought now...
i agree.........
ehehehe.............


If you love or like someone and they like someone else; I think it's very romantic and cool if you let them go and cheer them on with a smile since you care about them. It hurts but makes you a better person and you can appreciate it more when you do meet the person that is right for you.

Look at all those movies where the 3rd person in the love triangle sacrifices themselves or cheers the main character on in the end. They seem so much cooler after that.


ah... yeah your right.....
during love triangles someone is always suffering and in the end he/she will just support their love one even though it mean hurting his own feelings.....
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Now that I think about it, I think It can be both. I think it's diffrent for each person's perspective.
Some people just like someone and ask them out right away, but doing that might not let you
know if she/he was really the right one for you, but I guess knowing someone more, going through
things together can give you a better understanding...lol does that kinda make sense?


it does.

because I think you cant know if that person is the right one for you or not.. without going through things together for a while..

I think usually the asking out right away usually ends up failing

I think best relation would usually end up with 2 people, moving from friendship level to love relationship level..

but thats just my presonal expereince & opinion


uhm... about the "moving from friendship level to love relationship level".....
i cant really agree about it at once... specially because i have a close friend that is a boy and he once confess... i dont want to destroy our friendship because of the realationship..... specially knowing... that "friendship last longer than lovers"..

but at the same time i can agree too....
since you take it easy.. i think the relationship might end up well....



only move when you feel comfortable and that it wont really fail that what I meant
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i like this thread
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But is it the right thread for you?
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^ haha good answer...
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It's not so simple just to love or like someone or being the right one. A person can have so many feelings and ways to love someone and not be in love with someone.
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Yah I think both are kinda different. It wouldn't be right if you like someone who would extort money or trick you. Whereas you may not like someone, who is actually right or you, because he/she may be very caring, helpful towards you...
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obigan wrote:


yuki1008chan wrote:


obigan wrote:


AnimeSukii wrote:

Now that I think about it, I think It can be both. I think it's diffrent for each person's perspective.
Some people just like someone and ask them out right away, but doing that might not let you
know if she/he was really the right one for you, but I guess knowing someone more, going through
things together can give you a better understanding...lol does that kinda make sense?


it does.

because I think you cant know if that person is the right one for you or not.. without going through things together for a while..

I think usually the asking out right away usually ends up failing

I think best relation would usually end up with 2 people, moving from friendship level to love relationship level..

but thats just my presonal expereince & opinion


uhm... about the "moving from friendship level to love relationship level".....
i cant really agree about it at once... specially because i have a close friend that is a boy and he once confess... i dont want to destroy our friendship because of the realationship..... specially knowing... that "friendship last longer than lovers"..

but at the same time i can agree too....
since you take it easy.. i think the relationship might end up well....



only move when you feel comfortable and that it wont really fail that what I meant


aw...
ehehe... i see....^^
Posted 2/12/08
there is no right one like there is no soul mate
ppl who need love use these words lossely
no one person was meant to be your true love
cause you randomly meet and fall for each other
if my soul mate was in africa and i fell in love in china
of course the one im with ill call my soul mate cause its who i would love the most at the time
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kitanaikoneko wrote:

there is no right one like there is no soul mate
ppl who need love use these words lossely
no one person was meant to be your true love
cause you randomly meet and fall for each other
if my soul mate was in africa and i fell in love in china
of course the one im with ill call my soul mate cause its who i would love the most at the time


yup,... your right.....
i guess its just destiny....
and also its up to you...
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