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Posted 5/16/16

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Okay, here's my 2 cents on this. First of all this "prank caller," the guy who was cheated on is basically harassing the other guy. He's called him over and over for over a two month period including calling him at his work which isn't cool at all. You ever watch Judge Judy? Ever see two women fighting over a man or two men fighting over a woman and they're mad at each other? Judge Judy always asks them why you're mad at each other? If anything they should be mad at their ex who cheated on them. I completely agree with her on this. You have to understand this man who may or may not have cheated owes the other guy nothing. He's not his brother, his best friend or employer. If he was related or a good friend or something that would change things a bit. He has NO allegiance to the caller. Most of these people have absolutely no allegiance to you. Yeah it's a jerk move but instead of getting mad at the other guy or girl everyone should get mad at the one who cheated on them. Honestly this person should be thanking that guy. I mean he may have ended up marrying her. Or if he was married to her he could have been married to her for decades. He should be thankful that this other guy exposed the fact that his girlfriend didn't love him instead of pulling a macho testosterone fueled who's got the bigger $%^^& move and spending so much time harassing this other guy. (self censored for obvious reasons).

I know feelings get hurt but the best thing to do is to just cut your losses, start over and be thankful you didn't take your relationship any further with someone who would do that to you. I just don't find this this funny. This could cause way more harm in the long run. Just be thankful that the person who cheated with your boyfriend or girlfriend exposed them for the fraud that they are and remember sometimes people fall out of love or will realize that maybe they love someone else even more. I've seen that happen. There's usually a reason people cheat. I'm not saying it's your fault at all but there's usually a reason. Usually the other person isn't happy, satisfied or they just want their cake and to eat it too. Maybe they're just jerks? It really doesn't matter what the reason is. Just be thankful you didn't marry the jerks or spend more time married to them than you had to.

Harassment is NEVER okay. Sorry but it's just not too funny to me. Now I will say I would probably feel very differently if I was the one cheated on though and I can admit that. I've never had that happen and honestly it's easier to sit here with my emotions in check behind the safety of my computer and tell others what they should or shouldn't do. Giving advice is always easier than following said advice. Being cheated on, especially while married would probably hurt really bad and I imagine that would be enough to make anyone a bit narcissistic when it comes to the person who "took" your loved one away from you. But still, the person you should be angry at is your wife or husband/boyfriend or girlfriend. Not some random stranger who doesn't know you and owe's you nothing....not even an explanation.
And really what other explanation do you need other than the fact that your girl/guy doesn't love you. If they did they wouldn't have cheated. Just be thankful someone exposed their lack of love for you and find someone who truly does love you.



Fair enough in my opinion heaters deserve harassment and to have there lives mad hell but each to there own I guess
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He could reported that guy is harrassing him.. I don't know the whole story, that guy should be looking at his wife instead. Or look at himself in the mirror since he not making his wife happy! haha


He could of he was within his legal rights to but cheaters aren't usually that smart
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Posted 5/16/16

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JanusCascade wrote:

He could reported that guy is harrassing him.. I don't know the whole story, that guy should be looking at his wife instead. Or look at himself in the mirror since he not making his wife happy! haha


He could of he was within his legal rights to but cheaters aren't usually that smart


I say I was done with this but I feel the need to be captain obvious here for lack of common sense from you.
He can't do that. Why? He draws attention to himself. Aka his wife. Meaning he has not choice on the matter unless he willing to throw away his wife and family. I not telling you how to think, considering how jaded you are, judging from your responses here. 2 evils will never make a right.
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Ryulightorb wrote:


JanusCascade wrote:

He could reported that guy is harrassing him.. I don't know the whole story, that guy should be looking at his wife instead. Or look at himself in the mirror since he not making his wife happy! haha


He could of he was within his legal rights to but cheaters aren't usually that smart


I say I was done with this but I feel the need to be captain obvious here for lack of common sense from you.
He can't do that. Why? He draws attention to himself. Aka his wife. Meaning he has not choice on the matter unless he willing to throw away his wife and family. I not telling you how to think, considering how jaded you are, judging from your responses here. 2 evils will never make a right.


They never will make a right but an eye for an eye
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That dark.
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Didn't watch the vid.

The best way to deal with a cheater is to leave the situation. No need to waste more time being cheated on and hurt. Just leave it alone.
Find what makes you happy, find what makes you confident in yourself and move on.
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Posted 5/16/16

Ryulightorb wrote:


JanusCascade wrote:

He could reported that guy is harrassing him.. I don't know the whole story, that guy should be looking at his wife instead. Or look at himself in the mirror since he not making his wife happy! haha


He could of he was within his legal rights to but cheaters aren't usually that smart


Also he can't afford a lawyer.
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Didn't watch the vid.

The best way to deal with a cheater is to leave the situation. No need to waste more time being cheated on and hurt. Just leave it alone.
Find what makes you happy, find what makes you confident in yourself and move on.


How does the cheater get punished then?
Posted 5/16/16

Ryulightorb wrote:


1stladyent wrote:

Didn't watch the vid.

The best way to deal with a cheater is to leave the situation. No need to waste more time being cheated on and hurt. Just leave it alone.
Find what makes you happy, find what makes you confident in yourself and move on.


How does the cheater get punished then?


Do you want the dead penalty or something?
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1stladyent wrote:

Didn't watch the vid.

The best way to deal with a cheater is to leave the situation. No need to waste more time being cheated on and hurt. Just leave it alone.
Find what makes you happy, find what makes you confident in yourself and move on.


How does the cheater get punished then?


The cheater will get punished in their own way. If you use your energy on other things that will make you the better person, there's no need to waste time trying to find a way to punish them. Your success and happiness is their loss.

Now if they harrass the crap out of you, of course, by all means, kill or incapacitate in the name of self-defense, but if they just cheated on you, kick them out of your life. It's one less negative thing you'll have to deal with.

You will learn to let go and not become baggage to someone who actually appreciates you.
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Posted 5/16/16

KarenAraragi wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


1stladyent wrote:

Didn't watch the vid.

The best way to deal with a cheater is to leave the situation. No need to waste more time being cheated on and hurt. Just leave it alone.
Find what makes you happy, find what makes you confident in yourself and move on.


How does the cheater get punished then?


Do you want the dead penalty or something?


Death is a bit much don't you think suffering is better
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Umm think that worst actually.
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Posted 5/16/16

1stladyent wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


1stladyent wrote:

Didn't watch the vid.

The best way to deal with a cheater is to leave the situation. No need to waste more time being cheated on and hurt. Just leave it alone.
Find what makes you happy, find what makes you confident in yourself and move on.


How does the cheater get punished then?


The cheater will get punished in their own way. If you use your energy on other things that will make you the better person, there's no need to waste time trying to find a way to punish them. Your success and happiness is their loss.

Now if they harrass the crap out of you, of course, by all means, kill or incapacitate in the name of self-defense, but if they just cheated on you, kick them out of your life. It's one less negative thing you'll have to deal with.

You will learn to let go and not become baggage to someone who actually appreciates you.



I don't agree that they will get punished in their own way most cheaters get away with it.m

Letting go of love is something but I could not myself ever let go of a grudge or hate as I want to see judgement come down on them if they cheated on me :P

Not that hard to get revenge if you make it public knowledge it will ruin a lot for them and that itself is enough punishment for me maybe not to others though.
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