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Posted 5/16/16

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Didn't watch the vid.

The best way to deal with a cheater is to leave the situation. No need to waste more time being cheated on and hurt. Just leave it alone.
Find what makes you happy, find what makes you confident in yourself and move on.


How does the cheater get punished then?


Yes , its called Karma.
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Posted 5/16/16

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Umm think that worst actually.



well I don't mean suffering to the point death would be a better option I mean more suffer as in lose friends reputation etc
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Posted 5/16/16

Yume_Mirai wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


1stladyent wrote:

Didn't watch the vid.

The best way to deal with a cheater is to leave the situation. No need to waste more time being cheated on and hurt. Just leave it alone.
Find what makes you happy, find what makes you confident in yourself and move on.


How does the cheater get punished then?


Yes , its called Karma.


Sadly I don't believe in that because if Karma exists it has never pulled through for me ever
Posted 5/16/16
That's pretty dumb and childish.
Posted 5/16/16


OK, dude, you are going the deep end here. I can understand the wife leaving his ass. But wanting him to lose his friend and everything else is well.... FUCK UP! God dude you need somebody to talk too. Can we end this here, please? I not a saint and more than likely I am evil. But this is a bit much, to be honest.
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Posted 5/16/16

Ryulightorb wrote:


1stladyent wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


1stladyent wrote:

Didn't watch the vid.

The best way to deal with a cheater is to leave the situation. No need to waste more time being cheated on and hurt. Just leave it alone.
Find what makes you happy, find what makes you confident in yourself and move on.


How does the cheater get punished then?


The cheater will get punished in their own way. If you use your energy on other things that will make you the better person, there's no need to waste time trying to find a way to punish them. Your success and happiness is their loss.

Now if they harrass the crap out of you, of course, by all means, kill or incapacitate in the name of self-defense, but if they just cheated on you, kick them out of your life. It's one less negative thing you'll have to deal with.

You will learn to let go and not become baggage to someone who actually appreciates you.



I don't agree that they will get punished in their own way most cheaters get away with it.m

Letting go of love is something but I could not myself ever let go of a grudge or hate as I want to see judgement come down on them if they cheated on me :P

Not that hard to get revenge if you make it public knowledge it will ruin a lot for them and that itself is enough punishment for me maybe not to others though.


To each his/her own.
I myself don't forget what shit has been done to me, and there are ways to indirectly affect the person who did it. But I'm not going to waste oxygen trying to prove how lowly the other person is. When you have success, power and funding, you can toy with them then, but if you're lowering your lifestyle just to make them suffer, you're just making yourself look pretty pitiful. Then it will be harder to actually attract potential connections because of the begrudging nature in your aura.
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Posted 5/16/16

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OK, dude, you are going the deep end here. I can understand the wife leaving his ass. But wanting him to lose his friend and everything else is well.... FUCK UP! God dude you need somebody to talk too. Can we end this here, please? I not a saint and more than likely I am evil. But this is a bit much, to be honest.



You are welcome to disagree but cheating is the bigger crime here.

If it's to much in your opinion that's fine but I think it's what cheaters deserve if you cheat you deserve life to be painful.

just because my belief that cheating is very severe and deserves an equally severe punishment I need to talk to someone? Lol ok have a good day Mate
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Posted 5/16/16

1stladyent wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


1stladyent wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


1stladyent wrote:

Didn't watch the vid.

The best way to deal with a cheater is to leave the situation. No need to waste more time being cheated on and hurt. Just leave it alone.
Find what makes you happy, find what makes you confident in yourself and move on.


How does the cheater get punished then?


The cheater will get punished in their own way. If you use your energy on other things that will make you the better person, there's no need to waste time trying to find a way to punish them. Your success and happiness is their loss.

Now if they harrass the crap out of you, of course, by all means, kill or incapacitate in the name of self-defense, but if they just cheated on you, kick them out of your life. It's one less negative thing you'll have to deal with.

You will learn to let go and not become baggage to someone who actually appreciates you.



I don't agree that they will get punished in their own way most cheaters get away with it.m

Letting go of love is something but I could not myself ever let go of a grudge or hate as I want to see judgement come down on them if they cheated on me :P

Not that hard to get revenge if you make it public knowledge it will ruin a lot for them and that itself is enough punishment for me maybe not to others though.


To each his/her own.
I myself don't forget what shit has been done to me, and there are ways to indirectly affect the person who did it. But I'm not going to waste oxygen trying to prove how lowly the other person is. When you have success, power and funding, you can toy with them then, but if you're lowering your lifestyle just to make them suffer, you're just making yourself look pretty pitiful. Then it will be harder to actually attract potential connections because of the begrudging nature in your aura.


Very good points made here sadly I would rather see myself take revenge :P

Posted 5/16/16

Ryulightorb wrote:


KarenAraragi wrote:



OK, dude, you are going the deep end here. I can understand the wife leaving his ass. But wanting him to lose his friend and everything else is well.... FUCK UP! God dude you need somebody to talk too. Can we end this here, please? I not a saint and more than likely I am evil. But this is a bit much, to be honest.



You are welcome to disagree but cheating is the bigger crime here.

If it's to much in your opinion that's fine but I think it's what cheaters deserve if you cheat you deserve life to be painful.

just because my belief that cheating is very severe and deserves an equally severe punishment I need to talk to someone? Lol ok have a good day Mate


Yeah, I disagree. Listing this isn't you talking but the pain talking here. I think anybody can see that.
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Posted 5/16/16 , edited 5/16/16
2 months, calling him at work and blackmailing him?

Uh. That's a bit beyond a "prank". Plus this entire time he didn't actually tell the wife whom this guy was cheating on did he? You know, the actual victim here. All he effectively did was harass someone so he could make money off it on Youtube.

Cheaters are scum, sure, but so is this "prankster".



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Posted 5/16/16

KarenAraragi wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


KarenAraragi wrote:



OK, dude, you are going the deep end here. I can understand the wife leaving his ass. But wanting him to lose his friend and everything else is well.... FUCK UP! God dude you need somebody to talk too. Can we end this here, please? I not a saint and more than likely I am evil. But this is a bit much, to be honest.



You are welcome to disagree but cheating is the bigger crime here.

If it's to much in your opinion that's fine but I think it's what cheaters deserve if you cheat you deserve life to be painful.

just because my belief that cheating is very severe and deserves an equally severe punishment I need to talk to someone? Lol ok have a good day Mate


Yeah, I disagree. Listing this isn't you talking but the pain talking here. I think anybody can see that.

Bit of both but you may be right

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Posted 5/16/16 , edited 5/16/16

runec wrote:

2 months, calling him at work and blackmailing him?

Uh. That's a bit beyond a "prank". Plus this entire time he didn't actually tell the wife whom this guy was cheating on did he? You know, the actual victim here. All he effectively did was harass someone so he could make money off it on Youtube.

Cheaters are scum, sure, but so is this "prankster".





Yup there both equally as bad here I won't disagree

That guy who made the video is the least respectful person I have ever meant.
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I have to Agree with Araragi here.

Do not focus on how others should suffer. Focus on how you should grow. Wishing ill for others only poisons your mind and in the end makes you suffer.

Forgiveness isn't for the wrongdoers sake, it is for your own sake.
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