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How do you handle the drama that occurs in your life?

Do you...
Scream?
Go on a rampage or rage out?
Stay silent?
Cry?
Sneak away or avoid everything?


What do you do?
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Just simply ignore them, or turn off my hearing aids! :p

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i send them to the peace table
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I like being a part of said drama
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If its drama of something that effects me I'll solve it to benefit me the most.

However if its just drama around me I'll just avoid it most of the time.
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Ignore it
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Stay calm and work through it..

Pretty much everything listed in the op just adds to drama and I've no interest in doing that. If the "drama" is just someone being melodramatic however, I just ignore it or leave.
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I throw smoke bombs down and vanish into the night. My dramu senses will warn me ahead of time, that way I can avoid all that obnoxious stuff.
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REAL MEN DON'T CRY!! I tend to be indiferent towards people idk why
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get it sorted then and there
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21 / M / California
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I have had a severe lack of drama for the last few years. I don't even know how I'd handle it anymore.
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I observe it, but distance myself from it.
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I simply laugh . Ignore it, because I know it is inevitable. Once it starts I know where it will climax; So I simply smile and laugh. Whether it be family related, or friendship, I'll just laugh it all away, because getting upset over shit you don't want to listen to or experience isn't going to make your life any brighter.

If that drama escalates into something violent or dangerous, just step back to get a better view, because it's always fun to watch people dig themselves further into a hole while you slowly begin to show them how far above you are, that's not being mean or selfish, it actually teaches people to stop being Fucking worthless. If you begin to contribute to the drama, or try and stop it, the only outcome for you is being put back to square one, and instead of trying to teach someone a lesson, you are actually forcing the drama to slowly take hold of your own situation.

The most important lesson to learn must come from your own understanding, and you must ultimately show that to others, and if that means laughing in their face; So be it. Call it rude, because you get a rise from people, call it disrespectful, because they know you don't give a shit. So the only thing left for someone to do is to reach out to others, or learn from your cold shoulder.

I like to think that if a child's cries of greed and envy are left unnoticed they slowly tire themselves from their own selfish behavior, and they either learn from this denial, or keep kicking and screaming until you're out the door, because no matter how bad it will be, there will only be two outcomes in any situation. It just depends on the type of person you're willing to show to those children.

Drama only leads to anger, and anger leads to hatred and stress. Stress shouldn't exist in people's lives, so learn how to eliminate such a disease. Learn to not give a fuck, and honestly there is no better remedy. Move forward and worry about what can better your life.
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I don't deal with drama that often.
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Posted 5/24/16

qualeshia3 wrote:

I don't deal with drama that often.


You are lucky then!
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