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thekevin4 wrote:
^ Phersu gets it


I got yer back, Spidey. I, too, like to play with radioactive insects.
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Phersu wrote:


thekevin4 wrote:
^ Phersu gets it


I got yer back, Spidey. I, too, like to play with radioactive insects.


It's pretty cool right?! I mean the bite kinda hurts, but then you get super powers... totes worth it.
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thekevin4 wrote:

It's pretty cool right?! I mean the bite kinda hurts, but then you get super powers... totes worth it.


Ah, well. I haven't been letting them bite me. Just this one guy. I mixed it with some alien gunk, and made this super rad creature. Say hello to Spider-Man.



He likes you!

Posted 6/6/16

Sir_jamesalot wrote:

You could always blame your audience for not being more interested. But if your friends only hang out with you as a source of entertainment then they aren't very good friends

Yes and no. This depends on the situation more. OP tend to be kind of meh and is hard to ask somebody to hang out with somebody who is meh. Is like asking somebody to lower their standards when dating. Sure there is the common sense middle ground but there a limit to it. People have a right to what they desire in their friends even if is dumb. After all is their friend decision to walk away from them or met those expectations. I think OP should a least ask why they find him boring rather than avoid a painful situation. To see if is something he needs to work on.

Disclaimer OP Meh is not an insult or me saying you are boring. I am just too lazy to describe what I meant.

Ryulightorb wrote:

I guess you guys are right those who don't want to talk to someone just because they are boring are not worth talking to.

People like that are just horrible people i think oh well i just hope they learn to be better people and grow up and accept people.



Sure you are to an extent but that goes both ways. I think you should a least ask why they find you boring rather than avoid a painful situation. To see if is something you needs to work on. Remender sometimes people say something but meant something else. Or they simply worded what they meant to say poorly.

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Phersu wrote:


thekevin4 wrote:

It's pretty cool right?! I mean the bite kinda hurts, but then you get super powers... totes worth it.


Ah, well. I haven't been letting them bite me. Just this one guy. I mixed it with some alien gunk, and made this super rad creature. Say hello to Spider-Man.



He likes you!



Noice, I miss dat symbiote... we had some good times.

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Ryulightorb wrote:

So multiple people have stopped talking to me lately because im boring and its really just left me depressed and wondering what do you other guys do so you aren't boring?

I don't know what to do apparently being myself bores others


Well if they stopped talking to you because they find you boring then that's their problem. Don't let it bother you too much, just brush them off. You ain't got time to deal with people who find you boring. Don't stop being yourself pal.


I actually think I'm pretty boring. Nothing really exciting happens in my life and I don't really know what to always talk about with others. I just mainly ask how someone's day went, what they are up to, if they have watched any anime from the current season, etc. I tend to be random from time to time if I'm closer with the person.
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Watch Anime / Do Parkour/ Go To Anime Cons and have fun/ listen to music!
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Sit all of them down and (if they have never seen it and especially if they don't enjoy anime) watch Inferno Cop with them as you laugh at every part. They will either think you have gone insane, they will go insane, or they will love it and you all will be insane. No matter what happens, you won't be classified as boring. Trust me, this works from experience.
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Don't talk about yourself. Instead ask people about themselves. "How is your day going?", "How did ___ turn out?", "Are you still doing ___?", "Wow, it's cool that you ___". Keep the focus on others, and only talk about yourself when you are asked. Remember what people tell you, and follow up on it later. The best is if you know something they are good at or interested in, and ask them to explain more about it.

People will love you if you show genuine interest in them, and most people never get bored talking about themselves. Selflessness is one of the most attractive qualities a person can have.
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Just be yourself lol xdd
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KarenAraragi wrote:


Sir_jamesalot wrote:

You could always blame your audience for not being more interested. But if your friends only hang out with you as a source of entertainment then they aren't very good friends

Yes and no. This depends on the situation more. OP tend to be kind of meh and is hard to ask somebody to hang out with somebody who is meh. Is like asking somebody to lower their standards when dating. Sure there is the common sense middle ground but there a limit to it. People have a right to what they desire in their friends even if is dumb. After all is their friend decision to walk away from them or met those expectations. I think OP should a least ask why they find him boring rather than avoid a painful situation. To see if is something he needs to work on.



Nobody needs to work on being more interesting.
For example, mediocre show featuring fanservice will hold an audience captive for at least half an hour.
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