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Post Reply How do you stop from being boring?
Posted 6/7/16 , edited 6/7/16

KarenAraragi wrote:

You are right but like I say. Trying to see the other side views before making a judgement is important too.


True, but it's not always apparent whether the intentions of the other party is pure (depending on how good you are at reading people). I think people pressuring you to do things their way tend to be either manipulative or genuine (to varying degrees). Manipulative people want to make you do things simply for the sake of being able to make you give in and follow their ideals. Genuine people express clearly what it is that they want without the power trip. It's okay to go along with people who are just disagreeing with you because they want to do something else. But following the intentions of manipulative people is a cycle that never ends (been there, done that). I have gotten pretty good at reading the intentions of others, but in the end I have found that it is better to just be true to yourself. The rest falls into place.
Posted 6/7/16 , edited 6/7/16

Elynne06 wrote:

True, but it's not always apparent whether the intentions of the other party is pure (depending on how good you are at reading people). I think people pressuring you to do things their way tend to be either manipulative or genuine (to varying degrees). Manipulative people want to make you do things simply for the sake of being able to make you give in and follow their ideals. Genuine people express clearly what it is that they want without the power trip. It's okay to go along with people who are just disagreeing with you because they want to do something else. But following the intentions of manipulative people is a cycle that never ends (been there, done that). I have gotten pretty good at reading the intentions of others, but in the end I have found that it is better to just be true to yourself. The rest falls into place.


Not saying you are wrong in any shape or form. I am saying giving up without trying is bad in my opinion. Like you say people are free to make their own choices. Also, let end this here, please. The comments are getting mix in.
Posted 6/7/16
Not trying to offend, just enjoying the debate
Posted 6/7/16 , edited 6/7/16

Elynne06 wrote:

Not trying to offend, just enjoying the debate ;)


I am not offended. I still stand by what I say regardless. But the comments on my end was getting fuck.
Posted 6/7/16
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huh i mistakenly thought the question was how do i keep myself from being bored and what activities i would do...
um, i don't particularly do anything to have an interesting personality. i am who i am
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