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yup

too late now though haha. i mean old people get married too but it doesn't usually happen unless they rich

and i aint rich
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YES. So much yes. I am sick and tired of being lonely. I want to have someone by my side. The gender of the person doesn't even matter. I want to love and be loved in return. Going through life is a task that I do not want to accept if I'm all by myself. Perhaps I am a bit too emotional at the moment. Oh well.


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Hmmm, I don't think so. Marriage doesn't make much sense to me. That's not to say I wouldn't want to be with one person for the rest of my life - I just don't want to marry them.


to be with someone but not to love them enough to marry ... sounds weird
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sure but i doubt anyone would ever love someone as pathetic as me xD
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I don't even know, honestly. I used to really want to but it doesn't seem so appealing anymore.


I mean if you are that convinced you won't find someone that you can trust that much i guess
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I do. Someday in the future with the right person. For now, I just want to enjoy being single though because getting married this young isn't my plan.
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I dont know.
What is a human being`?

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A wife and 2 kids (Boy and a girl) is my dream but so far making it a reality is proving difficult, someday though, someday
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Naah. Too much trouble for what it is actually worth. At least for me.

It is to be said that if my significant other were to insist on it. I would probably fold sooner or later.

But it sure ain't my plan right now.
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DazaiShinju wrote:

Hmmm, I don't think so. Marriage doesn't make much sense to me. That's not to say I wouldn't want to be with one person for the rest of my life - I just don't want to marry them.


to be with someone but not to love them enough to marry ... sounds weird


No, that's not it at all! I'm not making some sort of comment on how much I'm willing to love someone, or anything like that.
I just think that marriage is ultimately a religious thing. Even if you have a secular service, the whole tradition just feels steeped in religion to me.
If you take away all of that - then what is the point?

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Posted 6/13/16

DazaiShinju wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


DazaiShinju wrote:

Hmmm, I don't think so. Marriage doesn't make much sense to me. That's not to say I wouldn't want to be with one person for the rest of my life - I just don't want to marry them.


to be with someone but not to love them enough to marry ... sounds weird


No, that's not it at all! I'm not making some sort of comment on how much I'm willing to love someone, or anything like that.
I just think that marriage is ultimately a religious thing. Even if you have a secular service, the whole tradition just feels steeped in religion to me.
If you take away all of that - then what is the point?



To tell the difference between a couple who is together just dating seeing how it goes from those who promise to be together?

I mean the contract could be made by word but it's less official then XD
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DazaiShinju wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


DazaiShinju wrote:

Hmmm, I don't think so. Marriage doesn't make much sense to me. That's not to say I wouldn't want to be with one person for the rest of my life - I just don't want to marry them.


to be with someone but not to love them enough to marry ... sounds weird


No, that's not it at all! I'm not making some sort of comment on how much I'm willing to love someone, or anything like that.
I just think that marriage is ultimately a religious thing. Even if you have a secular service, the whole tradition just feels steeped in religion to me.
If you take away all of that - then what is the point?



To tell the difference between a couple who is together just dating seeing how it goes from those who promise to be together?

I mean the contract could be made by word but it's less official then XD


Unless you wear rings and change your name, then how can you tell? I sure as heck wouldn't be changing my name, so unless I found a guy willing to change his...
The idea of a ring has always just felt like marking your territory. I can do that in private.
My ex and I were often referred to as each others wife/husband whilst we were out, so I think people get the jist when a couple is close.

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Nope, not possible for me, I can't see my self with just one person for the rest of my life. Unless we kept it open, but then what's the point in getting married at all?
Posted 6/13/16
Yes...but lately I don't really know how I feel about marriage as a concept.
I don't want anyone there
I don't want to spend a ton of money
If I could get it to go that'd be swell.
Maybe a Las Vegas wedding with Elvis Presley.

Having your own person who's gonna like you regardless of how lame you get is great
but I never want children.
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Posted 6/13/16

DazaiShinju wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


DazaiShinju wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


DazaiShinju wrote:

Hmmm, I don't think so. Marriage doesn't make much sense to me. That's not to say I wouldn't want to be with one person for the rest of my life - I just don't want to marry them.


to be with someone but not to love them enough to marry ... sounds weird


No, that's not it at all! I'm not making some sort of comment on how much I'm willing to love someone, or anything like that.
I just think that marriage is ultimately a religious thing. Even if you have a secular service, the whole tradition just feels steeped in religion to me.
If you take away all of that - then what is the point?



To tell the difference between a couple who is together just dating seeing how it goes from those who promise to be together?

I mean the contract could be made by word but it's less official then XD


Unless you wear rings and change your name, then how can you tell? I sure as heck wouldn't be changing my name, so unless I found a guy willing to change his...
The idea of a ring has always just felt like marking your territory. I can do that in private.
My ex and I were often referred to as each others wife/husband whilst we were out, so I think people get the jist when a couple is close.



eh makes sense.
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