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Posted 6/17/16 , edited 6/18/16
I never understood this i mean as someone who likes to talk to people i have noticed alot of people are just not interested in it most of the time.

and i'm seen as anti-social yet even i think their is a problem.

Am i just around the wrong people or is this something others have noticed.

I also noticed those who do talk don't know how to hold a conversation and skip necessary things like small talk etc... have people really forgotten HOW to socialize?

I mean i never had it easy i had to self teach myself everything that most people normally pick up in their childhood (Autism impacts social skills a shit ton...dare i say social retardation) and to see so many people just ...suck at it, it makes me sad because how can people who have it easier and who can pick it up naturally just neglect such important skills?
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Posted 6/17/16 , edited 10/14/16
I have little to no interest in people.

Just how it's always been for me.

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Posted 6/17/16
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19 / M / east coast. Let t...
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Let's chat some time then.
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Because I'm saving myself for PrinceJudar.
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PrinceJudar wrote:

I have little to no interest in people.

Just how it's always been for me.



Obviously you make the exception for me.
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Posted 6/17/16 , edited 6/17/16

PrinceJudar wrote:

I have little to no interest in people.

Just how it's always been for me.




Neither do i but i still make the effort.

no point in being lazy talking to others is rewarding even though it's exhausting and seems like a waste of time
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aaa i feel this too, tho its prob just my fault LMAO

whenever i feel lonely i start grinding mmos _(:3/ z)_ then i never have any energy to socialize rip what a vicious cycle;;;
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aaa i feel this too, tho its prob just my fault LMAO

whenever i feel lonely i start grinding mmos _(:3/ z)_ then i never have any energy to socialize rip what a vicious cycle;;;


If there were any MMOs worth my time, and they weren't filled with overenthusiastic min-max elitists, MMOs would be how I socialize in general.
Posted 6/17/16 , edited 6/17/16
I love talking to people.
It's a shame that a lot of people are boring. Including me.
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Too many crazy people out there.

Honestly, people talk too much about themselves, and most times, I don't want to hear about your itch down there or your rash over there...when I'm just trying to figure out if this item is on sale.
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Posted 6/17/16

a1168243 wrote:

aaa i feel this too, tho its prob just my fault LMAO

whenever i feel lonely i start grinding mmos _(:3/ z)_ then i never have any energy to socialize rip what a vicious cycle;;;


but you spent time grinding on mmos and that is the main thing!
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I love talking to people. It's probably because we are used to quick messages (texts) and staring at our phones. We substitute real life with tech. Don't get me wrong, I love tech too.
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I'd wager it's because it's easier, safer, and far less awkward to communicate digitally.
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It's nice to talk to people when something good is going on at the same time or something worthy just happened.

Like after going to a carnival, there's a lot of stuff to talk about there.
Like the NBA Finals Game 6, that's a lot to talk about.


There are times you can't just talk to someone because you just want to talk. "What's in it for them?" -- is the thing you should consider when talking to someone.
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