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Post Reply Are you the type of person to hold grudges?
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Posted 6/27/16 , edited 6/27/16


^ same, depends on who did it, what they did, how many times, etc...
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Posted 6/27/16
I hold grudges, but it's dust in the back of my mind. I don't forgive, I don't forget, and when the opportunity arises, I get my revenge, through no effort of mine.
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Posted 6/27/16
I always hold grudges...and they will be repaid with interest when you least expect it.
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I either hate you or I don't
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I'm slow to pick up a grudge, eventually it'll diminish, but I can never really let it go. While I avoid acting on a grudge, I won't go out of my way to help that person either.
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20 / F / Strawberry Fields
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Posted 6/29/16
Hah! I don't have time for that. I basically forget everything after a few seconds.
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46 / F / Reston, VA, USA
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Generally I don't hold grudges, although it doesn't mean I forgot what someone did. If it's something minor I'll probably forget about it relatively quickly but if it is something major, I will likely take precautions to prevent it from happening again although I won't be holding a grudge.

For instance, if someone asks me for a loan and I give it to them, and then they stiff me and don't pay me back, I will usually shrug my shoulders and consider that money lost and unrecoverable. There's no point in arguing about it or taking them to small claims court to try to collect it, or any other scenario that takes my time, energy, and causes hard feelings that can escalate. However, even though I'm still friends with the individual, I will never ever loan them money again. I won't ask or nag them about paying me back, I won't throw it in their face when we get mad at each other....they simply won't ever be able to borrow money again from me or use me as a reference to borrow money from anyone else.
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22 / F / Wisconsin
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I do but I don't. Depending on the situation I might forgive you for what you did but I NEVER forget. There are things my friends have done in the past that they don't remember anymore but I will never ever forget. If your not one of my best friends then chances are I will never truly forgive you if you do something to me or a friend.
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24 / M / England
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Yes, however, I'm also quick to realise my own faults as well so I hold reasonable grudges. I think I'm a pretty compassionate person so I won't do anything terrible out of spite, and if I was wrong or partly wrong for something I'll take or share the blame. Likewise i'll only forgive if I think its worth forgiving. If you did something reprehensibly wrong I'll always remember you for it. It might not be healthy but that's how I am right now.
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Posted 6/29/16
Not usually.
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18 / M / Reality
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It's hard for me to hold a grudge, I'll usually want to throw someone down the stairs one minute (don't take that seriously) and then want to hang out with them the next. There, however, are some things I won't ever forgive.
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Posted 6/29/16
Not really, If you wrong me (short of trying to kill me) I'll likely let it go but I'll never let you into a position to do it again. If you wrong someone I care about then all bets are off.
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Posted 6/29/16
No......and I haven't forgotten that you ate the last donut last year either!!!!!
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Posted 6/29/16

mlchanges wrote:

Not really, If you wrong me (short of trying to kill me) I'll likely let it go but I'll never let you into a position to do it again. If you wrong someone I care about then all bets are off.


Very good answer.
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Posted 6/30/16
it honestly depends what the other person did to affect me in some way

if it's pretty bad then yes, if it's minor then no
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