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Post Reply Are you the type of person to hold grudges?
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Posted 6/30/16
It depends on what they do to me. If it's minor I won't but if it's something major then I just ignore their existence.
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Posted 7/1/16 , edited 7/1/16
Nope.
I got ripped off $1650 from someone so that hurt but nar life's too short and violence dosent always solve things.
Two wrongs dont always make a right.

I just learn't to avoid certian people and be less nice and less trusting.

I had ememies that later we became cool or just never saw them again.

I've had some people effect my life in a bad way in my younger days but yeah, if anything i just avoid people that i may have had a problem with. Or if i have a problem with someone at work i just dont talk to them or i just keep it cool and get through the day.

Guess i've never had anything REALLY bad happen, just LOTS of small things that have cost me money or possesions or damaged my trust.
I'd probably hold a grudge if someone did something to a family member or something like that.



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Posted 7/1/16

Drozy wrote:



I either hate you or I don't


can confirm she hates me
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Posted 7/3/16 , edited 7/3/16
If it's something not worth holding a grudge over, then no, not really. If they did something to me or they were generally a shitty person towards me, then yeah.
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Posted 8/14/16 , edited 8/14/16
Yeah. Whether it's something consequential or trivial, if you do something that has affected me in some way, I'll remember it. I can't help the feeling. If I try to forget it, it comes back.
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Posted 8/14/16
Only if I feel like you betrayed me.
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17 / F / USA
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Posted 8/14/16
Honestly, yes. I try not to though.
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Posted 8/15/16
I guess I "can" but typically no, I have a very hard time staying mad at people but if there is someone who tries to make my life hard at every turn I tend to dislike them for it.
Posted 8/15/16
Yes, unintentionally. They just sit in the back of my head all the time.
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Posted 8/15/16



I honestly don't . I just let it go , but it will take time for the wound to heal .
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Posted 8/15/16
I never really find myself hating people, so I find it impossible for me to hold a grudge.
Posted 8/15/16 , edited 8/15/16
For all the times I've been backstabbed you would think, but I don't hate anyone really. Hate is a heavy burden I can do without. Just let them go on hating and I'll be watching anime. Whatever works. Same as ignoring them. h
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28 / M / Kansas, USA
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Posted 8/15/16
Not really. What I mean is I don't dwell on the ways I have been wronged by others. I won't hate someone who has done me wrong, I will just choose to no longer acknowledge their existence.
Posted 8/15/16
Yes.
Posted 8/16/16

PandAndy wrote:

Not really. What I mean is I don't dwell on the ways I have been wronged by others. I won't hate someone who has done me wrong, I will just choose to no longer acknowledge their existence.


Same. It feels awful to hate someone. Indifference is so much bettter.
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