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Post Reply Are you one of those people who has zero friends and plan to keep it that way ?
Posted 6/28/16

Ocale wrote:


qualeshia3 wrote:

You prefer your loneliness, huh?


Not everyone feels lonely when they're alone.


You're introverted. That's not a bad thing at all.
Posted 6/28/16 , edited 6/28/16

Ocale wrote: A large problem, though, is that I only know how to talk about myself, since I have nothing in my life other than myself and the very few niche things that I happen to somewhat enjoy. Because of this, I'll appear narcissistic and whiney most of the time, and these traits might be true, but I don't know, it's hard to judge.

At this point, I don't think I can have a proper friendship. I never learned how to care about someone or to understand others' care for me.


Its fine to talk only about yourself, be real. One of my friends only talks about himself and I like to listen because I actually relate to things he says. Just remember that there are so many different people out there and there are people out there who are right and not right for you. Don't worry, I bet you could have a good friendship with someone
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Posted 6/28/16
"one of those people"
I don't really like generalizing people like that. I don't have many friends and I intend to keep it that way, but other people who do the same thing might be doing it for a different reason than me. It's not very nice ya know
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Posted 6/28/16

jaykirbydudee wrote:

"one of those people"
I don't really like generalizing people like that. I don't have many friends and I intend to keep it that way, but other people who do the same thing might be doing it for a different reason than me. It's not very nice ya know


Sorry.
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Posted 6/28/16

qualeshia3 wrote:

Sorry.


lol no hard feelings . Btw my reasoning for having 0 friends involves having low energy levels to start with, and my personality test coming back 94% introverted 6% extroverted. In other words I literally die after interacting with other people (offline, I could continue conversations online for hours if the other party so wished). Otherwise I can (probably) make friends if I tried but I'd rather not commit suicide by draining my energy to hell.
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Posted 6/28/16

jaykirbydudee wrote:


qualeshia3 wrote:

Sorry.


lol no hard feelings . Btw my reasoning for having 0 friends involves having low energy levels to start with, and my personality test coming back 94% introverted 6% extroverted. In other words I literally die after interacting with other people (offline, I could continue conversations online for hours if the other party so wished). Otherwise I can (probably) make friends if I tried but I'd rather not commit suicide by draining my energy to hell.


Alright.
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Posted 6/28/16
Nope.
Alot less than i used to, but that's part of getting older and growing up.
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Posted 6/28/16
I think they are not in mood to make friends and talk
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Do you care for your family?
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Posted 6/28/16
Well, I've made no friends through social media. Or on here. I've tried. Maybe not hard enough. I just don't go out so as far as I can see it's a party of one
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Posted 6/28/16
Iam quite happy having a much smaller circle of friends than what i used to and i enjoy time alone.
i dont really get bored or lonley much but i couldn't really imagine having no friends. I think that's unfortunate for you.
I think everyone needs friends. Even if not in person, people to play on line games with at least and etc

Iam sure i would be unhappy with no friends. I have brothers n a sister to hang out with also. Sometimes i do miss the old days where i went to parties and piss ups but i have indeed always enjoyed time to myslef.



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Posted 6/28/16
Yes. I have zero friends offline. Online I don't exactly have friends but there are people I am friendly with. It's hard to explain why I don't have any. I feel they are just too temporary to bother with and also feel as if I'm just not worth being friends with among other things.
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I have zero really close friends. Lots of good friends who've gone off and are doing their own things. But I just don't feel a need to get or stay super close with other people.
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Posted 6/28/16 , edited 6/28/16
I think it's a shame some of you dont feel you have any real friends. I had many associates and the like back in the day but i have stuck with a few of my real friends since WAY back like childhood and teen years.
I have not stayed in touch with many people i went to high school with though. Hardley any.

I've laso made new friends along the way. Went to a couple different schools but also worked at a couple different places and made friends at work.
I've had alot of friends come and go though.
I've made friends playing pool in a social leauge, joing an on line gaming clan, etc but alot of them do come and go.
Plus i've experienced having friends wrong do you or become a burden. But treu friends that you can trust are priceless.

I have some friends i just see like a couple/few times a year.
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Posted 6/28/16
I dont understand people.
So i dont want human friends out of the digital space.
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