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"Stalker." "Creep" "Abuse" etc.
Posted 6/29/16 , edited 6/29/16
This thread is about attitudes of hostility and how factors such as gender somehow always plays into it sooner or later.

I'm tired of some same old drama on the forums

Ever since I removed the "F" from my account I've been taking shit from skanks on CR that cry "Stalker" when I'm just fucking around having fun teasing these drama whores.

This goes out to the drama queens : Ain't nobody stalking your paranoid ass.

You know I don't even care really, as I know what's true and what isn't, so, moving to the point I want to make:

Now this seems to be another way how differently society sees men and women differently. If someone percieved as female were to tease someone its considered playful and if not, its considered harrassment.

Whenever a guy claims "abuse", its taken with a grain of salt, whereas a woman does it people freak the fuck out.

I hate being female, and am not particuarly all that feminine online, so I don't always really care if I'm percieved as a male,. just saying people are fucking stupid over the dumbest shit. Aint nobody coming after you with an ave no matter what shit you start. not all of us life for your griefer drama shit.

Well, are all guys that tease you back stalkers, ladies? And gents, how you feel about being the center of some paranoid bitches conspiracy theories? I keep wanting to say get help and on some meds, cuz I aint the one that wants your sick pathetic ass. get a boyfirend to feel secure about your sorry and just stfu.

Who has encountered someone that wants to demonize you and drag you into their little hate societies bc we get guys on pretty tight leashes due to feminazis and feminists. Only so much can one say hey i didn't do it, leave ME alone, this forum is for everybody. thanks.

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Posted 6/29/16
I don't entirely understand what this thread is about...
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I don't entirely understand what this thread is about...


Paranoia and gendered stereotypes I suppose.
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Posted 6/29/16 , edited 6/29/16

PeripheralVisionary wrote:

I don't entirely understand what this thread is about...


I think this is the salient point for discussion, preceded by the OP's own experience with having received accusations of harassment--that seemed to be related to lack of an "F" denotation.


Who has encountered someone that wants to demonize you and drag you into their little hate societies bc we get guys on pretty tight leashes due to feminazis and feminists.


I have not personally been dragged into this kind of drama, aside from mod reports that claim harassment.

I do see indications sometimes of how similar/same behavior is perceived differently depending on whether the doers are male or female. We certainly see it in anime a lot, and to me it feels like it's especially done the way it is in order to give some cheap jollies while sidestepping the harassment morass.

For example, boob-fondling, or other kinds of (usually unwelcome) touch. This happens a lot between girls in anime and is presented as a harmless tease, all in good fun (and for the titillation of viewers). If, however, this kind of activity were intentionally performed by a male character toward a girl it would be NOT OKAY. Only a villain or scum male character would do this.

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Posted 6/29/16 , edited 6/29/16
Well even though they seem to be rasing girls to believe that all males are potential rapists and perverted pedo's these days i actually haven't experienced it personally too much.

But it is true what you say. if a man is being harassed by a women it is not taken seriously. Women can sexually harass/flrt with/whistle at/etc men and it's ok but not the other way around.
Women can hit men, but not the other way around.
There are alot of double standards in certian areas.
They're are really pushing hard in Australia with the whole "violence against women" thing and domestic violence yet all the violence and mental trauma and depression and sucide of men is not taken seriously at all.
And sort of like you say, a women can be really abusing a man and if he pesponds the first thing the women will do is play victim look for a white knight.
It must be really confusing for young males now. It's sexist and creepy to be nice to girls and give them special treatment, yet its also sexist to be mean to them.
Girls like being flirted with, but thats sexist and offensive and sexual objectification.
Women are now "equal" and cant even admit that males are stronger physically yet still act like all men are abusive and dont know how to treat women and that women need protcting. It's confusing.

But what you say reminds me of a meme. It was of a guy simply sayinh "hi" to a girl and her immediate reaction being "i have a boyfriend" and him being like "i said hi, i didn't say suck my dick?" lol

Eh who knows maybe some of the girls here are up themselves, maybe some of them have been stalked or had a bad experience with a creepy guy(s)?
Maybe some just as you say, paranoid.
I know that there have been times here on mutiple occasions where i have tried to make jokes and be funny and have offended. I dont private messege people here or stalk profiles though.

Oops ranting lol.





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Posted 6/29/16
It also seems to be about double standards and, I don't know, attacking people with streets.
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I never state if I'm male or female on any site. No one calls me a creep/etc. on the sites where people assume I'm male, and no one calls me a creep/etc. on sites where they assume I'm female. I get more General "support" on the sites where I'm thought to be female, though, when it comes to life problems or things like that that are brought up.
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Posted 6/29/16
I wish I had a stalker.

Just not like my last one who was borderline Yuno Gasai
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Women perpetuate victim narratives while simultaneously demanding that they be treated as men. Unfortunately, one cannot have victims without designating villains.

It is frustrating for women who actually demonstrate their word with action--to watch other women trample upon it with their exaggerated distress and constant bemoaning.

It makes for a bitter woman who finds herself embarrassed and frustrated with her gender.

It's rather unfortunate how pitiful most women are. Most of them are simply ignorant of knowing any better. Ignorance can be a crime of its own though...

Posted 6/29/16

PrinceJudar wrote:

Women perpetuate victim narratives while simultaneously demanding that they be treated as men. Unfortunately, one cannot have victims without designating villains.

It is frustrating for women who actually demonstrate their word with action--to watch other women trample upon it with their exaggerated distress and constant bemoaning.

It makes for a bitter woman who finds herself embarrassed and frustrated with her gender.

It's rather unfortunate how pitiful most women are. Most of them are simply ignorant of knowing any better. Ignorance can be a crime of its own though...



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I find the whole discussion of "stalkers" interesting from various perspectives.

First, in many movies from the original stalker in Fatal Attraction, to many manga and anime, it seems there are more female stalkers than male, although both seem to exist in entertainment.

Second, after living outside Los Angeles for 4 years and seeing the many articles in the paper about people who stalk those in the entertainment industry, it seems like there are roughly an equal number of break ins by men and women reported...although I never did a formal count of this behavior. Not all the stalkers were breaking in some simply camp out like paparazzi.

Third, I personally have been stalked by a man I dated during college. I broke up with him only to discover he was going to friends to find out the classes I was taking so he could sign up for them and sit near me. I'd go on a date to the movie theater and we'd get seated only to have him show up about 10 minutes later and take the seat on my other side. After college, he kept tabs on me by sending people to talk to my mother at her job and ask about me. He's still trying to contact me on Facebook, and other social media despite me blocking him every time he turns up.
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Posted 6/29/16
if i read that right the OP is calling out people who retaliate to minor offenses with a criminal accusation. Something we all should frown upon.
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Could you go back to tumblr?
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you're annoying, you followed me the other day
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