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Girls has this happened to you ever?
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1stladyent wrote:

This happens to me quite regularly, from little kids to really old men. I keep headphones on or earbuds when I'm out in public, and the times where I don't have any music playing, I can hear them talking about me. I've had little kids run up to me to squeeze my butt out of nowhere, guys in groups surrounding me (for intimidation purposes? not sure) and even old men telling each other if they were decades younger they'd steal me away. I've had grown men do stupid things like brush up TOO close on me on escalators and elevators until their leg is on my butt.

Honestly, you can't control their thoughts or actions, and they can't control your reactions. If it's happened to you once, it'll keep happening, so the best thing to do is leave it alone, ignore it and don't react, because it could be too, they were trying to get a reaction out of you. I just walk past and look ahead. I never look back at such people. As long as I pay it no mind at the time, they usually give up/don't continue the harassment.


This story seems hyperbolic.
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..... Hmmmm.

Okay folks. If you want to post your opinion in this thread, feel free. But you need to do it in a way that is not derogatory and insulting to other forum users. Rule of thumb, if you can't post without directly insulting someone... don't post.
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This has got to be the dumbest thread I've ever read. I mean you're really upset about what other people are saying about you? So what, be happy you're attractive. I bet when the complements stop, there will be a time when you WISH guys talked about you like that again. My advice, Stop being a sensitive little baby crying every time you eavesdrop on other people's conversations, you have no right trying to police a conversations you're not a part of, even if they are talking about you. Furthermore, you're not a special snowflake, so stop acting like this problem is even a problem at all, because it's not. Grow up, ignore it and move on like an adult.


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stars201 wrote:
That is weird. I'd never get turned on by a bitch like me


To some guys, resting bitch face = fiesty kitten

At least from what I've heard.

PS - I'm sure lots of guys on here (CR) are tickled by your "bitch" posts



Hey now don't give us masochists a bad name okay...regardless if stars201 does come across as the type we'd find attractive....and I am digging myself a hole once again...meh.
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shugotenshi-atm wrote:

Little kids run up and squeeze your butt? Really? That must be one pretty posterior.

I guess it depends on the person's tastes.


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I once saw a picture. I died of blood loss.

I'm sorry, my bloodlust came out. I'll limit myself to half a pint of blood next time.


Senjougahara_Hitagi wrote:

This story seems hyperbolic.

Nice. Glad to know my life is an exaggeration to some.


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Velvet_Crowe wrote:

I have resting bitch face so I always look unappealing to everyone.


I've been told countless times I have a bitch face as well. People are turned off by it and they all avoid me xDDDDDDDD

Resting bitch face never stopped some guys. A lot of them get turned on by the tsundere aura.

Posted 6/30/16 , edited 6/30/16
I've had some racist slurs thrown at me when I was on public transport.. Sad but true. Kind of blame it on people like Trump. Never had any compliments before on my appearance - unlike OP.
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Sad how people with premium accounts can troll. These people have nothing to lose except forum privileges, which they don't care about, but what can you do?
Posted 6/30/16

Senjougahara_Hitagi wrote:


1stladyent wrote:

This happens to me quite regularly, from little kids to really old men. I keep headphones on or earbuds when I'm out in public, and the times where I don't have any music playing, I can hear them talking about me. I've had little kids run up to me to squeeze my butt out of nowhere, guys in groups surrounding me (for intimidation purposes? not sure) and even old men telling each other if they were decades younger they'd steal me away. I've had grown men do stupid things like brush up TOO close on me on escalators and elevators until their leg is on my butt.

Honestly, you can't control their thoughts or actions, and they can't control your reactions. If it's happened to you once, it'll keep happening, so the best thing to do is leave it alone, ignore it and don't react, because it could be too, they were trying to get a reaction out of you. I just walk past and look ahead. I never look back at such people. As long as I pay it no mind at the time, they usually give up/don't continue the harassment.


This story seems hyperbolic.


She's just sharing a story. I do think she's really good-looking though. .......... Hope that's not weird to say.
Posted 6/30/16

1stladyent wrote:


stars201 wrote:


Velvet_Crowe wrote:

I have resting bitch face so I always look unappealing to everyone.


I've been told countless times I have a bitch face as well. People are turned off by it and they all avoid me xDDDDDDDD

Resting bitch face never stopped some guys. A lot of them get turned on by the tsundere aura.



That is weird. I'd never get turned on by a bitch like me
Posted 6/30/16
I would tell them to shut up and then leave.
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Just ignore them, they either want a reaction out of you or want to impress you. If they don't get what they want they'll just stop
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I can see some heavy pruning's been done to this thread, given how out of whack the time-stamps are.

Sorry OP, but to some extent this is teens being teens, bundles of overactive hormones that they are. Hell, even I engaged in some conversations like that as a teen. I'm more concerned that they apparently lacked the courtesy (and common sense) to make sure they did so from well out of earshot, there isn't really any excuse for that.
Posted 6/30/16

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This has got to be the dumbest thread I've ever read. I mean you're really upset about what other people are saying about you? So what, be happy you're attractive. I bet when the complements stop, there will be a time when you WISH guys talked about you like that again. My advice, Stop being a sensitive little baby crying every time you eavesdrop on other people's conversations, you have no right trying to police a conversations you're not a part of, even if they are talking about you. Furthermore, you're not a special snowflake, so stop acting like this problem is even a problem at all, because it's not. Grow up, ignore it and move on like an adult.


>> Just your opinion and no I did not take them as compliments people should learn manners.
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I don't think anyone should have to put up with comments like that , female or male. People should have some consideration , it is not flattering to have some stranger sexualise your body and treat you like a piece of meat.
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Posted 6/30/16

stars201 wrote:
That is weird. I'd never get turned on by a bitch like me


To some guys, resting bitch face = fiesty kitten

At least from what I've heard.

PS - I'm sure lots of guys on here (CR) are tickled by your "bitch" posts

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Pyrotek45 wrote:

This has got to be the dumbest thread I've ever read. I mean you're really upset about what other people are saying about you? So what, be happy you're attractive. I bet when the complements stop, there will be a time when you WISH guys talked about you like that again. My advice, Stop being a sensitive little baby crying every time you eavesdrop on other people's conversations, you have no right trying to police a conversations you're not a part of, even if they are talking about you. Furthermore, you're not a special snowflake, so stop acting like this problem is even a problem at all, because it's not. Grow up, ignore it and move on like an adult.



Why would anyone wish for people to be gross asses and to be harassed? Those are NOT complements.
Its not eavesdropping when they are right next to you. And yes if people are talking gross about you right next to you, you have every right to get in their face about it. It is a problem and ignoring it is NOT the adult thing to do. Letting people walk all over you does not make you a adult.
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Not responding to children is called growing up.
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I was raised not to do shit like that. Blame parenting more than just them being men / male. Tact is a valuable thing and it's sorely lacking in most people these days.

I like butts, boobs, legs, and all the rest, and somehow I can still approach them without the demeanor of a horny dog...

At my job I see it happen to women all the time. Once in a while you'll get a woman who seems really happy about it, but all the rest are annoyed at those comments. I've always been too self conscious myself, so I guess it never crosses my mind to remark about someone's body to anyone, especially the subject. I just know how awkward it makes me feel when someone comments on my features. I am considered fairly attractive, so I've been told. I don't exactly disagree, I guess, but it still makes me feel like I'm under the microscope and I don't like that very much.

To me, the natural reaction is to keep potentially volatile thoughts to myself to keep potentially volatile situations from occurring... heh.

Know what drives me crazy? When I see those guys get the girl.

Off-topic, but those same type of guys usually turn around and treat their women like shit too. That's just in the store, I can about imagine what these classy guys are like at home. I guess I'm not compatible with an M.


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It is a problem and ignoring it is NOT the adult thing to do. Letting people walk all over you does not make you a adult.


^ This. One of the truest things I've read. It's important to not take things TOO seriously but I feel like something needs to be said when people are acting out and being inconsiderate / disrespectful. I may not get heated about most things, but I definitely believe in standing your ground in regards to the respect you're shown.

Way too much disrespect in general out there. I was raised to give everyone a default level of respect until they do something to lose it, not the other way around. If it was the other way around, no one would ever respect anyone at all, ever.
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Lol if you idiots get mad they win. That's the whole point of fucking with someone. To get a reaction. If you just at like an adult and ignore the children then good on you for growing up. If you however throw a fit about it then you played right into their trap. Don't be played a fool. Grow up, and ignore it.
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People need to toughen the fuck up and stop playing the victim. You can't go around telling people to be nice, you have to teach people how to deal with it. Same with bullies, douchebags aren't going away so adapt , ignore and move on. If they aren't touching you then it's not harassment. I don't condone douche behavior but I don't think people should cry about it and tell people to be nice either , because that approach doesn't work .
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Also, the fact that this behavior even gets under your skin shows how immature you guys are. Grown men and women wouldn't even be bothered by childish behavior in the first place. this is life and people all around us are fucking annoying from women drivers to douchebag guys who fuck over women. It's all here. But does that mean you should let it get to you? Does that mean I should ram any car that's cuts me off? No, it means you grow the fuck up and deal with life like all the other grown ass men and women do, and to stop acting like a special snowflake
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