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Can we understand the opposite gender?
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21 / F / Waterford...cali
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Posted 7/9/07
how come girls a always sooo emotional... and guys.....how are they always non-luv able...well most of the time.
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23 / F / I live in england...
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hmmm its different for different people.......not all girls are emotional and not all guys are emotionally detached......
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30 / F / Hawaii
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i agree with amanda! XD I hate it when guys assume all girls are prissy and emotional. but stereotypes are practically unavoidable! ^_^''' on both sexes. most guys are shocked to learn that i would rather stay home with my ps2 than run around the mall.
Posted 7/9/07
I think it's just hard because you don't know the other sex as well like for girls who only hang out with guys they can have trouble hanging out with girls.
Personal example : my sister is kinda boyish but i can't pretty much read her mind due to the fact that she use to hit me whenever she thought i did something annoying so i get allong with her really well but others who i don't know as well it's harder
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23 / M / the world of Dark...
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Posted 7/9/07
really we r all the same yet different at the same time like some guys r as emotional as some girls and some girls keep 2 themselves like some guys do
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23 / M / Canada, Vancouver
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no really >_> some girls can be not luv able and some guys can it allreally depends on what people are u talking about ^__^ like me i'm wuveable ... right (@_@)
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26 / M / Sask-at-chew-an,...
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Emotions are for the weak. No but seriousely when I was like 3 or 4 I remember always hearing that boys didn't cry and boys didn't share their feelings. Maybe alot of other guys have heard this and thats why they aren't "luv able". As for girls saying one thing and meaning another. Well, they say what they mean but its always hidden in there and you have to sift through-out the words to find it.

But in the end no two people are the same so there is probably lv able guys and terrible girls.
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Posted 7/9/07

Acer2110 wrote:

Emotions are for the weak. No but seriousely when I was like 3 or 4 I remember always hearing that boys didn't cry and boys didn't share their feelings. Maybe alot of other guys have heard this and thats why they aren't "luv able". As for girls saying one thing and meaning another. Well, they say what they mean but its always hidden in there and you have to sift through-out the words to find it.

But in the end no two people are the same so there is probably lv able guys and terrible girls.


It might actually be possible that our OP has opened a previously untouched can of worms (on CR at least). While girls being emotional and men being stolic is a generalism, it's fairly accurate.

For men we are bought up to be be strong, to not show emotion. Acer is exactly right in saying that we are told 'men don't cry'. This often leads us to bottle-up our emotions and have very limted skill in expressing our feelings.
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34 / F / Monterey, CA
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well i can't say for every girl, but at least for me, showing my emotions other than anger... not ok.
Crying in public - oh dear god no!
Posted 7/9/07
im not so good at it but some people can do it
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F / ♫~Canada~Vancouver☺
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Posted 7/9/07
it depends sometimes well i dont understand. but i understand my own gender;s feelings etc.
Posted 7/9/07
I've dated guys who are more emotional than me. It's actually REALLY annoying and disgusting so I can understand why guys dislike overly-emotional girls.

Anyways, I think this differs from person to person and not by sex.
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25 / F / right now in ruff...
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Posted 7/9/07
of course u can =)
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24 / M / Fort Hood Texas
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its cuz guys like 2 be tough and they wanna be the man when they r around girls
and not all guys r like that sum guys r sensitive 2 lol....
if u get 2 emotional u could look like u r a weak bf 2 ur luvers?
Posted 7/9/07

Jessie_luvs_dylan wrote:

how come girls a always sooo emotional... and guys.....how are they always non-luv able...well most of the time.


hell yes!! i am unlovable and unemotional!!!
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