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Can we understand the opposite gender?
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Posted 7/9/07

xidiya wrote:

I'm gonna throw in 2 more cents worth of nonsense. The question is not whether women can understand men or vice versa, the questions is whether I care enough to understand another person. The answer to that for the most part is NO. I don't really give a crap. Most of the time, I don't want to understand another person, I just want them to either shut up or agree with me b/c of course, I AM ALWAYS RIGHT.

Also, thinking about it, my BF is WAY more emotional than I am, even though he expresses his emotions less often than I do. This is probably b/c I am quite indifferent to people and things where as he isn't.



im pretty damn sure i said something similar but less direct... i hoped people would catch on.

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Posted 7/9/07

Dusterbayala wrote:

@Jorl
LOL!

anyway.. sorry.
I think that once people realise that the opposite sex wants basically the same thing that your sex does, just in a different way. It's the manner in which the opposite sex goes after something that confuses the opposite sex.
I personally have no problems with the opposite sex, i understand men TEN TIMES better than women.


i have to adjust my statement here...
I can;t understand jealousy. i just don't get it.
Posted 7/9/07
Dusterbayala: Let me explain jealousy to you in simple terms. Jealousy is insecurity. Only insecure people are jealous because they are always second-guessing their own sense of self-worth.
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i always thought it was a fear of being alone... or losing.... but your version would make sense too..
I mean i understand what jealousy is i just don't get why people get it...
i dunno, i don't want to elaborate any further..
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Posted 7/9/07

xidiya wrote:

Dusterbayala: Let me explain jealousy to you in simple terms. Jealousy is insecurity. Only insecure people are jealous because they are always second-guessing their own sense of self-worth.


Not always true. For example, this fat chick will be jealous of the skiny chick because of obvious reason. I'm not saying anything against fat people, but DAMN momma!





Posted 7/9/07
I'm still RIGHT b/c the fat chick is more insecure than the skinny chick and probably has lower self esteem (in general).

You see, insecurity has many causes. One of them IS being fat and ugly.
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Posted 7/9/07

xidiya wrote:

I'm still RIGHT b/c the fat chick is more insecure than the skinny chick and probably has lower self esteem (in general).

You see, insecurity has many causes. One of them IS being fat and ugly.


YEAH! I forgot T_T
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Posted 7/9/07
well it differs from person
but all emotional people are annoying i think the guys that hide there feelings have the best idea
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Posted 7/9/07
ok let me say it nice and simple.
Men as friends i completely understand.
Men as casual sex partners, I completely understand.
Men as cometitve entites, i understand.
Men in emotional relatioships? I"m fucking lost.
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Posted 7/9/07

mushroomjay wrote:


Dusterbayala wrote:

ok let me say it nice and simple.
Men as friends i completely understand.
Men as casual sex partners, I completely understand.
Men as cometitve entites, i understand.
Men in emotional relatioships? I"m fucking lost.


Which is why you ask me.


well if i can't ask my guys pals, who can i ask?
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Posted 7/9/07
As of so far, I've had not many problems.
I just hope later will be as good xP
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Posted 7/10/07
ye answer that and u'd become famouse....
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Posted 7/12/07
Of course, lol! I understand my bro and my friends who are guys.
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Posted 10/14/07
yeah to an extent plus we all have different personallties so that makes it harder
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Posted 10/14/07
understanding the opposite gender is practically impossible for me unless they tell me what they're feeling or make it very obvious
girls understand girls' feelings (usually) while boys understand boys' feelings (usually)
that's what i think~
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